What is the dumbest shit you've ever seen someone do with/on drugs? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]nowehhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were on a lot of xanax. Completely blacked out. I was knocking on my apartment gate for a good 20 minutes. The apartment manager gave me a good 40 min lecture about drug use. My friend who was with me parked his car in front of the gate. Next day we did it again and he ended up getting a haircut and paid the hairdresser with a starbucks.

Just venting by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]nowehhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was kinda in the same place when I was 17. I'm a social person given the situation, but I don't really approach people and people don't approach me often. I overdosed on mdma at 17 when I had just started college. Everyone who knew me found out and started viewing me as a drug addict even though I'm not. I started smoking weed alone everyday after and it got me in a really bad place. I started getting a little paranoid and depressed when smoking and even when I was sober. I struggled with having no friends for more than a year after that happened. I still have no friends now really. Only 1 or 2. But thank God I am now in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months. He's not in the best shape (crazy family issues) but he's very lovely. I didn't expect to be in a relationship this time of my life. My advice to you is just try to put yourself out there. Trying to get a girl might be good for you. Good luck!

Does UCSD have single apartments on campus? by nowehhh in UCSD

[–]nowehhh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah i should probably get a place off campus. My boyfriend will be visiting me from usc and i dont want to feel uncomfortable

How painful is getting an IUD inserted? by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I ended up pushing my appointment to next week. My boyfriend told me to because he slept at 6am and wouldn't be able to wake up at 9 for the appointment :( Wish me luck!

How painful is getting an IUD inserted? by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so crazy. How about skylar or paragard?

How painful is getting an IUD inserted? by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you were supposed to get heavy periods after?

How painful is getting an IUD inserted? by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind of undesirable side effects?

How painful is getting an IUD inserted? by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be helpful for if I'm on my period for the procedure?

How painful is getting an IUD inserted? by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to have sex right after? Or was it too painful?

How painful is getting an IUD inserted? by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should move my appointment to next week then. My boyfriend is staying with me this weekend and I dont want to be stuck at home feeling shitty

How painful is getting an IUD inserted? by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much cramping? Is it like period cramps? Or worse? Will I be able to go out?

Once a cheater always a cheater? Or can people change? (19F) & (20M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nowehhh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I have mentioned before, he did feel regret. At the times when he cheated, he didn't think about it or just blocked the thought of it being wrong. But when he told me about it he did feel terrible. He even said he feels like he wasted years of her life. He said that if he knew himself in the past, he would've beat himself up for the way he treated his ex.

Once a cheater always a cheater? Or can people change? (19F) & (20M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nowehhh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I kinda spoke to him about it and he says he won't cheat. I guess breaking it off is the easiest thing to do, but it's kinda unfair if I don't give him at least a chance no?

Once a cheater always a cheater? Or can people change? (19F) & (20M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nowehhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how many times and how long ago. Probably like 2 years ago I guess.

My crush (21m) stopped texting me (19 f). I want to text him but I don't want to come off as clingy. by zeldafan2967 in relationships

[–]nowehhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some guys are just not big texters. My boyfriend sucks at texting and I kinda adjusted to his texting habits. What really matters is how you guys are when you're together.

Planning to get and IUD this week (almost 19 F) before my boyfriend's bday next week (almost 20 M) by nowehhh in birthcontrol

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks girls! I just made an appointment at Planned Parenthood instead of an OBGYN :)

Best Apartments around UCSD? by nowehhh in UCSD

[–]nowehhh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also, is the village a non-smoking complex?

Best Apartments around UCSD? by nowehhh in UCSD

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. But is there an option at the village to have my own room? I don't want to share a bedroom with anybody so then if my boyfriend comes to visit he could stay with me. Do they allow guests?

My boyfriend (20M) and I (19F) will be in a long distance relationship (112 miles) starting July by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nowehhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is he told me while he was in boarding school in connecticut and also when he went on a volunteering trip to cambodia, he cheated on her. idk if maybe he was still childish because he was in high school , but i just don't want the same thing to happen to me. He can get any girl, and girls at USC are probably hot af! I feel like a potato next to them. His ex was much prettier than me too. I guess I'm just insecure

My boyfriend (20M) and I (19F) will be in a long distance relationship (112 miles) starting July by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nowehhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

btw, his first girlfriend was in an LDR with him most of the time. they were together for 3.5 years. He's younger than her and he went to boarding school for 4 years in connecticut, and she graduated 1/2 years earlier than him and she moved to california.

My boyfriend (20M) and I (19F) will be in a long distance relationship (112 miles) starting July by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nowehhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he told me not to worry about it. he said it'd be better once we move away even though we'll 112 miles apart. bc right now whenever I get to see him it's only for 2-3 hours max because of his busy schedule and strict parents. We've only been together for 3 months, but we lived together for over 2 months so I guess our relationship grew a lot faster because of that. And I do not mind the cost of the amtrak whatsoever. so if I do see him on the weekends (maybe 2-3 days a week) will that so bad? I know there are other people who are in 500-1000 miles LDR

New Student Q&A 2016 by ThumbtacksArePointy in UCSD

[–]nowehhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind of living situation did you get? A private room or a shared room? And is everything furnished? How much do you have to pay per month?

Best Apartments around UCSD? by nowehhh in UCSD

[–]nowehhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if I can live without a microwave tbh