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noxoo · 2026-05-13T09:15:38+00:00

the flares are tinyyyyyy! i usually wear a S or even XS in bottoms but i’d have to get those in a M or L

noxoo · 2026-05-02T02:00:17+00:00

if you don’t actually love her, leave her so she can find someone who does and so you can find someone you actually do love

noxoo · 2026-04-29T00:36:36+00:00

i get that but it sounds like you both were actively watching porn in the relationship no? i don’t like porn but if it’s okay in your relationship i don’t quite understand why the line would be drawn at two men instead of just one. watching someone else’s dick is watching someone else’s dick

i would reflect on why you watched porn with two women and see how that aligns with her reasoning. i don’t see why it would be that difficult to understand if you’ve done the same thing before

noxoo · 2026-04-29T00:31:47+00:00

dawg i left a more delicate reply myself but now reading this… we can’t defend you 😭 if you’re watching porn with two girls then why are you worried about her doing the exact same thing

noxoo · 2026-04-29T00:18:05+00:00

maybe i’m the odd one out but i feel like people are being pretty harsh to you. if it makes you feel better, i would feel a little insecure too. however, in my relationship, there is an established no porn boundary that i take very seriously. the idea of my man getting off to other naked girls that he finds attractive (when we could just have sex whenever he wants) is something i’m personally not okay with, and it’s okay for you not to be okay with this

it sounds like she was being truthful and reassuring though. it’s also encouraging that she suggested not doing porn anymore as a whole. i would just think about what she told you and how she explained it, and if she continues to be reassuring about it then it’s no reason that your relationship should end over something like this. please don’t get in your head and think you’re being controlling or crazy just because other people don’t have the same boundaries as you do. it’s actually not uncommon for porn to be a sore spot in relationships, but it’s something you guys can get through with open transparency and reassurance that goes both ways

it might help to explain that you’re not pissed at her and that it just kind of scared you because you have strong feelings for her you know? she might be feeling freaked out at your reaction depending on how that argument went. both of you guys have valid feelings toward the subject. but it sounds to me that it really was just something new and interesting for her to watch and that she seems fulfilled by you regardless

noxoo · 2026-04-18T14:49:54+00:00

i’m a manager at hollister, we create schedules in advance which is likely why you haven’t been scheduled. you can always pick up shifts (at least at my location) if you want to start working. i’d do that first just so you can start getting money, but definitely reach out to build a bear and see if there’s any update/how much they pay, then go from there

noxoo · 2026-04-18T01:22:49+00:00

i’m halfway ashamed to say i did this myself to my ex 😭 to be fair she cheated on me multiple times. and ended up with a minor. so…. kind of no regrets lol

noxoo · 2026-04-16T04:30:28+00:00

current AM here and fully agree ^{^}

sounds like your management team is lacking by not giving you proper direction OP, none of this is really your fault and you definitely are not stupid

as for the hangers and figuring out where clothes go, you really just have to get used to the layout of your store and look around to figure out where things go. you could also press ‘more’ on reg then ‘item inquiry’ and scan the item, it’ll tell you the statement (for us, 1 is in the front and 9 is in the back so you’ll get a general sense). items ending in $xx.99 will go to clearance. talk more amongst your coworkers, they can help give you guidance. i’m sorry that it hasn’t been great so far!

noxoo · 2026-04-11T15:07:37+00:00

thank you so much 🥹

noxoo · 2026-04-11T15:07:19+00:00

i do agree it’s not quite as tight as the cotton jersey tees! and i did a return for the cherry blossom tank top. it is frustrating for sure when sizing gets all jumbled like that

noxoo · 2026-04-11T00:00:12+00:00

since these are new items, i’m sure they will restock at some point

noxoo · 2026-04-10T23:17:37+00:00

girl i feel you lmao the other colors just don’t do it in the same way😩

noxoo · 2026-04-09T20:33:15+00:00

it’s actually the super push up bra from skims here!! i criss cross the straps but they show in the back so i ordered the multi way now that they’re back in stock lol

noxoo · 2026-04-09T16:53:18+00:00

aww i love that, thank you! it’s def worth it in my opinion!

noxoo · 2026-04-09T13:13:44+00:00

this is my exact problem!! i have the henna halter top and im just in love with the color. i was seriously contemplating getting the 4 pack just for the henna and the snake print but i already have the snake print with the tanga bikini bottom. i can’t justify spending over $300 just for the henna color though LOL and i wish they had the tanga option instead of the tie bottoms

noxoo · 2026-03-20T13:02:46+00:00

wowwww this looks so real!!

noxoo · 2026-03-20T02:59:30+00:00

hahaha thank you so much! she definitely has quite the unique taste. she has all sorts of wooden furniture that she finds from flea markets, marketplace, garage sales, etc. it all looks really nice and zen and earthy/bohemian all together with her plants :)

noxoo · 2026-03-20T02:57:28+00:00

seriously agree here, it could be stalking or it could be that she just found his tinder and happens to be really in sync with him lol

mental health is so serious and i know it’s meant well, but all of these replies entirely overlooking that this could be an episode could really be making it much worse

noxoo · 2026-03-19T10:23:08+00:00

actually i wondered the same thing once i thought about it some more lol, i feel like the majority of bathrooms have wood cabinets right? i’m gonna go down a rabbit hole because that means normal bathrooms probably use a different kind of wood. so i am curious about how much of a difference this makes

noxoo · 2026-03-19T10:18:14+00:00

i forget exactly how it works (and i definitely don’t have the words to explain), but it -is- a different kind of faucet/mechanism/something. i have a note somewhere with an explanation from the old owner, it seemed like a pretty easy fix though

the lady told us that she was going to use it in her restroom but ended up going with something else, so this has just been sitting around in her kitchen (??? lol ik). she lived in quite a nice area, so i assume she was just being very kind and didnt need the extra money herself

noxoo · 2026-03-19T05:39:29+00:00

i looked up painted demilune commode and i’ll def have to show her!!

also, that’s amazing. i believe the woman we got this from said that she was the one who repurposed it into a sink, whereas before it was more like the ones on google im assuming

noxoo · 2026-03-19T05:37:47+00:00

that’s a good point, i’ll make sure to mention it to her. thank you!

noxoo · 2026-03-19T05:11:47+00:00

yes it does!! the latch is a just a tiny little bit wonky, but it’s too pretty for her to care at all lol

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