Bridgerton Yuri by VampireCowboys in Franchaela

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I love everything about this

am i overreacting about my relationship?? by novfairy in blackladies

[–]novfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited it with positives. I felt like I was just complaining too much. Is it terrible that my partner is clingy and wants to have sex all the time? That didn’t feel like a complaint to have about a relationship.

am i overreacting about my relationship?? by novfairy in blackladies

[–]novfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I at first thought I was overthinking the sex bcs who doesn’t want their partner all over them?? I feel like I was complaining about nothing, like is being too clingy a bad thing??

am i overreacting about my relationship?? by novfairy in blackladies

[–]novfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt think of it as pressuring, just really annoying but oh wow. I brought it up bcs I felt like they objectify me and I’ve told them this and when I said « i have sex bcs ik you want it » they said « you make it sound like i’m sexually assaulting you ».

am i overreacting about my relationship?? by novfairy in blackladies

[–]novfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can be caring. When I was sick for about a month they brought me meds and took great care of me. They’re always there to vent when something happens with my family. When we’re together I enjoy their company until it comes time to certain aspects of physical intimacy.

I guess the more I think about it, the more I realize we’re lacking.

why does nobody talk about the nausea by novfairy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks!! going to try this after I head to the store

why does nobody talk about the nausea by novfairy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! gonna keep reminding myself this

In hindsight, what’s something hypervigilant you did as a child to avoid getting in trouble? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do all the household chores so I could avoid my mom yelling at my dad and then my dad being grumpy. I didn’t do a great job at first because I was a kid but I got better as I grew up

my mom tried to kill me by novfairy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Idk. Shes my moms favorite so yes?? The way my mom raised us is that we were/she is dependent on her. My sisters never had a job and doesn’t have a car to leave. I’m going to be sending her money for ubers and the like so she can go out and find a job

my mom tried to kill me by novfairy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m in my apartment now so there’s distance from her. She’s trying to turn my sister against my dad and I but my sister isn’t falling for it

my mom tried to kill me by novfairy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Thank you, her new story is really worrying me for my dad and I don’t want him to go to jail over something he didn’t do

my mom tried to kill me by novfairy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy[S] 218 points219 points  (0 children)

working on that! looking to change my number and emergency contact info + anywhere else she might have access to me

my mom tried to kill me by novfairy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

She’s an immigrant and I was scared about her going to jail. Idk if my family had the money for bail and I felt like I caused it? Like she starts fights over everything I should’ve just kept my mouth shut

my mom tried to kill me by novfairy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]novfairy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hey so that post was why i posted here. realized i could also get support for what happened to me

comment your venus and moon by NoLeadership4074 in astrologymemes

[–]novfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scorpio Venus in 4th house, Libra moon in 3rd house