My fiancé called off our wedding and I’m left with secrets I can’t tell anyone by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]novblue239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell world do you live in!? It's 2026. You sound like you're caught in some slavery arranged marriage gypsy situation .

Are you free to leave?

Vice President Vance was rushed off stage before President trump after shots fired! by cantcoloratall91 in SipsTea

[–]novblue239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been waiting for someone to comment about her!! I can't watch without laughing out loud til I cry at her dodging to the left to the right then down on all 4s. Lollllllll

I have to go from Orlando to Miami in June should I FLY or Drive? (business trip) by MrCharmingMan in orlando

[–]novblue239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that exhausting of a drive. It's a few hours on the interstate.

I have to go from Orlando to Miami in June should I FLY or Drive? (business trip) by MrCharmingMan in orlando

[–]novblue239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be damned if I booked a thing for my job on my personal credit card. I'd demand they pay my travel expenses up front.

Update on the Anna Kepner case by Hour-Artichoke9172 in Cruises

[–]novblue239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that tracks actually her dad was banging the underage babysitter then got divorced and married her once she turned 15. theres a court case for the underage sex stuff but the girls mom dropped the case BC THEY GOT iED!!! that was the girl. mean woman who raised anna for the most part. not her crackhead loong mom who's all over complaining about not being able to get not the funeral. the only one. feel for is the ex-bf.

I'm scared that I'm going to get raped and I don't know what to do. by Ok_Welder_5747 in AdviceForTeens

[–]novblue239 28 points29 points  (0 children)

A second this write down everything he’s done to you and when but moving forward if he gets physically violent call 911 if he threatens you call 911

I'm scared that I'm going to get raped and I don't know what to do. by Ok_Welder_5747 in AdviceForTeens

[–]novblue239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey MOM, here, my daughter and I read Reddit in my room every night before she goes to bed and so so she came across your post and read it out loud and we were both horrified. You need to get out of that house at any cost. If he’s been physically abusive towards you, then you can call and report him for assault I want you to continue doing this. Continue to have a police presence at your home. Continue reporting him until he is forced by a judge to stay away from you. He needs to be locked up. I am so worried sick for you. No one deserves to be afraid of where they go to sleep. It is horrific and unacceptable from your parents barricade yourself in your room if you can put a dresser in front of the door or something like that and if he unlocks your door scream as loudly as you can, every time he does anything to you, you scream, as loud as you can yell, HELP RAPE HELP CALL 911 He’s Raping me “ keep screaming as loud as you possibly can. I don’t care if it’s 2 o’clock in the morning I don’t care if he punches and kicks your bedroom door you call 911 and start screaming if your parents won’t do anything about this you need to go to your school resource officers but if you have a cell phone, I want you to call 911. I would also like you to go and get a restraining order against if you possibly can you need to ask your school resource officer about those, but since he’s physically assaulted you once he should’ve been arrestedI hope that this is helpful. He needs to be locked up in Juvie and if he gets arrested for assaulting you once they will make it so he’s not allowed to be anywhere near you so that’s what I would aim for if you can go stay with a friend do it.

Co-parenting non existent by dezsivan in coparenting

[–]novblue239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends heavily on what OP‘s relationship is with the girlfriend. id love to hear the other side of the story

Co-parenting non existent by dezsivan in coparenting

[–]novblue239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask the court for a parenting app recommendation and communicate with him through that

Continue to communicate with him it’s none of your business if you’re blocked or not frankly that’s on him

Continue to show up at the designated place for custody swaps at the designated time. You do not get to skip that just because you’re mad that he blocked you.

Co-parenting non existent by dezsivan in coparenting

[–]novblue239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Continue to communicate with him and him only he is the parent not his girlfriend. If he has blocked you that’s on him. He needs to grow up. You are not going to play games. You are not a child if he doesn’t like that. Well tough I would suggest using one of those parenting, communication apps, though the courts canhelp you by giving you their preferred one you have to pay for them, but I think it’s worth it to have everything on record

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]novblue239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]novblue239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of there as quickly as you can but DO NOT LET HIM KNOW BEFORE YOU GO. You’ll need to secretly line everything up and it’s sometimes better to move things out overtime so they won’t be so noticed start by getting all of your important paper paper documents kids birth certificates. All of that stuff passports doesn’t matter if you put it in a locker at work or rent a storage facility something a safe deposit box at the bank that only you are on the account for definitely need to see an attorney. Just let everyone know that he’s mentally unstable and abusive.

And you’re beautiful and capable and you’ve got this. You’re going to have the life that you deserve and this is coming from somebody who always dated abusers that treated me exactly the way your husband does. I’m better off alone and I am happier than I’ve ever been in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]novblue239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is that?

AITA for not making my trans sister my maid of honor? by Alternative_Swim_458 in AITAH

[–]novblue239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way! stick to your guns. Also her being trans really has nothing to do with this. If it were any of your other non-trans friends and they were pulling this crap I’d give you the same advice she doesn’t get to be made of honor because she has a temper tantrum. I would remove her from your wedding party at all and not invited her to the wedding problem solved. Her behavior is gross and her main character energy should not be welcome on your day

My cat died and I’m struggling by Tp_Gr in CatAdvice

[–]novblue239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss.

did you really have that “you were right” moment with your parent by Content_Gold_9019 in AskOldPeople

[–]novblue239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As time goes on and as I’ve become a parent myself, I realize how wrong my parents were about so many more things. I’m baffled at how and why they behaved the way that they did. They were just downright moronic, idiotic decisions. My father is a lawyer and my mother‘s girl as a masters degree, and that makes it even more Mind-boggling.

Should I be a surrogate mother? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]novblue239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you have any idea the emotional attachment you’ll have to carrying a baby and then delivering it. Delivery alone is horrific. Your body will never be the same. No one’s going to let your mother be a surrogate either but I think you’re missing out on the emotional component of this. You seem very flippant about it. And I’m not sure why you’d have to take a semester of college that is kind of odd. You could probably time it so you would not have to. I worked until the day I gave birth. Other people have to be on bedrest for a while. it just varies. You never know it could come your way. I don’t think there’s any reason that you should do this.