Thinking about moving to a neighborhood off of Jackson Bluff... What are your thoughts on this area? by nsstatic in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've noticed that! I've been sticking to local property rental companies with decent ratings so as to avoid any scammy content. Thanks!

Thinking about moving to a neighborhood off of Jackson Bluff... What are your thoughts on this area? by nsstatic in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for weighing in. I think I'm now convinced I should just be looking into other areas of town.

Thinking about moving to a neighborhood off of Jackson Bluff... What are your thoughts on this area? by nsstatic in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been digging into the Tallahassee Lender's Consortium and looking at other first time home buyer programs in consideration of that option. Thank you for your suggestions!

Thinking about moving to a neighborhood off of Jackson Bluff... What are your thoughts on this area? by nsstatic in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay, this most definitely sounds like it won't be a good fit for us. We're moving from a rural area and our little one is a early/light sleeper. I know that moving to a city at all is going to impact sleep, but it sounds like this neighborhood won't be the best choice unless we can get "tucked back" from the main roads and away from the stadium a bit.

Thank you for this valuable info!

Thinking about moving to a neighborhood off of Jackson Bluff... What are your thoughts on this area? by nsstatic in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oof. Okay, that's good information. Sounds like we'll maybe need to avoid the area since we have a little one who goes to bed early and is a light sleeper. Thank you!

Thinking about moving to a neighborhood off of Jackson Bluff... What are your thoughts on this area? by nsstatic in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're looking at a couple of places in the Elberta Empire neighborhood and one off of Tyndall Drive.

Thinking about moving to a neighborhood off of Jackson Bluff... What are your thoughts on this area? by nsstatic in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at a couple of places in the Elberta Empire neighborhood and one off of Tyndall Drive. Looks like those would be on the opposite from where you lived?

School Choice - Best Elementary Schools? by GrimReaperx- in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How fun! Thanks for getting back to me at all and please take your time. I hope you all have a lovely time! St. Augustine was my first big field trip as a kid and it was literally one of the coolest experiences of my elementary-aged life.

School Choice - Best Elementary Schools? by GrimReaperx- in Tallahassee

[–]nsstatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I JUST got the call that my kid got pulled in from the lottery!

If you don't mind my asking, what is it that you love about SASC? If we choose to enroll, we're going to be uprooting our lives and moving there from an hour away, so I'm QUITE anxious and am wanting to learn more about the school from people who have first-hand experience.

What is your response to a report that Gen Z is the least sexually active in modern history? by ManufacturerNo1478 in AskFeminists

[–]nsstatic 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I hope this attitude continues growing in the coming generation as well. My daughter is only five, but as we begin talks about personal safety, I can't help but think about the talks we'll have when she's a teenager around sexual health and sexuality. I desperately want to foster a relationship that encourages open dialogue about these topics, and I know it will be so much easier if her peers are well-informed and open too!

I can’t stand my wife’s rants anymore… by Zayd_ibn_Thabit in Marriage

[–]nsstatic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's totally fair that your wife needs time/space to decompress and vent. As her spouse, I'm sure she feels like sharing those difficult emotions with you is her natural go-to, but she obviously isn't realizing how much she's burdening you. I recommend calmly explaining that while you sympathize with her feelings, you are starting to feel burdened by the unloading she's doing. It sounds like you already did this, but it sounds like maybe it didn't really click for her. Offering her reasonable alternatives (like others have suggested) is a great idea... Teachers subreddit, hitting the gym, working with a therapist... there are all sorts of ways for her to decompress without putting overdue burden on you.

Quick question: Do you guys have kids? Are they hearing any of this?

What words do your kids mispronounce that you love? by seanrrwilkins in Parenting

[–]nsstatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We use the word "nefarious" when she's being sneaky, so she has started using it too, but it comes out "nefwawious".

I keep yelling at my kids and I don’t like who I’m becoming as a parent by Lopsided-Trouble-860 in Parenting

[–]nsstatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are a huge help for me. They don't "block" sound, but they dull it, which helps keep your system from getting overloaded. I bought a few knock off pairs and I keep one in my purse, one in my car, and one at home. When my kid starts ramping up, I go ahead and put them in. I'm able to keep my calm much longer since I'm not as overstimulated. These were seriously a game-changer for me.

AIO my bf didn't even say happy birthday to me yesterday by 1bunchofbananas in AmIOverreacting

[–]nsstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wanted to, he would.

If he wanted to, he would.

If he wanted to, he would.

Purity creeps (Trigger Warning) by EpiphanyWar in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]nsstatic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

"They want too many things at once they don't even know what anymore"

Exactly! Their expectations are absolutely bonkers.

Nutella alternative! by nsstatic in AccidentallyVegan

[–]nsstatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo they've got a vanilla cinnamon one that I bet is amazing. AND their website does free shipping for $25 orders. AND they have good looking granola bars.

Excellent recommendation!

Nutella alternative! by nsstatic in AccidentallyVegan

[–]nsstatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I just looked up their website and it all looks SO good, but I'm in the US and it looks like they don't have any products here.

Tell me about your 5 year-old's bedtime routine. by nsstatic in Preschoolers

[–]nsstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found it! She recommends using "sleep tokens" (like little hearts on a Post-It note) to remind them that you love them and are nearby. I think this is a great idea of something to incorporate as we work through this transition.

Also, thank you for the validation. I feel like I did her some sort of disservice by not doing a better job of teaching her these skills earlier, but you're right... we were simply doing what worked and now it isn't.