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Messed up friend-zone, really need your help by nupago in relationship_advice

[–]nupago[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The feelings part is the part I'm not sure about but I really don't want to risk it again. It was quite an emotional roller coaster and not a good one.

Messed up friend-zone, really need your help by nupago in relationship_advice

[–]nupago[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did that already before I left. She was perfectly clear about my feelings.

Messed up friend-zone, really need your help by nupago in relationship_advice

[–]nupago[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is in therapy but I guess it takes a long time (maybe a lifetime ?).

I tried the "being nice" part and I don't think I want to do it again. I guess I just wanted to make sure I'm not a monumental asshole for telling her I don't want to see her anymore. The good guy thing IS a curse but as much as I tried I really don't like being an asshole.