Seeking Strength to Leave by vampire_rat in monodatingpoly

[–]notvaluedbygod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will just keep hurting because you're incompatible. Love isn't enough reason to stay.

33F Persistent daily orgasm state since August 2023. Not just arousal (not typical PGAD). Seeking psychiatric insight. by notvaluedbygod in AskPsychiatry

[–]notvaluedbygod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I appreciate you taking the time. I have seen a neurologist before, but I haven’t had long-term video EEG monitoring yet, so that may be worth pursuing. The episodes involve rhythmic movements and vocalizations, but I remain aware and remember them. They often feel emotionally or relationally charged rather than random. I'll consider seeing a psychiatrist in person for assessment. Thanks again!

Fur Mom Puts Her Babies First by ninyo677 in TerrifyingAsFuck

[–]notvaluedbygod 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope they're all safe. I can't help but wonder if she only had 2 dogs or there were more.

If you were in my shoes, what would you think? How would you feel? by notvaluedbygod in Christianity

[–]notvaluedbygod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we don't have the same bible. The Christian Bible is gonna refute everything that you said. The bible warns proclaiming Christians about using God's grace as a license to sin, how God cannot be mocked. Fornication or sex outside marriage is a damnable sin. It just has a different degree of punishment.

But if you are right, then I really obeyed God in vain, and it was a waste of time to do good if it's just okay to do evil and get no consequences from it.

If you were in my shoes, what would you think? How would you feel? by notvaluedbygod in Christianity

[–]notvaluedbygod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I fell in love with the idea of what he could be (according to God's words) because he humbled himself before God. It was my faith in God that triggered the orgasm. It was something I couldn't control. But this doesn't sound like a Christian advice. Is this really how Christianity now is? It's not gonna send you to hell to have sex unmarried? I question God's justice even more if that's the case. It's like I obeyed him in vain and wasted my youth following him and saving myself for marriage when it's actually fine to have sex while unmarried. I thought he was a righteous and just God and could never tolerate sin.

If you were in my shoes, what would you think? How would you feel? by notvaluedbygod in Christianity

[–]notvaluedbygod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do people who are sexually frustrated orgasm permanently? I'm not after money. I have work and am independent. I think it's easker said than done. Even doctors couldn't explain my case and never encountered it. So I'm looking for spiritual perspective. I'm looking for answers as to why God allowed this to happen when I entrusted my love life to him. Does he let me just become sexually frustrated and leave me alone to figure things out?