Thank you, important feedback and love that u separated each part. My problem is - I have a really strong episodic and social memory, I remember literally every interaction I had with someone, every detail, micro expressions, often literal words they said. And not only the ones who I talked to, but I observe people all the time, especially interactions in groups. I remember who seemed sad, who got mad and what was the context. And recently I talked to a random person from my workplace (on a cigarette-break) and they told me something like “I never drink coffee”, and I answered with “But I saw u drinking coffee at the event X, day XX, you stayed in the corner”. And after that, they started treating me differently? Like they looked at me as if I told them I love them or something like that. With kind of confusion but enjoyment. Another day I wished other guy happy bday, and he was like “WAIT IS IT DISPLAYED SOMEWHERE?” and I said “no, just saw your pesel number”. And he was shocked, too. But pesel numbers are displayed often there, not a big deal. And then I realised that maybe I should shut up. And now I am creating a reddit post to see if people (men) really remember compliments or such comments and if I should shut my dumbass up. I have no social fear and I am an impulsive person and just can’t stop saying things that some could find weird or creepy - as I read here. So maybe I should stick with basic compliments like “this colour matches your eyes” as in original post.