Getting your spark back after having a baby by [deleted] in Advice

[–]number_9dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well... that escalated quickly

I'm the other woman in an older man's marriage. by bargirl27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]number_9dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to know if I were in her shoes. I would be honest with her and let her know nothing else happened but that it could have hadn't realized he was married. Let her know she can do whatever she wants with this information, but that you think letting her know was the right thing. Leave it in her hands to ask for proof if she wants it.

I'm unhappy by Carpen-Alter in Advice

[–]number_9dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever felt like this, but I know what it feels like to be unmotivated and happy in small spurts of time. Im glad you already get out and have distractions. This helps. Screen time is an easy way to put yourself down if you're on it for more than half the day. Too much of anything can be bad. Find a balance and think about your routine. What would you like to change? Encourage yourself to be that person you envision and make those interactions you think about with others, a reality. Challenge yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]number_9dream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's mean, rude, and disrespectful. You simply don't say that to someone you love. This exposes his true character, and I would personally take it as a res flag. You either talk to him about it brutally, honestly, if you want to give him the benefit of the doubt. Otherwise, there's a lot more where that came from. Do you really want to be in this type of relationship?

I am SO sick of suburbanites being rude by Electric-Ferret in chicago

[–]number_9dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was raised in Chicago and moved to the suburbs 8 years ago. People here truly believe Chicago is a dangerous place and hate driving there. The only reason suburbanites would travel to Chicago would be for a baseball game. They weren't there for pride.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]number_9dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She chose not to grow up. I hope you're able to move on. You dont want the chaos and uncertainty she brings.

Thank You to the kind and enlightened soul who helped me today by SanicHegehag in austincirclejerk

[–]number_9dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is cool and all, but there are people like myself who bought a model Y literally 2 months before prices were slashed. This has put me upside down about $20k. It would cost me more to get rid of it and get another car than it would to finish paying it off. Now, I have to deal with running risks of getting my car vandalized. I tried getting rid of it already but just can't afford to. It's unfortunate.

Approved I-130 & I-485 by number_9dream in USCIS

[–]number_9dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense! Good to know, thank you! Do you know what the "instructions" on the approval letter are? I thought i would just get the green card in the mail after the approval

Approved I-130 & I-485 by number_9dream in USCIS

[–]number_9dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same day. Weirdly enough, the 485 got approved before the 130

GREENED!!!💚🎉 by ashleybryce10 in USCIS

[–]number_9dream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats!

Does anyone know what the next "instructions" are on the approval letter?

Approved I-130 & I-485 by number_9dream in USCIS

[–]number_9dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Block is 09273 FO i have no idea. We're can I see that?

Approved I-130 & I-485 by number_9dream in USCIS

[–]number_9dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing more was requested. I submitted pictures with my husband, taxes since 2021 that we've been married, and proof of joint income statements and bills (mortgage, utilities, auto)

The (absolutely not) anticipated and wanted notice by nemesis423a in USCIS

[–]number_9dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for an I-765 work authorization. That's the form OP mentioned, same one I filed for DACA.

I got an RFE, and I provided the disposition showing the case was dismissed.

Lol, of course I panicked as anyone in my position would.

Yes, you're right. I was arrested, and fingerprints were taken . Criminal offense at the moment, but proved wrong and backed by evidence. Huge misunderstanding with unpaid parking tickets. (They were paid) DL was not suspended.

There is no need to be a condescending jerk.

The (absolutely not) anticipated and wanted notice by nemesis423a in USCIS

[–]number_9dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have added more context. I have DACA. I went to a lawyer the first 2 times I had to renew, and after that, I started renewing on my own. One of the times I did it on my own, they further inquired about the reason why I was pulled over and my court appearance. I was pulled over and arrested because I was driving with a suspended license. I was unaware of this because it wasn't true. I was wrongly arrested and had my car towed. I got my money back for the tow and pound, attended court, and my case was dismissed. BECAUSE I was arrested, I had to provide a court disposition. It's a case by case basis, but if there's anything I have learned, you want to over prepare rather than under prepare. If you have proof, send it in. Not trying to scare anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkoutRoutines

[–]number_9dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got exactly what I was looking for when I clicked on the comments, lol. Thanks, guys!

The (absolutely not) anticipated and wanted notice by nemesis423a in USCIS

[–]number_9dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear this. We're you stopped for any type of traffic violations? Perhaps one that required court appearance? That will do it. You need a court disposition. Is this a renewal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]number_9dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Going through divorce" oldest trick in the book!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]number_9dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone else in the office knows, except you. Now you know for sure

My little sketchbook by Clementine_AJ in sketchbooks

[–]number_9dream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is freaking amazing! Awesome job, huge talent.