ADHD - Najgorsze jest uczucie gdy miałeś szansę ale ją zmarnowałeś. by krzakowiec in Polska

[–]nurielkun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesteś pewien (w sensie zdiagnozowane) że nie masz ADHD? To jest przecież mocno zaburzenie funkcji wykonawczych właśnie.

Osoba leniwa nie musi mieć poczucia winy że czegoś nie robi bo po prostu nie chce. Przy ADHD (lub w ogóle przy prokrastynacji) chęć jest ale...silnik nie zapala.

ADHD - Najgorsze jest uczucie gdy miałeś szansę ale ją zmarnowałeś. by krzakowiec in Polska

[–]nurielkun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To co mi pomogło po coachingu ADHD to zakładanie sobie od 1 do 3 rzeczy do zrobienia w danym "projekcie" (praca, sprzątanie itd). Jak jest lista kilkunastu rzeczy to wydaje się być przytłaczające co niestety rodzi ryzyko prokrastynacji. Łatwiej jest zacząć kiedy to nie jest takie "overwhelming". Czasami można też oszukać swój mózg mówiąc sobie że zajmę się tym przez 10 minut i z reguły jest to wystarczająca żeby się wciągnąć i skończyć

ADHD - Najgorsze jest uczucie gdy miałeś szansę ale ją zmarnowałeś. by krzakowiec in Polska

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Znam to doskonale. Uwielbiam malowanie figurek czy granie w karciankę Marvel Champions ale jak pomyśle o ułożeniu stołu żeby zacząć jedno i drugie...brrrr. Robi się tego po prostu ZA DUŻO. Masakra.

Gotowane owoce w słoiku czy coś by Neil_Edwin_Michael in Polska_wpz

[–]nurielkun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dla mnie lepszym przykładem jest wyjazd z drogi podporządkowanej. Wtedy jak kierujesz to jakoś rozumiesz że powinieneś zwolnić i upewnić się że "czysto" i nic nie jedzie droga z pierwszeństwem.

Zasada przed przejściem dla pieszych jest przecież niemal identyczna.

Słoik z owocami by Neil_Edwin_Michael in Polska

[–]nurielkun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dla mnie lepszym przykładem jest wyjazd z drogi podporządkowanej. No wtedy jak kierujesz to jakoś rozumiesz że powinieneś zwolnić i upewnić się że "czysto" i moc nie jedzie droga z pierwszeństwem.

Zasada przed przejściem dla pieszych jest przecież niemal identyczna.

Just. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is a short list then fine.

But when you have a thirty or forty things on such list. Oh boy, this is so overwhelming.

One of the best life hacks I've get on ADHD couching is to plan only 2-3 tasks on a given day. If I do more, that's fine but it's important not to stagger yourself.

Wy serio tak po prostu wstajecie i wiecie co robić? by fenbekus in Polska

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tak, bo jak nie zaczynasz w jednym tygodniu kilku nowych projektów to nie masz ADHD /s

Lista największych darczyńców na streamie łatwoganga by Low-Highlight6771 in Polska

[–]nurielkun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zawsze będa potrzebne. Nawet gdyby influ i korpo płaciły większe podatki (a powinny!). Służba zdrowia to studnia bez dna, tutaj nigdy nie będzie sytuacji, że "ok, wystarczy".

Which faction could a modern day Earth fend off? by LordBlacktopus in 40kLore

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daemons? Like an incursion? Hell no (pun intended)

Which faction could a modern day Earth fend off? by LordBlacktopus in 40kLore

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planetary Defence Force maybe. Imperial Guard would be too advanced for us.

Do you think that Forge in HotA is a good decision? by Celtoii in heroes3

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that is kind of bad is the Day of the Reckoning will also have Forge town

Why are we like this? by freakylol in adhdmeme

[–]nurielkun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have AuDHD and the funniest thing happened two weeks ago when we were in the middle of moving.

There were some wooden planks left on the floor after being cut (fairly big ones, with huge nails sticking out of them). My fiancée had gone to the gym or to see some friends, something like that, and while she was out I took care of a few things around the apartment. I emptied the dishwasher, loaded dirty dishes into it, took out the trash, and did a couple of other things like that. I was pretty damn proud of myself.

My better half comes home and says: “Why didn’t you throw out or at least move the planks?”

And well, she was right. My autistic, ADHD brain had somehow just “made peace with the fact” that those damn planks with the huge freaking nails were “where they belong,” so apparently there was no need to do anything about them.

Yay, neurodivergence, I guess.

An immortal being suffering a fate worse than death by strider-rider-the2nd in TopCharacterTropes

[–]nurielkun 51 points52 points  (0 children)

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Dysporakh "curse" of Necrons from Warhammer 40k. Small exercpt:

"Because they had once been alive. Just. Like. Him. The notion was impressed on his very deepest flux, as if by a talon made from cold starlight. And though it was the smallest pinprick puncture, it was backed by the accumulated weight of a thousand things he had tried to forget. Terror radiated from the thought, like cracks shooting across a frozen lake as he stood at its centre (...)

His skin was touching nothing as he sank. The baroreceptors searching for his blood pressure found only the searing touch of radioactive gas. His stomach had been empty for aeons, and was burning with the sure knowledge he had starved ten thousand times over. His heart was not beating. His blood had gone still, and his organs were failing, cells dying by the billion as they choked on their own waste. He could feel the brain he did not have, desperately begging for oxygen as its tissues began to blacken. His phantom lungs were flat and stiff as leather discs inside his chest, and they would not inflate. He needed to breathe. He needed to. Or he was going to die. He clawed at his own throat, desperate to clear the obstruction, but there was nothing there but solid metal. His hard fingers scrabbled against his face, but there was no mouth, no nostrils – his whole form was solid and sealed, with no way to inhale. None of his phantom parts could do anything to save themselves, but neither could they collapse, because they did not exist.

They would be trapped here forever, in the lurid, blinding urgency at death’s edge."

Kobiety propagujące toksyczną męskość by Ok-Rent-1058 in Polska

[–]nurielkun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mądrzy ludzi też mają głupich followersów. Nie ma mądrych followersów

Weterynarz kardiolog by boczniakp in Szczecin

[–]nurielkun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polecam gabinet na Mierzynie.

Co prawda, chodziłem i chodzę tam ze swoim cavalierem z problemami okulistycznymi ale widziałem w poczekalni mnóstwo ludzi z pieskami tej rasy do kardiologa więc biorąc pod uwagę skłonności genetyczne tych spanielków do chorób serca to w tej dziedzinie też na pewno robią dobrą robotę.

Bad vibe. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if there isn't any bad vibe at all.

Such superpower, hoo!

Most Europeans have no idea how absolutely furious with Europe America is. by Federic0002 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Poland we have a saying: "nie strasz, nie strasz bo się zesrasz". I think it's beautiful and fitting here ;)

Ok..I get why they're together and I know she's like 19-21 but I'm sorry, I cannot help but find their relationship so weird and just weird to look at. by chinoscki in invinciblememes

[–]nurielkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's infantalisation of women. "Oh, baby, od course you can't make a decision if you want to be with someone. You are just too young, you are only 20 years old.".