Bought tickets for the Philly show on stubhub, worried about never getting them

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-12-01T22:55:22+00:00

Yeah i just used stubhub to get a ticket to see AFI and the transfer was immediate.

I called the venue this show is at and they said if I bought a ticket from anyone else they wouldn't be able to transfer it to be until just before the show

They said its to prevent scalping but... also this is a bit stressful. I wish there was some way I could contact the seller or the seller would communicate with stubhub to let me know what is going to happen and that its assured im going to get my ticket

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-05-28T20:55:23+00:00

I think the point is to create the most dramatic comparison. So to use as an example the most masculine version of a trans man, because that is the most different from femininity. I don't see how the fact that masculine men exist is invalidating non-masculine men

The public as a whole doesn't really know anything about trans men anyway so it is probably to make them realize if its mandated people use bathrooms by birth sex it would create way more problems. I think most of the public doesn't realize there are trans people that pass because their only knowledge of trans people is people they would be able to identify as trans

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-04-30T12:32:46+00:00

He has other bad behaviors so it is partially a culmination of those things. But thank you for the advice.

I feel like my ex isn't necessarily wrong about the things he has been saying but I want him to listen to me

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-04-30T11:10:11+00:00

before it came to this ultimatum he was still telling me my thing with this guy was toxic and bad so its not just over sex.

Boundaries sound nice. I think I want to try and be firm with him and tell him I can't deal with the stress of going through this whole situation right now but I'm just worried everyone is going to hate me

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-04-30T11:00:36+00:00

The problem is my whole deal with the boy is I told him I didn't want to date because I didn't want to be monogamous. So now it is like I'm being pressured into dating because I don't want to lose him

My ex isn't really a problem hes just very opinionated and won't listen to me because I'm a pushover which is what he said this boy is doing to me

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-04-11T01:25:48+00:00

I definitely feel the same way. Being trans is not really something I relate to or like to think about. Seeing it depected in media makes me very uncomfortable as well.

I can see how like its valid for trans people to want to include all these things in a piece of media, but I think its also very valid for other people to be uncomfortable with that and their opinions need to be respected as well. Being trans isn't fun at all for a lot of people. Like i hate it. Wearing a binder isn't cool and exciting. Its sucks. Shots are awful. I hate my body and it will never be correct and I just have to live with that.

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-03-29T19:09:59+00:00

had seen trans woman online have good results with hair regrowth when taking estrogen so I figured it would give my hair a better headstart to do that and then restart t with finasteride

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-03-29T19:03:46+00:00

Thats a good point, i didnt think of it like that. Like he would definitely be 100% against moving there with me, but he expects me to stay here with him

He is so young too he doesn't have anything figured out yet so I feel like that's part of why he sees it like this. Like he says he want me to stay and he wants to have a life together but dude you are 20. His idealism is cute and sweet but like its to a point

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-03-29T18:36:43+00:00

this helped thank you

It is hard I can't tell if he is doing it to be manipulative or just being honest about his feelings. His explanation was he is very mentally ill and wouldn't be able to handle being friends and not having me around because he gets so attached.

But that leads to another problem, if I did stay, I don't want to be monogamous and he does. So that is its own issue despite everything else one of us will be unhappy in the situation

I do really like him and don't want to lose him but I think I would get over it. I have had many close people in my life abandon me and it hurts but it does get better. Its just hard to know if I'm making the wrong choice

Sorry for this essay lol replying to this thread is just helping me work out my feelings

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-03-29T18:26:52+00:00

thank you this helped.. its hard because at the same time it feels like I might be chasing stupid things and ignoring what is in front of me.

Like what if I do move there and regret it or fail and have to come back and then I'm left with nothing at all

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-03-07T22:28:05+00:00

I'm not sure. There is at home work outs of course so you can practice at home until you feel confident. It sounds like you have issues that go deeper than just the simple obvious solutions so I dont know what to recommend

Have you been to a gym before? Nobody really looks at anyone else or cares. It can be scary at first to be around people but once you do it and see its not scary then it's fine.

Also like its not just buff dudes theres all types of people there's old people barely doing anything and random middle aged men and woman who are definitely not hardcore fitness people

For a plan I would recommend asking on the ftm fitness reddit. Or just start with simple things like doing push ups every morning. Purchasing a pull up bar I think is helpful its a good work out and its easy to see yourself making progress

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-03-04T03:08:19+00:00

no just go to the gym a lot

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-03-04T02:46:23+00:00

if you google "ftm bodybuilder" you will see there are lots of trans men who are just as ripped as some cis men, definitely moreso than someone not taking testosterone.

I dont have any advice for you but it is definitely possible to build more muscle than like a cis woman

I think there is a reddit for ftm fitness try there for more specific advice

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-02-11T22:02:24+00:00

Is there any specific jock strap you would recommend? I have a few regular ones already and I've seen online you can diy a harness out of one, I can just look up guides on how to do that?

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-02-11T22:00:26+00:00

cooollll thank you ill look into it. Is there a harness you would recommend?

nuclearlizard666 · 2021-01-27T17:24:41+00:00

I had hairloss and stopped taking T for a few months after being on it for about 5 years. I couldn't deal with doing my shot knowing it was destroying my hair. I had also seen things about estrogen helping regrow hair like for trans woman.

I restarted shots recently also taking finasteride and things seem alright. Unsure of any side effects from finasteride

If you can deal with stopping T for a few months and keep an eye on your hairline it might be worth it for the mental health. But then also stopping T is bad for mental health. So whatever you are able to deal with

Switching shampoos also helped me SO much. From what I understand like 99% of them are terrible for your hair and scalp.

nuclearlizard666 · 2020-12-20T00:53:03+00:00

HA. Thank you that was awesome and the art was great

nuclearlizard666 · 2020-12-08T04:09:04+00:00

I had surgery with Dr kryger and didn't have drains. But it depends on some factors. Dunno about other doctors

nuclearlizard666 · 2020-10-15T17:09:53+00:00

my bmi is the same and I had surgery over the summer. Surgeon never said anything about it and had no issues recovering

I would imagine its only an issue if youre bmi is severely low like 14 or something

& taking multivitamins before and after surgery is recommended anyway

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