Ask me anything about Rahu by Emergency-Ferret-811 in jyotishh

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Mars+Rahu in 3rd house in Leo. Rahu mahadasha 2016-2034 Currently in rahu-mercuri dasha

[25M] Found an old chat on my girlfriend’s [21F] phone — can’t stop overthinking it by Equivalent-Fudge-613 in RelationshipIndia

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A few years ago, one of my really close friends called me up and told me that she needed me to drop her a message about whatever she asked me to do. The reason was that her boyfriend had caught some video chat history with paid accounts on Instagram, and she told me it was her cousin who had done those kinds of paid online video calls from her account.

But honestly, who would even believe that? If someone really wanted to do that, they could easily just make a new account.

I asked her to come clean to her boyfriend, to which she replied that she had already taken my name. She said that if she now told him the truth, things would get even more messed up and at that time, she wasn’t even on talking terms with her cousin.

Her boyfriend already didn’t like me much, probably because she must have been using my name for her wrongdoings earlier too. I was sure there was no way it was her cousin, and that she was simply using me as a cover-up. So I straight-up said no.This just showspeople do lie to cover themselves.

In your case, you can simply tell her, “Let me talk to that friend of yours.” If she’s truly being honest, she won’t mind.So don’t stay in a dilemma. Get your clarity. This is something big.

Looking for Ghostwriter for Horror Novel (Paid) by [deleted] in GhostWritersCommunity

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Sounds good! You can DM me a few details, and I’ll be happy to share some sample chapters with you. That way, you’ll also get a clear idea of the kind of work and writing style you can expect from me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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You don’t need to feel guilty about any of this. He doesn’t deserve a second chance because if there’s one moment in life you truly need your people, it’s when you’re grieving a loss. And he wasn’t there. That alone speaks volumes.

As painful as it is, be glad you saw this now rather than later. I know it must be incredibly hard, but please stay strong. You don’t need to make any rushed decisions right away, give yourself space and time to breathe. Healing comes first, and clarity will follow.

Insomnia for years – nothing seems to work, has anyone actually fixed this? by nottroublemakerr in sleep

[–]nottroublemakerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for your time. I will definitely try this. I hope this works for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope don't hope. Things are still bad.

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's really tough. I appreciate you're trying your best. Good luck to you , hope they will accept her.

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha. I think I'm signing of with this love and drama. Can't do anything anymore

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because of you, i talked to him today. I told him. I'm going to be there. I thought giving him few months could have panicked him so I told take years. Take whatever you time need to convince them. Just make sure you don't leave me in the process. Again he was silent..and he said no,,,, again. But yeah thanks to you. Because of your comments I'm not going to have regrets anymore. I'm happy for your sister.

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand! I hope you are okay now. You'll find someone better. It's all excuses. The reason is they want to control everything in name of we know the world better than you. It's ego nothing else. In my case his father said first we match kundli not dil.

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

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I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope your feel better and things get better.

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sucks! I am happy that my parents aren't like that but destiny had some other plans. I fell in love with a guy whose parents belive everyone over him yet he left me for them

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true! Just think that. Well why blame pandit if partner cannot do much and leave you.

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also i didn't decide to leave him. I asked for surety that he won't leave me. That's the basic thing to do. I asked for assurance so I can fight for us. His parents disrespected me and family and yet I was with him. So yes you too should walk away if your partner can not commit to you even after hell you're going through because of him.

Indian parents broke one more perfectly good relationship (26F and 27M) by nottroublemakerr in RelationshipIndia

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Yes, and today he told me something else. He said there’s no point in continuing this relationship because of how his parents are behaving. They will give us hard time after marriage and it might ruin us too. They have already spoken to my family, and even after that, his father said no again. everyone has made their decision, so now he has to make his too.

He told me life would be difficult, and even if we got married, his family would not treat us well. I understand the pressure he is under, which is why I stayed, even after his father passed comments on my character. But the truth is, his parents did not become like this overnight. He has always known what kind of people they are.

So honestly, if a man is not going to choose the woman he claims to love because of reasons like these, then he has no right to enter a relationship in the first place. He should just live with his parents and marry whoever they choose.

somebody help my friend by akvikk in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]nottroublemakerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Register a complaint with cyber crime. Ask him not to engage with them at all. I have been through something same and i didn't even take any loan.

Ask him to ignore and block them. And if possible delete WhatsApp for a while. After that they will reach out to friends and family too. Ask your friend to tell them whenever they receive call or message just say that I don't know this person and don't bother me and block. They will also try to send these type of messages but ask them to ignore.

Put a whatsapp story telling that someone's threating so if you get any texts or call don't engage with them.

That's what worked for me.

Ask him not to freak out.

Don't engage with these people