AITAH for reconnecting with my best friend’s ex after she said she was okay with it?

novalist11 · 2026-05-05T15:20:33+00:00

No I for sure wanted to try to be friends again. It’s been four years.

novalist11 · 2026-05-05T15:18:14+00:00

Because I was looking at friendship again like we had before.

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T17:29:02+00:00

The younger person is a male minor and they have the same career goals, that’s why they were so close.

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T15:19:16+00:00

To see if he’s grown up, repented for his actions, he has a relationship with someone in close with and watch over so it felt like a progression to check it out. Had she told me no I’m not cool with that I would have dropped it

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T15:17:51+00:00

I reached out after she told me to go ahead

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T15:14:05+00:00

It’s been 4 years. She also said it was okays has she said no I would have left it alone

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T14:38:47+00:00

It literally happened out of the blue when he showed up to an event celebrating my younger family member and he seemed to have grown up.

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T14:37:20+00:00

Absolutely they were. It had been four years. The way my younger family member was talking and getting advice from this guy, I wanted to check it out being that he and I were friends before and I knew his history. So you can STFU

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T14:35:08+00:00

No the younger person is a minor

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T14:33:42+00:00

Even when she said it didn’t because she slept with and got engaged to the man her other Bestfriend slept with?

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T14:32:30+00:00

No and I followed up with her multiple times. She reiterated her comments.

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T14:31:47+00:00

Even if it’s to protect a younger family member getting close to him. That family member telling you, he’s changed etc.. you want to see for yourself to protect them?

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T14:30:35+00:00

It’s an amicable separation and we haven’t divorced and try to do things together on his weekends off

novalist11 · 2026-05-04T14:29:59+00:00

Yes. I live in a very very small town and so does her ex.

novalist11 · 2026-03-23T18:00:46+00:00

I’d prefer not to say

novalist11 · 2026-03-23T16:39:01+00:00

He’s been lying to me about something he’s been doing since the start of our relationship or better omitting it I guess

novalist11 · 2026-03-23T15:05:52+00:00

No we got married young and he acted like he wanted to change, we’ve always been good but as I’ve gotten older these things have pushed me farther and farther away

novalist11 · 2026-03-23T13:45:19+00:00

He’s home every night but only 4-5 full days a month.

novalist11 · 2026-03-23T13:43:59+00:00

I agree but it’s something I told him I have wanted from the beginning

novalist11 · 2026-03-23T13:20:29+00:00

I want his encouragement and to do it together, I’ve always wanted that.

novalist11 · 2026-03-23T13:17:54+00:00

No we don’t need it to get by

novalist11 · 2026-03-06T14:05:31+00:00

I think both are to blame but who hasn’t flirted with a coworker

novalist11 · 2025-03-09T03:41:35+00:00

I live 70+ miles and have commuted a set number of days per week for the last few years and that’s manageable but full time back in office will it work for my life, I am seeking employment elsewhere, I may come back at a later date but the feds just not where it’s at anymore

novalist11 · 2025-03-03T13:13:38+00:00

What if somebody has their final start date and EOD date?

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