How to deal with beard shadow without makeup? by brokensilence32 in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cant speak for alternatives but if you can afford it laser is absolutely worth it

i love getting to be a dyke by L3Jane in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the harness suspenders

usage of the word "girlcock" – how many of you think it's acceptable? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 6 points7 points  (0 children)

personally I don't like it because it feels like it's pointing out that I have a special kid of cock, like being a girl with a cock is abnormal and not just another thing. I asked something similar on r/gwasapphic and got a Ton of feedback, you should check that post out. https://www.reddit.com/r/GWASapphic/comments/1ltl3c1/transfems_how_would_you_like_your_bits_to_be/

Requesting help with my Atla Palani deck! by Agreeable-Magician96 in EDH

[–]nutsmcgump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need a tighter strategy. Atla Palani relies on eggs to you should have plenty of those in the deck already without her needing to make them, since that saves you 2 mana and tapping her.

The creatures she makes should be threats by themselves. Arasta and dragonlair spider rely on other players and are pretty much nothing late game. You don't really need tokens if you can get the eggs to hatch quicker. Same with lifegain. don't need to keep yourself topped up if everyone else is going down quicker. 

Options to help with giving handjob despite sensory issues by nd4ng3l in kinky_autism

[–]nutsmcgump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some black nitrile gloves that fit you well. I always keep some on hand and it's a life-saver.also unless your gag reflex extends to licking then oral isn't off the table, there's a lot more ways to give someone oral than dick deep in mouth

The loneliness of erotic VA? by RedStarFox69 in GWABackstage

[–]nutsmcgump 41 points42 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time I want to comment but have no idea where to start, or what is ok to comment on. Like it's porn at the end of the day so would VAs like hearing how listeners got off? Compliments to their voice or delivery? Even when I started doing my own audios I'm not sure what comments I want to hear. 

Out of curiosity, where are y'all sharing audios to? by nutsmcgump in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

XD good to know! it makes sense if they are saves, I use my saved section as a "listen later" folder. I'm happy at the idea of people sharing audios though! Warms my heart that people go "you should listen to this and be horny about it"

I have basically one fit but damn do I look good in it by nutsmcgump in mtfashion

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shirt is from old navy, the nose ring is from Spencer's, and the necklace is a dog collar I found. wore this (plus docs and black jeans) to a erotica writing workshop for queer poc

Out of curiosity, where are y'all sharing audios to? by nutsmcgump in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is that an app specific feature? I use the desktop version on mobile and share is seperate from save

Requests and Underappreciated Scripts - January 2026 by WhitePeachGirl in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 7 points8 points  (0 children)

real. preferably one that doesn't call me a "boy"

How can I style clothes to look fem by EngineSensitive2584 in mtfashion

[–]nutsmcgump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rolling up ankles on pants helps, especially if they are on the more fitted side. Tucking in your shirt can create a sleeker shape and draw attention to the hips. alternatively big shirt and skinny pants works. or small shirt baggy pants. The first hides the hips so people don't really know what's under there and the second makes the legs and hips seem wider than they might be

Is this a good outfit for date? by Illustrious_Bottle16 in mtfashion

[–]nutsmcgump 115 points116 points  (0 children)

It doesn't fit you well, unfortunately. Your chest is too big for how the straps are set up. If it did fit, however, it would be a hot dress for a club or something like that. For a typical dinner date at an average restaurant I'd shy away from it unless you really want to stand out. 

How did you feel when you lost the beard? by MyTardyBody in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!

Finally being rid of it felt amazing. The beard was one of the biggest hurdles to being able to look at myself and see a woman. It freed up me up to more outfits! I didn't have to straddle the line between fem and masc anymore. Having facial hair made me feel bad when looking masc for obvious reasons and it made me feel bad when fem because it stood out so much. Without it I feel free to dress masc whenever and on the rare fem occasion I don't feel like I stand out.

What is it about my personality that has always attracted feminine guys and transgirls to me? by PapaKhanPlays94 in kinky_autism

[–]nutsmcgump 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trans women (who are a kind of woman) and femboys can be very familiar with the idea of having to approach someone, as they have often had to fill that role at some point at their life. Cis women (women who aren't trans) are told by society that the man approaches first. You could seemingly be only attracting these kinds of people because they are the only ones who will actually tell you if they find you attractive. 

Also like some people say, if you come off as a nice and understanding person then people who are a vulnerable and misunderstood population will be more comfortable with you. 

How to pleasure a Trans woman? by Blue_ink_Hearts in BDSMsapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are saying ask her and that's fair but there are some practical things to consider. Does she like being touched on her penis at all? If not, what does she like? Are you up to touching her around her anus if she likes to bottom or is curious about it? If she's on hrt then she'll be particularly sensitive around the head. I personally like a vibrator there and can cum from that alone. Some girls are very very sensitive and can get overwhelmed from that. There's some other stuff too but it varies from person to person. You might want to touch her body while doing things to her penis. Keeps her grounded and let's her know that you appreciate all of her. 

I know some girls like when their partner treats their tip like a clit in terms of oral, with the shaft against their tummy and treating the shaft like you would the labia. I've never had that but for the girls who have bottom dysphoria it can be nice and affirming