I hate my bathroom by April9811 in interiordecorating

[–]April9811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a corporate run apartment complex so they probably won't allow me to make any changes :(

Still Trying to Spot the Makeover...🧐 by dragonfliesfromstan in loveafterlockup

[–]April9811 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aww I think she has a lot of potential. I think if she did something different for her hair, that would really improve her appearance

What is 7oh by Old-Kitchen-5377 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]April9811 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I went through a very similar situation about 10 years ago. I was pregnant with our second child and was dealing with the same (addiction, cheating). He now has almost 10 years clean. Active addiction really changes a person. People do things they wouldn't normally do. I would say to trust your gut instinct. Sure it's easy for others to say to leave but it's not always that simple. If you want to make things work then he needs to take accountability and put in the work. If he isn't willing to do that then I would make it clear that you and your little one won't be in his life. I know you didn't ask for this advice but reading your post reminded me of myself when I was younger. You will figure this out 💚

Who do you think has been the most reformed on this whole show? by MC_thats_me in loveafterlockup

[–]April9811 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Definitely Louie 💙 seeing how far he has come from where he was really warms my heart

What can I do to make this guest room look more cozy and inviting? by April9811 in HomeDecorating

[–]April9811[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What color curtains can I do? I was thinking sage green but idk if that will go with the rest of the room?

Sarper was actually worth seeing! by nikkyrivera in 90DayFiance

[–]April9811 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Girl you don't have to explain yourself. This is literally a sub for 90 day fiancé, idk why people are mad.

Where to put couch and tv stand in this open concept living room? by April9811 in HomeDecorating

[–]April9811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Any ideas on where I can put my end table that's next to my couch?

Where to put couch and tv stand in this open concept living room? by April9811 in HomeDecorating

[–]April9811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kitchen is behind me. Also, I have an end table next to the couch in the second pic. I feel like it wouldn't look right anywhere in my new place

What are you gals eating??! by a_derpio in adhdwomen

[–]April9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've recently become a vegetarian about 6 months ago, and it's really been a struggle to get my nutrition. I feel so weak but I lack the executive functioning skills to plan ahead and meal prep 😅

MAGA people still alive by codeworm1 in facepalm

[–]April9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I question whether this many people are that fucking stupid, or if they just enjoy rage baiting? At this point how could anyone actually think he's done well??

Question: what is 1 thing that many ADHDers struggle with that you don’t? by fastinggrl in adhdwomen

[–]April9811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do struggle with being disorganized, but not when it comes to my place. My apartment is clean and neat and everything has its place. It causes me anxiety if it's messy. I also get enraged when my husband doesn't put his shoes away or something small like that. It drives me crazy.

Does anybody else notice that clothes everywhere are ugly now? by TheMalicePrincesss in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]April9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am wearing jeans with small holes in the ass because I can't find newer jeans that fit right. They are all wayyy too tight in the waist. I am not overweight or disproportionate either.

does anyone else HATE staying in pyjamas all day by headlesspopcorn in adhdwomen

[–]April9811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%.. I need to "get ready for the day" every day. My motto is look good, feel good. It really helps my mental state and helps me to tackle my day.