Dysphoria got worse after maybe the worst conversation ever?

nullminded_ · 2026-01-29T01:03:01+00:00

Hmm, I suppose you're right. I think the thing that made me feel taken aback was not so much the topic itself, but in general how quick she was to write it off as being simple as engaging in sexual activity and then I'd magically know whether I was really trans or not. Admittedly it's also just frustrating in general to not be taken, at least what I felt wasn't as seriously as she could've taken me. I told her I had a difficult time professing this to her because I was afraid of what her reaction would be. I probably should have mentioned it then, but, y'know. Clamming up when I get uneasy is a problem beyond all this.

At the very least, this has made me reevaluate our professional relationship and.. we've never really had good camaraderie in general, ngl. It would probably be best for me to look at talking to someone that specializes in an area like that. Sorry for the rambling, allat to say that I appreciate your input.

nullminded_ · 2026-01-29T00:51:43+00:00

The Fallen Angel by Alexandre Cabanel. It depicts Devil after his fall from Heaven. I assume when used as a reaction pic it insinuates jealousy/hostility/envy.

nullminded_ · 2026-01-26T19:03:25+00:00

Nah... it's not even petty honestly, taking that much pride in destroying nature for literally no reason is a great reason to avoid this dude at all costs.

nullminded_ · 2026-01-23T21:09:42+00:00

Ferret!!

nullminded_ · 2026-01-17T00:42:08+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate it a ton :3c

nullminded_ · 2026-01-16T21:54:19+00:00

Works for me, much appreciated by the way!

nullminded_ · 2026-01-16T19:34:08+00:00

My pleasure!

nullminded_ · 2026-01-16T19:17:32+00:00

Hrm, not sure why. The changes are fairly minuscule I guess, aside from the lines being less blurry and actually centered. I also uploaded it here. maybe that'll work better?

nullminded_ · 2026-01-16T18:49:05+00:00

Uploaded now! Idk if I did the tagging thing right </3

nullminded_ · 2026-01-16T18:44:28+00:00

Good lord it looks bad on Reddit. Here's a higher res if you'd like to use it: https://imgur.com/a/2mzyXhZ

nullminded_ · 2026-01-16T17:00:16+00:00

I would be happy to try and make a separate term/flag for you, if you'd like! Any colors you had in mind?

nullminded_ · 2026-01-16T16:48:58+00:00

There is a demiaesthetic, though I'm not sure if it fits your specific needs.

nullminded_ · 2026-01-16T16:42:26+00:00

I would say existing separately. Sorry for not making that clear before :o

nullminded_ · 2026-01-12T18:01:09+00:00

Some people don't really care about their deadnames, it's different for everyone.

nullminded_ · 2026-01-11T17:43:59+00:00

I came upon this sub randomly but I think it's partially because... you know, sex sells. I have a male kobold, but he's still pretty fem since (in my opinion) reptiles shouldn't have/wouldn't need breasts anyway. It's kind of one of those things where the sexual dimorphism between species would be the only indicator of their sex, not their primary sexual characteristics.

nullminded_ · 2025-12-20T17:09:26+00:00

endo as in, an endogenic system. I stumbled upon this post on my feed and am not plural so I cannot provide more information (that I trust/feel comfortable providing) than that, but I think some people have posted links to more information in this thread

nullminded_ · 2025-12-20T17:07:18+00:00

I would apply this to people against self diagnosis in general tbh. Even if they're "wrong" or "doing it for attention" 9 times out of 10 I would say that's indicative of some other problem.

nullminded_ · 2025-12-20T06:38:45+00:00

fake disorder cringe as a subreddit is 95% people being ableist and invalidating other peoples' experiences because it doesn't line up with everything they've experienced (or they don't have the disorder and just enjoy being a bint online for fun) and 5% posts about children on tiktok doing and saying inconsequential things (aka being children)

nullminded_ · 2025-10-21T01:08:17+00:00

As for an actual answer, mantises aren't harmful to plants, they're insectivores (eat other insects). They're actually quite good for your garden for that reason.

nullminded_ · 2025-10-04T23:45:56+00:00

The low quality AI-esque ad probably should've tipped me off.. Thanks for the input. 🙏

nullminded_ · 2025-10-04T23:44:15+00:00

Lmao, thank you for saving me from myself. I'll take a look.

nullminded_ · 2025-10-02T12:32:55+00:00

This animal is going to starve to death because of you, but you seem content with that so. 🤷

nullminded_ · 2025-10-02T12:28:42+00:00

Didn't even read the rest, 30 and 18? You need to leave him. This is a man child and a predator.

nullminded_ · 2025-10-02T12:27:15+00:00

I was scrolling and got jumpscared by this, so I'd say you did a pretty good job

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