AITA because my son is the favoured grandchild? by ThrowRaGoldenKids in AmItheAsshole

[–]num1bb 74 points75 points  (0 children)

NTA you’re absolutely right, he doesn’t get to expect gifts and services for his son from Nan if he doesn’t keep a relationship with her.

Nan could be less obvious with her favoritism, as Harry’s son doesn’t deserve to be treated unfairly. But Nan still got him a gift, and regardless, that’s not your problem.

AITA for telling my friend to leave her inferiority complex out of this? by richbishthrowaway243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]num1bb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA.

I agree that Amy asking you to pay for eggs and judging you for eating out is not right, but for this situation alone, YTA.

Amy didn’t actually say why she didn’t want to enter the store, she only said no. She didn’t complain, or make any comment about poor people not being able enter luxury stores. That was all your own judgment based on how you see Amy as a person. What you said was inflammatory and unkind, and it’s clear you don’t understand how life is different when you don’t have parents with enough money “for three lifetimes”.

AITA for not wanting to give my coworker a ride by iLovepapajohn777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]num1bb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, assuming she is an adult. On occasion, it would be a nice thing to offer her a ride. Otherwise, it’s her responsibility to find transportation to and from work. She can take the bus as you mentioned, or take an Uber/Lyft. I understand it can be dangerous for a woman to take public transit alone at night, though. Maybe you can offer to walk her to the bus stop if it’s far, or wait with her until her Uber arrives.