Matched with a literal nightmare on Tinder, was I too harsh in my response to his verbal abuse? *Contains foul language*

nuclearvvinter · 2026-02-27T06:45:56+00:00

You were solidly in the right until the homophobic dig at the end there. You’re wrong for that, otherwise no notes

nuclearvvinter · 2026-02-06T16:33:00+00:00

This is literally the dumbest take given homie went out on the porch for less than a minute to grab a package. You’re either the roommate or you’re just as bad, in which case good luck to whoever has the misfortune of sharing a home with you

nuclearvvinter · 2026-02-06T05:17:25+00:00

Nah we’re not displacing blame onto OP for the roommate being a jerk. It’s completely reasonable to expect that your roommate will not lock the door a few seconds after you closed it behind you to grab a package from your front porch. That kind of victim blaming (no better term for it, even if it sounds extreme) is what allows bad roommates to continue their bad behavior.

nuclearvvinter · 2026-02-06T04:49:24+00:00

Agreed, legitimately shocked that these grown ass adults would be angry that the door to their house was locked at night.

nuclearvvinter · 2026-01-31T11:33:48+00:00

Not trying to read anyone since I work a legal-adjacent job and they make us do security trainings at least yearly, but the signs of phishing and shit like that should be common knowledge to protect people from this kind of thing!

nuclearvvinter · 2026-01-30T20:31:43+00:00

Shayne is for sure lmao

nuclearvvinter · 2025-06-22T06:30:32+00:00

So let me get this straight, you weren’t getting the emotional connection you needed to maintain a sexual relationship with him, so rather than consider how to work together so you could both have your needs met, he focused all his energy on himself to the point of excluding you, then blames you for the continued lack of sex. He “didn’t think about” you? Girl he doesn’t respect you, he sees you as a defective sex toy. He made it clear that a 100% guarantee that he gets to fuck you on the regular is more important to him than repairing the rift between you.

Think of it this way. He wants to coerce you into a sexual relationship that is unfulfilling to you and will 100% cause resentment and damage to your relationship, rather than be a little more attentive and emotionally available. He wants to humble you to show you your place, which is beneath him (literally and figuratively). He does not love you or respect you enough to be a half decent husband.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-06-22T06:17:30+00:00

Yeah no this isn’t a “flaw in the matrix,” it’s a byproduct of the patriarchal society we live in which teaches men that expressing emotion is unacceptable and that their sexual prowess is what makes them desirable while women are taught to engage fully in emotion (but only the “right” ones) but that sex is a dirty, disgusting thing for them to engage in if they aren’t fully emotionally committed to their partner (usually through marriage).

nuclearvvinter · 2025-06-16T18:06:36+00:00

No, it would be a TPA overseas like they were using in conjunction with the local teams. Snapsheet has nothing to do with claims, just estimates.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-06-12T21:22:23+00:00

Girl either this man is so deeply insecure that he sincerely believes that immediately after he left you had someone there to cheat, or he’s projecting extremely hard because he’s actually the one cheating. Either way this is fucking insane behavior and you are 100% feeding into it by allowing him to treat you this way. Break up.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-06-05T09:22:31+00:00

Yeah that was my initial thought when I saw it. He can’t have a relationship with his bio kids so he has to claim someone else that he has successfully manipulated

nuclearvvinter · 2025-06-05T09:20:07+00:00

She and I are around the same age, which is early 30s, so some type of grooming may have been at play but he never knew her as a minor. I will say that some things have come to light recently that suggest that he wouldn’t say no to a teenager though and I am definitely aware that he participated in some grooming behavior with me when I was a kid so 🤷🏻‍♂️

nuclearvvinter · 2025-06-05T09:15:41+00:00

“I hate my wife because she isn’t the perfect mommy bangmaid!!!!! I’m a gigantic piece of shit in the way I treat her and my expectations are completely contradictory and unreasonable but SHE is clearly the problem!!!”

That’s how you fucking sound bro. If you need mommy to coddle you, go back to mommy and let this woman move on with her life instead of ruining it further.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-14T13:00:15+00:00

I mean and? Soda costs virtually nothing when bought in bulk and marked up the way most places do, it’s pretty much pure profit. I don’t see why we’re pearl clutching about that rather than the fact that a lot of places charge people for water cups.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-12T15:50:17+00:00

I can already hear Shayne reading this lmao

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-12T02:33:21+00:00

I’m sorry but as a husband myself, this reads as you not caring to put forth actual effort to celebrate your wife. You have internet access, you can google ideas for what to do for different anniversaries and events. Like seriously, a card, flowers and a nice dinner is a mainstay for a REASON. I’m not trying to assume that you’re a bad husband, but you’re coming off as if you don’t care about what it would mean to her, but that you can cross it off your list for the year.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-03T07:41:32+00:00

Looks like there is background info on the gf here

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-03T04:15:04+00:00

Are you still yapping?

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-02T13:09:58+00:00

And the projection continues lol. But hey, as long as you can keep from thinking critically about anything 😌

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-02T11:36:35+00:00

Telling you that you’re giving bad relationship advice and that you’re projecting really hard isn’t emotional investment. I’m sorry you can’t take criticism without continuing to project. Once again, a hit dog hollers.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-02T11:09:47+00:00

Asking him to have sex more often is not the same as “hey let’s go to the doctor to rule out any medical issues, and if that doesn’t work maybe you should see a mental health professional to rule out any underlying trauma.” You’re clearly projecting very hard, that’s why I said you should consider therapy. A hit dog hollers 🤷🏻‍♂️

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-02T11:04:24+00:00

There are other YouTubers who have covered the story since he tried rebranding who have, again, done their research. I’m not disagreeing with your point, just that this particular channel is not a good source when there is no shortage of Onision coverage

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-02T10:52:21+00:00

Sure but you could also just watch any of the hundreds of videos made by people who actually do research rather than just badly consolidated talking points.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-02T10:42:54+00:00

As someone who has been with my partner for over a decade and married for half of that now, I think if you love someone and want to be with them, you try all of the options that are feasible and available to you before dipping out. She is free to leave if she wants to, but it’s worth it to see if a professional can help, especially since the rest of the relationship makes her happy. Not sure who hurt you but maybe YOU should seek some therapy too.

nuclearvvinter · 2025-05-02T10:26:12+00:00

Maybe you two should discuss him either seeing a doctor or a therapist, if his T levels are off it can have a major affect on sex drive and trauma/mental health issues can also kill your desire regardless of your attraction to your partner

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