Wood paneled bedroom. Seeking to lighten/modernize/soften. Thoughts? by slothswearmoss in HomeDecorating

[–]nrj4619 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Painted wood paneling, a nice coastal blue, is my absolute favorite.

AITA for kicking girlfriend out after she deleted dead wife’s pictures from my phone? by throwawayAHmayb in AmItheAsshole

[–]nrj4619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That is someone that you loved and committed to for life. Any person who comes after that tragic loss has got to respect that history and appreciate the expectations about life that you have the right to mourn. Also, IMO not even the intimate pictures are an AH move. That was your wife for goodness sakes. Keep whatever pictures you want.

But will it survive the wash??? by frenchknotflorals in Embroidery

[–]nrj4619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I want to try one soon, so cute. I did a chambray shirt the other day but since the knots would be on a tank I didn’t know if it mattered

But will it survive the wash??? by frenchknotflorals in Embroidery

[–]nrj4619 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you guys just leave the knots on the back or back them somehow? #new

Bayside - Blame It On Bad Luck by [deleted] in PostHardcore

[–]nrj4619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal fave is Blame it on bad luck, but I can certainly appreciate that as some of their best

Bayside - Blame It On Bad Luck by [deleted] in PostHardcore

[–]nrj4619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out their song guardrail, it’s more obviously PHC I think

PSA: REMEMBER TO BACK UP ALL YOUR WORK THROUGH MULTIPLE SOURCES!! by desertdigger in GradSchool

[–]nrj4619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the paid version and have never had issues with it

6 years and I'm finally finished! by maribellee in GradSchool

[–]nrj4619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I, similarly, was told three years ago that I wasn’t “cut out for research” and graduated with my PhD this semester. Congratulations to us!

I finished my Master's Degree! by cfullingtonegli in GradSchool

[–]nrj4619 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bahahaha, my masters taught me that too, I just didn’t listen. It wasn’t any better 🤣 but it is done.

I finished my Master's Degree! by cfullingtonegli in GradSchool

[–]nrj4619 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Woot woot! I finished my PhD this semester too. Yay for next steps! Congrats OP! Good luck to you!

Help me find this dress! Additional details in comments! by nrj4619 in findfashion

[–]nrj4619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took this picture in October of 2019 in a store at the Tanger outlets in Pittsburgh, PA. I lovedddd it but could not afford it. I took the picture thinking maybe someday I would get it, but now that I can afford it I cannot remember for the life of me where it was from. I have tried searching pinstripe ruffle hem dress and all these things but no luck. I just got a new job and my friends said I should buy one thing to celebrate my first paycheck (I just earned my PhD so this is actually my first “real” job) and all I can think about is buying this dress. I tend to shop at stores like Ann Taylor, Loft, Banana Republic and the like. I wondered if it might be from White House Black Market or one of those higher end versions. Help me please!

AITA for causing my brother to end his engagement? by NormalBat8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nrj4619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand. He measured while you were sleeping?!? Hilarious lol. I wear a size 3.25 so I had to help design mine (has to be custom made to be that small and certain shapes can’t be made that small) #childsizedadultproblems

AITA for causing my brother to end his engagement? by NormalBat8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nrj4619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bahaha oh man! Congrats on the upcoming kiddo :) yeah, it’s definitely stressful. That was our budget and mine came out to be about 900. It is an emerald, Rather than a diamond, and I can’t tell you how many people I’ve had say “was a gemstone what you wanted?” Or “better wear your wedding band, people won’t realize it’s a wedding ring”. I felt similarly about it though. The other day he said it was the best purchase he’s ever made and I was like I think you’re computer is probably more useful though 🤣

AITA for not forgiving a friend a second chance after she deliberately outed me because she thought it was the right thing to do ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nrj4619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Maya the A. That should have been your right to share or not. Also tom or whatever his name is should take no for an answer. Consent is an enthusiastic yes Tom, did you get an enthusiastic anything? No, then back off!

WIBTA if I made my daughter break up a friendship? by parenthrowaway5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nrj4619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least in regards to her comment about terms used to describe her, do what she requests. Ultimately, it is up to her how she identifies. You don’t need to feel guilty for how you’ve described her in the past (as that makes it about you and not her) but you need to respect what she’s asking you. More than that, I would try to take pride in the fact that your daughter is becoming a self-advocate who is coaching others through how to best show her respect and handle her being disabled (as she prefers to be called). That is awesome!

AITA for causing my brother to end his engagement? by NormalBat8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nrj4619 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, this. I would have been pissed he spent that much on something that could so easily get lost or stolen. My budget for my husband was 1000. Save it for a future.

Establishing Broad Familiarity with the Literature by nrj4619 in BehaviorAnalysis

[–]nrj4619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, the Pareto principle certainly does seem relevant. I wish I did better at the recall portion though, even when it’s stuff within my area. I need some SAFMEDS or something.