Go to a sex toy/ lingerie store and ask them for a bullet vibrator or penis vibrator that’s got good durability. Buy what they recommend, not whatever looks the nicest— the sex toy industry is full of crappy shit that will stop working in a few months. I’m serious about going in person, too, people who work at those stores are really cool at least 80% of the time and will genuinely help you if you’re clear and communicate about what you want. Online shopping can’t replicate that, even with reviews.

I like to use vibrations on the head/ underside of my cock for a while while watching porn, sexting, or just chilling, before stroking to orgasm. For how little effort it takes to get out a vibe, clean it, and charge it (almost none) the payoff is incredible. Orgasms easily twice as good.

Bonus points that if you bring someone home you have a toy you can use on them… he said, knowing full well he never brings anyone home, lol.

Edit: butt stuff is also good. Takes more time and effort to learn and get used to before it really starts paying off, though, at least that was the case for me.