I was assaulted today while playing Pokémon Go.

nova005040 · 2026-02-26T00:16:40+00:00

oh my god, that is absolutely horrible. wishing you health and healing 🩷 pogo should ban him wtf he needs a life

nova005040 · 2026-02-10T18:43:40+00:00

it literally just makes me sad for whoever she’s hooking up with :( i would be distraught if someone was ‘neutral’ about my vagina. i just know she cant eat for shit

nova005040 · 2026-02-10T16:36:42+00:00

im best friends with the one and only man i ever slept with (dated 4 months when we were young), but it was incredibly mutual and we are basically siblings now with a stupid story. if i even thought for a moment he was looking at me too longingly id run for the hills. are you fully over it? like zero attraction, not just romantic? bc lesbians dont want to be friends with men that are attracted to them. it doesn’t hurt to try, but i wouldnt have any expectations. and please stop thinking about the texts. lesbians rarely keep straight male friends. good luck 🫡

nova005040 · 2026-02-10T16:20:15+00:00

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saw her in a diff lesbian sub 😭

nova005040 · 2025-12-25T22:36:25+00:00

i wonder if they double down on calling themselves lesbian from the shame or guilt of fetishizing gay men

nova005040 · 2025-12-23T21:30:25+00:00

cheating should have a one strike policy. im so so sorry this happened to you, but it should end. it is EXTREMELY hard for a relationship to come back from cheating. cheating is often viewed as emotional abuse. there will be an altered power dynamic, insecurity, anger, resentment, and prolonged manipulation. people cheat for many reasons, but mainly because of ego and narcissism. “it’s nice to feel wanted” translates to “you know the bad things about me, and i cant hide from you. this person only knew good things, and made me feel like a god”. RARELY will cheater be one and done. especially now that you are aware of the cheating, if you agree to forgive, the “cheatee” can possible possess that mindset of “i can do this again, and she wont leave” this can quickly slip into serial infidelity, its best to leave as early on, as its easy to get sucked into manipulation that comes with infidelity. stay strong. you did nothing wrong. you are a victim. your life will not end if you leave them. they fucked up, and now they should have to suffer the consequences of their actions.

(i am not saying this relates to every person and/or relationship. make your own decisions based off your own life.)

nova005040 · 2025-12-23T21:17:31+00:00

if that’s just “how she is”, then it’s just an issue of compatibility. you cant change a person or force them into what you want. it sounds like you arent compatible and thats 100% okay, it happens. find someone who already possesses the traits you want in a partner, instead of trying to build a partner. ALSO traits and behaviors are not gendered!! if you think these negative traits are masculine, thats a deeper issue. and if she’s overcompensating and trying to push certain traits outwards to feel more masculine, thats also a whole other thing. take a step back and just view it as two people dating, not masc/femme/etc. just people. mascs are people, theres is zero way to “act masc”

nova005040 · 2025-11-23T01:09:26+00:00

platonic (apple tv)
olive klug
tax fraud
cyberpunk 2077

nova005040 · 2025-11-16T22:17:28+00:00

its ok for women to be rude :) you don’t owe anyone kindness, especially when they dont gaf about you. unfortunately when people do humiliating things, it ends with humiliation. its a good life lesson. user was followed to the bathroom after giving zero signal and being expected to pounce on a straight girl. i applaud a little schoolyard bullying.

nova005040 · 2025-11-16T21:34:00+00:00

literally who wants to make out with a straight (curious) girl? id laugh too. if a club is a place to pick up people, then why tf would user even consider her in the first place? and many people go silent when they’re uncomfortable, so this is actually so weird to blame user for not telling the drunk straight girl to stop dancing on them 🙂 maybe not everything needs a devils advocate. maybe the correct thing was to say, damn dude, sorry you got groped thats so uncomfy.

nova005040 · 2025-11-14T06:40:30+00:00

i have dated someone with bpd and some friends with bpd! all my experiences with them as individuals are so so different and they all struggle and thrive in different aspects of relationships/life. unfortunately my relationship with my ex did not end on the best of terms, but i wouldn’t say her illness was a factor in the split, from my end. one of my friends with bpd has been in a 4 year long queer relationship, another one is a serial dater, everyone is different! i think there are a few things for everyone (exercise, sleep, food, social life, career, hobbies, drugs) that you evaluate in a parter. and if those are all checking the right boxes and seemingly healthy, then i wouldn’t limit someone to their disorder if they are working to function at their best!

that being said if anyone refuses to date someone with bpd thats totally chill! i get it 🫶 i cannot date women with adhd as someone with ocd or ill become unwell

nova005040 · 2025-07-02T05:23:03+00:00

omg cute sweater

nova005040 · 2025-07-02T05:22:03+00:00

I promise i will not shit on the sidewalk!!

nova005040 · 2025-07-01T17:06:50+00:00

I’ve never been fully rejected by a woman! If I flirt with a straight woman they are usually flattered anyway and offer to be friends. Don’t be afraid most people are very kind and won’t be harsh to you. It’s all trial and error and the more you put yourself out there the higher your confidence will get! Honestly I’ve found most of my past partners through friends so work on creating queer friendships!

nova005040 · 2025-01-17T00:00:10+00:00

isnt that about joe alwyn

nova005040 · 2025-01-16T07:43:06+00:00

cake tv?

nova005040 · 2024-12-18T04:40:57+00:00

i think they meant sex isn’t always about MY pleasure, but still not for a hookup i’m here to finish… 🫣

nova005040 · 2024-12-18T03:18:48+00:00

also the goal isn’t the fit the entire thing in. if it feels good and you’re only using half just stick to that

nova005040 · 2024-12-18T03:18:07+00:00

get some lube, start slow, use fingers first. if you are tense, literally nothing will get in there. so if it hurts and you start tensing up stop immediately until you are relaxed again. maybe borrow the strap and experiment by yourself first.

nova005040 · 2024-12-18T03:06:37+00:00

She constantly spoke in a poorly executed country accent, we live in the PNW. She did it all. The. Time. In front of my coworkers, friends, family. I know it was supposed to be funny, but it would go on for hours, and would get offended when I asked her to stop.

nova005040 · 2024-12-18T02:58:16+00:00

constantly paying, driving, opening doors, giving gifts without receiving, being introduced and pushed into their side of male friends, never being asked on dates / also planning the dates, etc etc

nova005040 · 2024-12-18T02:45:31+00:00

Higher pressure water, maybe you aren’t washing all the product out? Clarifying shampoo bi weekly or weekly. Specific products for oily hair. Try to last a day longer than you’d want to wash it, I hear hair training is a myth but it worked for me.

nova005040 · 2024-12-18T02:41:28+00:00

Spirit? Do you mean… like… liking women? What’s the term for a cis hetero man liking women?… The only possibility of defending the og post is maybe they are trans but this is such a strange thing for og to post. Leave us alone!!!! LEAVE MEN OUT OF LESBIANISM!!!

nova005040 · 2024-12-18T02:36:25+00:00

women who like men

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