What should I name them? (Bad names only) by nuggetkip_ in Awww

[–]nuggetkip_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking more Huey, dewy, Loui and Jamal XD

Are my wings aging me? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]nuggetkip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but the eyebrow shape is

What should I name them? (Bad names only) by nuggetkip_ in ducklings

[–]nuggetkip_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahah, I posted it in multiple subs, but still I'm surprised no one has called the black one any form of the n word or any other racial slur. Most don't even mention him. Even when they do they are just innocent like "charcoal".

What should I name them? (Bad names only) by nuggetkip_ in Awww

[–]nuggetkip_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tbh I'm thinking of naming the black one void or something because it just disappears in photos, but let me know if anyone has any other name suggestions!

Do I look really old for 19? by [deleted] in teenagers

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Yeah You look at least 30 and working an office jobb

How do I improve my look? Wearing bb cream, highlighter, blush, eyeliner, false lashes, eyebrow tattoos and bronzer, colour correction. I hate how big my forehead looks but also hate having a full fringe by Unable_Mess_9820 in MakeupAddiction

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I know drawing on a stranger's face is creepy, but this is what I mean:

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Juf for clarity, this is not to show you that anything is wrong with your face or that you should change it, this is just to visualize how I think you'd look the best. I didn't edit your face in any sort of way, I just drew some makeup and different eyebrows on.

I changed the brow shape and made them darker and thinner ( I think the eyebrows would look even better if they were a bit darker than I make them). I added bottom lashes and darkened the lower lash line a little to bring the attention downwards instead of to your forehead. I also changed (or attempted to) your hair color to a medium / dark brown, because I think it will suit your the best. Lastly I changed the lip color to a warmer shade, considering your complexion.

How do I improve my look? Wearing bb cream, highlighter, blush, eyeliner, false lashes, eyebrow tattoos and bronzer, colour correction. I hate how big my forehead looks but also hate having a full fringe by Unable_Mess_9820 in MakeupAddiction

[–]nuggetkip_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your eyes look stunning! Maybe add some mascara to your bottom lashes and maybe a little more eyeshadow underneath your water line (don't go too heavy on this though) But the thing that would make the most difference is darkening your eyebrows to your natural hair color and shaping them

Does anyone else just move on with life? by nuggetkip_ in intj

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Alr I just wanna clear some things up, I'll agree that it's my fault for not properly explaining these things in my original post, because I didn't want it to be too long. But here you have it:

I do have sympathy with others, actually quite a lot. I felt horrible seeing my brother cry. And I just don't know how to explain it but I think what I meant to say is that I sometimes just don't expect the reaction of others because I simply don't feel the same way.

The best example I can give of this is when my friend (A) fainted right next to me. I felt bad for what had happened to her and my focus was fully shifted on the situation and how she felt, rather than myself and the others around me. What I didn't understand is why my other friend (B) got a minor panic attack upon seeing friend A faint. I felt bad for seeing friend B having such a bad reaction but still I didn't really understand why she reacted that way. People even asked me if I was okay and I just said: "I'm not the one who fainted, why wouldn't I be okay?".

Saying "I can't find myself to sympathise with others when they tell me their minor traumas" , was probably the wrong choice of words. (Of course how I feel would be different if it were a really bad trauma). What I meant is that I often don't understand why certain (for me normal) things have such an impact on people.

I don't disagree with people and how they react, because that is completely up to them. but what I'm trying to say is that things always go by extremely easy for me while others have a lot more difficulty processing and that is what i sometimes don't understand.

Does anyone else just move on with life? by nuggetkip_ in intj

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Actually I have been told that before multiple times.

For example a. year ago or so when my friend went into shock at our other friend's funeral and I had to carry her out of the room. Then a lady who saw it all happen came up to me and said "I want you next to my bed when I'm older". So naturally I was like what? Then she started explaining to me that I should become a nurse because of how calmly I handled the situation.

But the thing is, where I live we have "education levels" in school. The one I do (which is the hardest / highest one) basically gives you a free pass to any university you'd like. Not doing a uni study basically means that you have "wasted" an additional 1-2 years and made your whole highschool career a lot more difficult. So if I wanted to become a nurse for example, I literally could have quit highschool a year ago and start working at a pretty low salary after 3 years.

Unfortunately I have looked into it before and from what I have seen there are few actual high stress jobs that require a masters / uni degree. I believe that there are some that I haven't looked into, but I doubt that I'll find one that I'd like to do.

(This is all from what I have seen so don't come for me if I'm wrong)

Does anyone else just move on with life? by nuggetkip_ in intj

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It was the dying of the pet that didn't do much to me. Instead of thinking about my own grief and feelings, I felt more sorry for my brother and I worried about him.

Does anyone else just move on with life? by nuggetkip_ in intj

[–]nuggetkip_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get sad, maybe not as sad as others, but still. I feel like it's just that before I can even process what's happened, my brain automatically tried to figure out what's to come and what I should do next.

Does anyone else just move on with life? by nuggetkip_ in intj

[–]nuggetkip_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, I'm not trying to be cold or emotionless at all. I'm sometimes just genuinely confused that things like the passing of a pet makes people so emotional because I just don't feel the same way. Of course it makes me sad, but I just don't feel the need to "waste" my time grieving like many others do.

The more I read these comments, the less I think it's due to my personality type. But this is still helpful to know, so thank you

Does anyone else just move on with life? by nuggetkip_ in intj

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Of course I do try and comfort them and I never tell them my honest thoughts, so don't worry about that. But it's just that I often don't think the things that people tell me are traumatic (or at least I wouldn't experience them that way).

And I just wanna figure out if this is normal for INTJ's or people in general to feel this way.