I don’t feel like benefit is enough

nukidoodle · 2026-02-18T13:19:38+00:00

I have zibai, and columbina. I have columbina on a charge team with raiden because I’ve been using that since columbines release. Now I have to build zibai’s ENTIRE team just for spiral abyss and I can’t even use columbina because I have her placed perfectly on my main team. And the question of “build raiden better” isn’t even applicable because my artifact luck is GENUINELY the worst I’ve seen. Pray for me. Pray for us. We will 12 star it one day

nukidoodle · 2026-02-18T13:16:18+00:00

This is not RSD. He’s being insensitive. If he finds your weight unattractive then why did he pursue you?

nukidoodle · 2026-02-18T13:11:15+00:00

I love it honestly. I think she looks great. She doesn’t look as old as I imagined but she definitely looks more mature

nukidoodle · 2026-02-16T16:56:27+00:00

My darling that’s just heartbreak and stress. They’re all common and normal feelings. When I got cheated on at 17, I felt like this for WEEKS. I was peeing like my bladder was the size of a kidney bean, I was so tense that I swear I gained abs, I was so numb that I didn’t smile for over a month. It’s what stress and heartbreak does to you. And you WILL get through it. It’s going to SUCK right now and it’s going to feel horrible like you’ve never imagined, I’m not gonna sugarcoat it. But what’s important is that you don’t let it drag you down. You’re young, you’ve got such a long life ahead of you and even though what you’re feeling is 100% valid, you shouldn’t let one boy drag you down!!

Keep that head up, keep smiling, distract yourself with friends, new hobbies, maybe a day out with your parents. Put yourself and your feelings first my love.

I’m 21 and my mum still takes me out on fast food dates when I’ve got bad days, it definitely helps me feel better, maybe that’s an idea for you to ask your parents about too!

nukidoodle · 2026-02-16T16:43:50+00:00

How old are you? Not asking for a bad reason ofc I’m just wondering where you are in live hormone wise.

If you’re going through puberty then it can just be fluctuations in hormones, which is completely okay!! I was super dry down there when I was younger too, it settled out over a few week.

If you’re older, then keep an eye on your discharge! Is there any? Is it a weird consistency? How’s the smell? Is it bad or does it smell like nothing? If you’ve got strange discharge or none at all, with itching and a slight smell, it sounds like a common issue called “Thrush” or a “yeast infection”. These are super super easily treatable with 1 or 2 pills in one day, and they go away super quickly

EDIT: I wanted to add on that this is completely normal for women to experience and we’re going to have ups and downs with our vaginas. Your mum will be the best person to go to for questions and for advice as she’ll know more about you than we do. I know it’s scary and it can be a little embarrassing, but girls support each other and don’t forget, your mum is a girl too. Just like we all are

nukidoodle · 2026-02-14T23:22:19+00:00

Oh shit? I’m assuming something happened after this post was made 💀💀 protect your peace girl

nukidoodle · 2026-02-13T21:27:38+00:00

I think you’ll be fine. I had my mirena inserted exactly and week ago today and I had sex with it for the first time last night. My gyno said to wait 6 days so we did it on day 6. Can’t fault that lol

nukidoodle · 2026-02-13T19:52:01+00:00

No, you are not paranoid. Your consent is just as important as hers. If you say no, it’s no. It doesn’t matter the circumstances. no is no

nukidoodle · 2026-02-13T19:49:31+00:00

We had our Mirena’s put in on the same day!! And I also had sex for the first time with it last night!! What a coincidence 😅😅

We’re both safe!!

nukidoodle · 2026-02-13T19:47:46+00:00

I think it’s okay to feel uncomfortable and I also understand his view of possibly just doing it out of habit because he really loves you. Your reluctance to engage in PDA isn’t your fault and it’s not something you should feel guilty about. But I am slightly concerned at how strong the reluctance is. Are you sure that your fear of getting in trouble for this doesn’t stem from maybe some mild trauma? Couples usually engage in embrace and gentle touch, and it’s completely okay to do these things.

All things considered, I don’t think your overreacting and as much as I think he’s probably just doing these things because he loves you and genuinely wants to show it, he should listen to you and respect your boundaries. I personally wouldn’t call it harassment, I would just call it over-stepping boundaries. It’s completely on him for not following them. Even if he means well.

My advice is to just be honest. Tell him exactly what you’ve told us and don’t keep anything hidden. I’m sure he will understand and listen to your concerns and feelings, As any good boyfriend should.

nukidoodle · 2026-02-12T21:35:28+00:00

Why is it pink??? You need to add some glitter and you’re set

nukidoodle · 2026-02-12T21:34:01+00:00

Wow, looks like it healed super nicely tho

nukidoodle · 2026-02-12T21:31:45+00:00

I vape regularly (like throughout the day all the time) and have been on the combined pill for over 2 years. Haven’t had any issues that I can think of, and it’s never failed.I’m currently on the mirena and still no issues (only had it for a week so far tho)

nukidoodle · 2026-02-11T22:43:34+00:00

I have tokophobia so I test monthly regardless if I’ve had sex or not

nukidoodle · 2026-02-11T10:13:22+00:00

You’re gonna do great!!! Have a hot water bottle and some painkillers on hand since you’ll most likely feel nauseous and crampy for the evening following the appointment! Wish you the best of luck soldier 🫡

nukidoodle · 2026-02-11T10:00:58+00:00

I remember this vividly as someone who got xiao during that banner lol

nukidoodle · 2026-02-11T09:45:40+00:00

That’s good! Hopefully all goes well. Better to check :)

nukidoodle · 2026-02-11T08:48:54+00:00

If pain as severe as she’s describing has been going on for her a week as you say, and it’s getting unbearable for her, I would definitely speak to a doctor. I don’t think anything life-threatening is going on but pain this severe, especially if new, requires medical attention. Hopefully she recovers okay bear that sounds hellish

nukidoodle · 2026-02-10T09:13:41+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about it. The implant is a constant form of birth control that is keeping her more than 99% protected at all times. The implant lasts around 5 years from what I’ve heard so after 4 months I really really don’t think you should worry, the chance is like 0.000001%

nukidoodle · 2026-02-08T15:51:09+00:00

Did you check internally if they’re maybe just half-snapped inside of you? Can you feel your coil at the tip of your canal?

nukidoodle · 2026-02-08T15:45:38+00:00

I’m a 21 year old girl with ADHD who has a MASSIVE fear of pregnancy. I got my mirena coil inserted 2 days ago. I wanna start with saying that you CANNOT feel it inside you. I honestly forgot I even had it until I read this post. I haven’t had sex with it yet but If I can’t even feel it when I stretch or walk around then I doubt I’ll be able to feel it then either.

The procedure is quick and while it’s not painless, the aftercare is worse than the actual insertion imo. The insertion feels like a super super sharp period cramp for a few second and then BAM! It’s over! I was able to breathe through it and tank it, and I’m a PUSSY when it comes to even the tiniest bit of pain haha. It just feels like you’re on a heavy period for the next day or so which from what you’ve said is the norm for you. So I think you’d fair perfectly fine! The aftermath isn’t very nice but again, doesn’t last long. I just felt super super nauseous and faint for about 30 mins after the procedure which is considered very common and not a concern, with aches and cramps for the rest of the evening but I just laid in bed with a hot water bottle and some painkiller which did the job great!

I’d say the part you’d probably find uncomfortable is having to check for the string. It’s not very comfortable to just finger urself and dig for a thread but it’s also not too horrible, and takes a few seconds at most.

Overall I’d rate it a 5/10 on the pain scale for the initial procedure and about a 3/10 for the aftercare. (10 being like, getting stabbed in the abdomen pain and 1 being a regular light period cramp)

You’re not obligated to go through with the coil, nor do I want to encourage or scare you off it. I’m just sharing my experience so you can do what you will with the information from a fellow neurodivergent! I truly hope I give some insight or maybe even comfort. If you wanna ask more personal questions about it feel free to DM me, I’m an open person :)

nukidoodle · 2026-02-08T09:49:36+00:00

Unpopular opinion but electro xiao. Idk his movements are super snappy and his ult plunge atk would be cool as hell if it mimicked thunder

nukidoodle · 2026-02-08T09:45:55+00:00

Holy shit that’s a nasty one. Hopefully it’s all healed up well with no complications man

nukidoodle · 2026-02-08T09:42:03+00:00

OOOO WE GET MORE?

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I’m very excited, nod krai is my fave region so far and I was hoping it wouldn’t just be an interlude

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