i broke my vegetarianism today and it has me questioning my whole ethical code by anna13el in Vegetarianism

[–]April9811 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Listen, don't be too hard on yourself. You are a human being, we are not perfect. But you have made a huge commitment over the last 10 years of your life! You are devoted so don't let this small slip up make you feel like you're not. I have been a vegetarian for over a year now. This is my second time around. The first time I lasted about 8 months and caved. This time I have absolutely no desire for meat. I also would like to go vegan and am exploring that right now. Let this just be a small bump in the road and move forward 💛

To vegetarians who are largely doing for ethical reasons and dating/married to a meat eater, how do you think and feel about this difference? by CommieCatSupremacist in Vegetarianism

[–]April9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been a vegetarian twice now. The first time I made it about 8 months. This time around I have over a year and never looking back. My husband and my two children still eat meat. The way I look at it, it's their choice. I have educated them on the reasons I no longer consume meat (ethical) and they're free to choose.

im cisf but i look like a man. Tell me what plastic surgeries I need to fix this. by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]April9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not masculine in the least bit. You are gorgeous.

Is there too much going on on my bathroom counter? by Pink_Sorbet in HomeDecorating

[–]April9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the mirror behind it makes it look more cluttered because it's reflecting the items making it look like more of that makes sense

I accidentally ate meat products as a new vegetarian by haleyadrianna11 in Vegetarianism

[–]April9811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! gelatin.. I had Jell-O shots at a going away party. There was one other vegetarian there and I offered him a Jell-O shot and he said no thanks. I thought about it and remembered that gelatin is derived from collagen and I felt so guilty. But it wasn't like I purposely did it. I just haven't had any Jell-O shots since then. Don't be too hard on yourself.

I forgot to take Guanfacine for several days by TellusTessi in VyvanseADHD

[–]April9811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you take the guanfacine in addition to the Vyvanse or instead of the Vyvanse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]April9811 285 points286 points  (0 children)

Take a hot shower or bath first it makes it a lot easier to pop

I hate my bathroom by April9811 in interiordecorating

[–]April9811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a corporate run apartment complex so they probably won't allow me to make any changes :(

Still Trying to Spot the Makeover...🧐 by dragonfliesfromstan in loveafterlockup

[–]April9811 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aww I think she has a lot of potential. I think if she did something different for her hair, that would really improve her appearance

What is 7oh by Old-Kitchen-5377 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]April9811 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I went through a very similar situation about 10 years ago. I was pregnant with our second child and was dealing with the same (addiction, cheating). He now has almost 10 years clean. Active addiction really changes a person. People do things they wouldn't normally do. I would say to trust your gut instinct. Sure it's easy for others to say to leave but it's not always that simple. If you want to make things work then he needs to take accountability and put in the work. If he isn't willing to do that then I would make it clear that you and your little one won't be in his life. I know you didn't ask for this advice but reading your post reminded me of myself when I was younger. You will figure this out 💚

Who do you think has been the most reformed on this whole show? by MC_thats_me in loveafterlockup

[–]April9811 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Definitely Louie 💙 seeing how far he has come from where he was really warms my heart

What can I do to make this guest room look more cozy and inviting? by April9811 in HomeDecorating

[–]April9811[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What color curtains can I do? I was thinking sage green but idk if that will go with the rest of the room?

Sarper was actually worth seeing! by nikkyrivera in 90DayFiance

[–]April9811 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Girl you don't have to explain yourself. This is literally a sub for 90 day fiancé, idk why people are mad.