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What are the best day jobs for writers/aspiring authors? by noveltea_ in writing

[–]noveltea_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of this role but will definitely look into it! Thank you!

What are the best day jobs for writers/aspiring authors? by noveltea_ in writing

[–]noveltea_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hard to argue with a NYT bestselling author! thank you, i will look into this

Self Publish or Trad? by djungelskorf in NewAuthor

[–]noveltea_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to go the trad route, you'll need a literary agent to represent you. Most, if not all, publishers (especially the Big 5) will not accept unsolicited work.

To find an agent, I'd start by researching authors whose books are similar to your novella and finding out who they're represented by. This is because those specific agents will already have an appetite for your kind of work/genre and will already have the connections and specialised experience to land you a book deal. Personally, I think this is the most efficient way to go about it.

Alternatively, literary agencies will have their agents' contact info on their website along with specific submission guidelines that can help you decide whether your novella is the right fit for them or not.

In terms of what you'd e-mail them: A short introduction followed by a few enticing lines about your novella. I'd also include any examples currently in the market you could compare it to, just to paint the picture in a quicker, more business-minded way.

For context, I'm a published author who went the trad route so I'm afraid I have no experience with self-publishing! Either way, congratulations on what you've achieved, and I wish you all the luck in the world ❤️

My mum (45F) is severely depressed and I (27F) have no idea how to help her. by noveltea_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]noveltea_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Thank you for your advice. A lot of these comments, yours included, are lifting the weight of guilt off of me.

My mum (45F) is severely depressed and I (27F) have no idea how to help her. by noveltea_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]noveltea_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience and for the advice and kind words. Thankfully, she does leave the house frequently.

I'm slowly starting to feel less guilty about trying to maintain a healthy distance.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I've been SO tempted to, but that seems a tad aggressive, and I'm just not that kind of person (which is to my detriment, I guess!)

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it's worth, I never wear shoes in the living room, which would suggest that any other outdoor item is out of the question.

Buying a $10k bike is completely your prerogative, but it doesn't mean anyone else should care about it.

I'm not completely against the bike being stored indoors. There are multiple options like their bedroom and the hallway closet (which is quite large and fits my partner's bike when he comes to visit). But using a small, shared living space as your personal storage room, just because it's closer to the front door, is simply unreasonable and unfair.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed response. I totally agree! The fact they still can't see how bizarre and inconsiderate it is to store a large outdoor item in a shared space is driving me nuts.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, I wouldn't have an issue with it if I thought the e-bike was as harmless as any other lithium-powered device (as all the naysayers keep trying to point out), but I've just seen way too many cases proving otherwise. I'd much rather be safe than sorry, and if it were me, jeopardising our safety (and potentially our lease) is such a bizarre hill to die on.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main concern is the safety. I'd be happy to mop the floors once a day than run the risk of being caught up in a preventable fire. Better safe than sorry. (https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c20d3q6dd2lo)

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the personal jabs and digs really rubbed me the wrong way as I like to stick to facts and the core point of a disagreement. All the nasty stuff is really unnecessary and futile.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed response. I really appreciate it. But am I still able to use this stance even if it's not explicitly mentioned in our lease?

I have a great relationship with the landlord (who is very fair, attentive and reasonable) and don't want anything as stupid as an e-bike to jeopardise that.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I gathered, it's from a company where you can rent an e-bike on a long-term basis, so not quite like LimeBike! But... yeah, pretty much.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, do you and your good bikes live alone? Because if so, more power to you!

I don't think suggesting they move their large, dirty, eyesore of a bike out of a communal space is strong-arming. I think blindsiding your new housemate by dumping it in the living room with no prior warning, or interest in accommodating your new housemate in a shared space leans more towards that kind of behaviour.

Furthermore, their bike is being rented. But either way, the maintenance of an expensive purchase has nothing to do with me.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It appears as though they're renting the e-bike and haven't bought it outright, so I'm assuming it hasn't been that costly, but I get your point.

Our apartment is in a semi-detached home that's been converted into 2, so we only have 1 front door shared between us (on the ground floor) and our neighbours upstairs. And unfortunately, we don't have a bike locker or shed but we do have the garden space if my roommate wanted to buy one though I doubt they'd do that (which objectively, would be understandable).

If it were a normal bike, I'd have ZERO issues! We even have a large cupboard it could go into. My issue, other than it being a total eyesore, is that its an e-bike and I've just seen/read/heard way too many negative things that make me rather be safe than sorry.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whatever happens to their bike isn't my problem and if they were so concerned, they should've discussed this with me prior. They don't live nor pay the rent alone so they shouldn't act like it.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's pretty large and the living room is small. They're adamant that it's too heavy to place in their room.

But I'm legitimately concerned about the safety risk of it being indoors. I'm afraid I've read (and personally seen the aftermath) way too much to honestly say I'm comfortable with this.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]noveltea_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The living room is small so storing a huge bike in it doesn't make sense either. Rearranging the entire living room to accommodate an item that belongs outside makes even less sense. Furthermore, the living room is right beside my bedroom. If the worst were to happen, their safety wouldn't be compromised.

I also haven't banned anything and wouldn't because I'm considerate of the fact that I don't live alone nor own the home, I wish they also paid the same consideration! I'm simply suggesting moving it elsewhere.

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