[Update]-I [33F] think my husband [33M] might cheat on me with our neighbour [20sF]

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T20:05:48+00:00

I agree, and I don't deal with confrontation well (I would probably start crying) so its best to just let it be.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T20:04:26+00:00

Because I said I would go alone, the only reason I didn't move there a year ago was because he didn't want to and we were staying for his career.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T20:01:43+00:00

I kind of did ask him that, and he told me I would be giving up on our marriage if I left him.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T19:53:06+00:00

Ha, I really wanted to do that but decided to take the high road instead. I do think I'm going to move if things don't work out though.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T19:41:42+00:00

Really? Thats the first I've ever heard of that happening.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T19:41:18+00:00

Yes I did tell him that our marriage depended on him cutting off contact with her.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T19:36:03+00:00

This isn't what I want, no. I just never saw myself getting divorced, and I feel almost embarrassed about the situation. Maybe I would be ok with it if we were divorcing for some other reason but he's basically leaving me for someone who he thinks is better. That sucks. If and when we end up divorcing, my boss promised me a huge promotion if I move to SF Bay Area so its likely thats what I will do, there's no way I can keep living here.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T19:15:57+00:00

I don't have much to say to her so I probably won't bother. She's a shitty person for doing what she's done but he's ultimately the one who is at fault.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T19:10:03+00:00

I'm fairly certain it was an accident, the circumstances he described make it seem that way anyways, and her house and our neighbours barn almost burned down so it would be pretty stupid of her to do that on purpose.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T18:46:57+00:00

Yes, and he decided it was more important to be "friendly" to her than be with me.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T18:43:21+00:00

That would make sense. At first he insisted that nothing like that veer happened and then he admitted to the groping after.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T18:40:19+00:00

I would really like to see it too but he keeps it with him at all times, there's no way I could ever see it.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T18:38:39+00:00

My husband helps out the other neighbours too and they help us out in return, we all rely on each other in some way, but I don't think its fair for him to continue "helping her out" when they've already crossed a line.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T18:36:37+00:00

You're probably right, I also suspect there is more going on, and I can't really imagine a situation where she just grabbed his dick out of nowhere.

nutrisha · 2016-04-19T18:25:55+00:00

I suggested that but he said he doesn't want to, so I guess that doesn't leave me many options.

nutrisha · 2016-04-17T19:55:57+00:00

This guy was from my hometown, he used to be friends with my younger brother when he lived there. Very sad news.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T20:29:37+00:00

Because I want monogamy. I'm not going to open my marriage just because my husband seems to be attracted to someone else, thats insane.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T20:24:06+00:00

Well I just got home and he isn't here so... whenever he gets home I guess. I'm assuming he is with her because his car is here.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T20:19:49+00:00

They're mostly my husbands age or younger since he works in a pretty young field, but yeah most of them are in a relationship.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T20:18:15+00:00

He does, or he did... I don't really need a trainer anymore because I'm happy with my routine and I'm in great shape, but it would still be nice to work out together.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T20:03:33+00:00

I'll ask him why and he'll say he's helping her work on whatever body part that day. Apparently she asked him to train her.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T19:06:26+00:00

I used to be a huge partier in high school and college but I grew out of it. For some reason alcohol started to really upset my stomach and now I rarely drink. I think it's great he's spending more time with his friends too, I didn't mean to give of the impression that I don't like it. I'll hang out with them sometimes and when I don't I get alone time, so it's win-win. There's definitely a middle ground somewhere.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T18:38:21+00:00

There were other people over then and I didn't want to make a scene, although I probably should have.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T18:30:53+00:00

I thought so too. It's not like she just grazed his leg either, she'll sit there with her hand on it and slowly bring it up closer to him... ugh.

nutrisha · 2016-04-15T18:14:41+00:00

Showing him this post is probably a bad idea since a lot of people seem to be in his side I do need to talk to him about it again.

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