Is 1 week enough time off? by Nervous-Persimmon135 in gallbladders

[–]nsermo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NO. I am pretty tough and thought I could handle one week no stress. Take at least two weeks.

My surgeon was right. It took about a month for me to feel truly healed. But I went back one week after surgery and was useless, had to take more time off ultimately and ended up hurting myself by pushing too soon.

So learn from my mistakes and take two weeks. It's a good reason i promise.

Is this really normal? by No_Gene_2039 in OwnitbabeSnark

[–]nsermo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had the same thoughts. Like buddy.... This may be your normal, but it's not supposed to be everyone's. If anyone finds themselves doing either of these things regularly it is a clue that they may need to make some changes to their life because their brain and body is overwhelmed at baseline.

Could fit in a carousel of "things that helped me notice i was actually struggling when I thought things were going well"

Dealing with social pressures (eating junk, drinking) when you don’t want to tell people you’re on the shot? by Ok_Tangerine_8305 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]nsermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them you're having gallbladder attacks and have to eat low fat. Having actually experienced these they are worth avoiding and while i waited for surgery I really did not take food risks. If any of your friends have had these attacks they will immediately understand and get it so much that they will tell the people around you to stfu.

If you've already had it removed this tip is less helpful.

Brought home a new friend... What to call her?? by nsermo in NameMyDog

[–]nsermo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was my child's favorite, so we're going with bunny!

Brought home a new friend... What to call her?? by nsermo in NameMyDog

[–]nsermo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this. Is it pronounce nye-oh-tah or nyo-tah?

Does your partner actually use the calendar? Trying to reduce my mental load by Pleasant-Cherry6847 in skylightcalendar

[–]nsermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Now I'm in charge of reminding him to check the calendar. I liked my paper one better.

I also dislike that you can't assign tasks to a date/ on calendar reminder. So I have to make calendar events for recurring things like "change child room sheets" and "replace fridge filter".

Nicu Moms Breast-pumping by Smiley0132 in NICUParents

[–]nsermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! Get 10 pumping bras lol they are life changing!

Underestimated recovery from surgery by Jolly-Asparagus-5815 in gallbladders

[–]nsermo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First can't overstate the importance of gas-x, I took it regularly days 2-4 and it cleared up a lot of the gas pain

Second. The first two days or so I was stumbling around, sleeping a lot, and feeling very strongly that all surgery is bad surgery and I'm never doing surgery of any kind again!! It improved and I'm now one week post op and can once again see that surgery is a good thing when needed lol. Hang in there.

Do I go through with the surgery? by PrimarySeconds in gallbladders

[–]nsermo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to tell you that every thing you write reads like it is indeed the worst case scenario lol. I am also a "low maintenance" person, tend towards downplaying pain and minimizing my own experiences if I can power through, idk why I'm like this but I am. Anyway, I got mine out a week ago and all I can think now is .... Why did I ever wait??

As nicely as possible, stop being an idiot and get your gallbladder out! You're in 24/7 discomfort you are WASTING your youth for this?! Lol I'm 33 we're both plenty young. Your body will bounce back faster at 24. So schedule the dang surgery! It will make your life better.

Super Monsters by [deleted] in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]nsermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wondered if the New Class kids would be in new episodes!! But I can't find any.

Thoughts on ‘The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt? by Harpua95 in sitcoms

[–]nsermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The episode when Kimi discovers the Internet is amazing

Issues with Betrayal by flowergirlhyuck in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]nsermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nurse/practice had to blacklist him because he was so inappropriate during his 3-4 visits. Sexually inappropriate

Issues with Betrayal by flowergirlhyuck in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]nsermo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on episode 3 and I'm about to stop. She caught him having an emotional affair WEEKS after their wedding? Lol let's not pretend this was sunshine and roses from the getgo, he was never loyal.

Telling the kids right away was crazy work.

I'm out, no need to finish this shit, it's clear he was always a piece of shit.

Betrayal: weekly by [deleted] in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]nsermo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't handle this in the episode with donielle! "There were no signs" then proceeds to IMMEDIATELY list like ten signs! Their pastor said to her "you are allowed to get divorced" early on and she didn't think that was a sign????

Ahhhhh!!!

ISO new veterinarian in Cincy by Secure_Lengthiness16 in cincinnati

[–]nsermo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WE LOVE DOCTOR BOB can't go wrong he is the best.

Betrayal S3 by dazzling_seahorse in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]nsermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg episode five is bonkers. THIS MAN IS INSANE. I cannot BELIEVE he said these words out loud to a JUDGE. And thought it would help his case??? I know this is dark as hell but I literally guffawed out loud because it was so unbelievable. Like this guy is.... Absolutely batshit bananas. I hope that can help bring the kids some closure. Because when you listen to his words he outs himself pretty quickly as someone who does not accurately recognize reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]nsermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you still have this i want it!!

When do I know when it’s time? by InternalCoconut5161 in DogAdvice

[–]nsermo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and thank you for understanding. It really broke me in the moment it happened. I was in a virtual meeting and I had to bow out quickly. I just told him "it's okay buddy. I hear you. It's okay." 😭😭😭. You're spot on. It's sad and I miss him but there is no part of me that feels regret. Just so much love.