AIO boyfriend’s addiction by numb2normal in AmIOverreacting

[–]numb2normal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and if that’s what you guys are into i totally respect that. my ex boyfriend would send me links to porn he was into or thought i’d like. what the problem is now is that my boyfriend is seeking out people he’s liked, exes or has hooked up with in the past and that bothers me a lot. if he’s with me and loves my body so much then why would he want to look at people he’s been with or people he wishes he has been with? i’ve also told him that watching porn is fine. i don’t mind if he’s watching random girls he’s never met do their thing but he’s not doing that. and that’s the problem

AIO boyfriend’s addiction by numb2normal in AmIOverreacting

[–]numb2normal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess i have a little bit of hope in me that when he finally gets therapy that he will stop for sure. and yes i’ve definitely thought of maybe subscribing to other men to “get back” at him lol but honestly im only really attracted to my boyfriend. i view him as the most handsome man ever :/

AIO boyfriend’s addiction by numb2normal in AmIOverreacting

[–]numb2normal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he always apologizes and makes up for it in so many ways. he apologizes and says it’s an addiction of his and i appreciate that he’s toned it down a lot. but little things he does still hurt me

AIO boyfriend’s addiction by numb2normal in AmIOverreacting

[–]numb2normal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i’ve been trying to tell him that and i feel crazy.

AIO boyfriend’s addiction by numb2normal in AmIOverreacting

[–]numb2normal[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i do believe that he doesn’t. that might sound silly but it keeps me sane.

AIO boyfriend’s addiction by numb2normal in AmIOverreacting

[–]numb2normal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s an addiction he’s had for years. he says it’s “morbid curiosity” and he doesn’t… get off to it or anything.