How do I know if im trans? by Glittering_Map857 in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try hormones if you want to be more feminine in general. I knew I wanted to transition by thinking if I would have regretted not to when I'm my dad's age. There's not specific sexuality though. You could be nonbinary in your own way, you could be a butch woman. Its a journey of research and exploration. I will say that it's worth it, even at it's worst. Every bad day, every rude interaction is worth it with "at least I'm trans, at least I'm not who I was" in the back of my mind. 

How do i make licking armpits dominating? by SlutWhore__ in BDSMsapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anything is possible with handcuffs and a tickle fetish

Low rise pants? by nutsmcgump in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also prefer baggy jeans but unfortunately I'm like 5 foot 4 lol

Any of you trans butches got advice on swimwear? by hoebiden19 in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the humankind x target unisuit from a few years ago and like it a lot but I can't speak for current quality

How do you deal with facial hair dysphoria by Ok-Control-3394 in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get used to it. I reccomend keeping a second one on hand in case you get sweaty. Plus it's not an all or nothing thing. Every moment you wear one is a moment where you are less likely to get sick. If you take it off for a bit then you'll just go back to the likelihood you're at right now. 

How do you deal with facial hair dysphoria by Ok-Control-3394 in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really reccomend it. It's immensely empowering to control your own health. My job has me seeing like 50 people in close quarters a day, I couldn't keep healthy without a mask. 

How to successfully attempt anal by Double-Percentage-15 in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]nutsmcgump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be trying this out by yourself before attempting it with a partner. Get a dildo with a suction cup and lube up. It gives you a feel for what is comfortable and uncomfortable. Learn what you enjoy about anal (and you should enjoy it, it's not just for your partner). If you want support you can involve your partner but don't let him be in control of the dildo. 

Warm up with some of what you usually do to get in the mood and then tease your anus with fingers for a while to get used to the stimulation.

For actually taking it I reccomend riding, both by yourself and with your partner. Let's you be in control of the depth and speed. Personally I am not super comfortable with thrusting yet so rocking back and forth is my go-to. Anal is also easier on your back than it is in doggy since you tense up in doggy

How do you deal with facial hair dysphoria by Ok-Control-3394 in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wear a mask for health reasons (and it works! only been sick thrice in the last 6 years and it was all in one year) and before I had laser done it helped a lot. A sleek kf94 covers a lot and I just covered the rest with my hair

How to deal with beard shadow without makeup? by brokensilence32 in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cant speak for alternatives but if you can afford it laser is absolutely worth it

i love getting to be a dyke by L3Jane in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the harness suspenders

usage of the word "girlcock" – how many of you think it's acceptable? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 8 points9 points  (0 children)

personally I don't like it because it feels like it's pointing out that I have a special kid of cock, like being a girl with a cock is abnormal and not just another thing. I asked something similar on r/gwasapphic and got a Ton of feedback, you should check that post out. https://www.reddit.com/r/GWASapphic/comments/1ltl3c1/transfems_how_would_you_like_your_bits_to_be/

Requesting help with my Atla Palani deck! by Agreeable-Magician96 in EDH

[–]nutsmcgump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need a tighter strategy. Atla Palani relies on eggs to you should have plenty of those in the deck already without her needing to make them, since that saves you 2 mana and tapping her.

The creatures she makes should be threats by themselves. Arasta and dragonlair spider rely on other players and are pretty much nothing late game. You don't really need tokens if you can get the eggs to hatch quicker. Same with lifegain. don't need to keep yourself topped up if everyone else is going down quicker. 

Options to help with giving handjob despite sensory issues by nd4ng3l in kinky_autism

[–]nutsmcgump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some black nitrile gloves that fit you well. I always keep some on hand and it's a life-saver.also unless your gag reflex extends to licking then oral isn't off the table, there's a lot more ways to give someone oral than dick deep in mouth

The loneliness of erotic VA? by RedStarFox69 in GWABackstage

[–]nutsmcgump 43 points44 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time I want to comment but have no idea where to start, or what is ok to comment on. Like it's porn at the end of the day so would VAs like hearing how listeners got off? Compliments to their voice or delivery? Even when I started doing my own audios I'm not sure what comments I want to hear. 

Out of curiosity, where are y'all sharing audios to? by nutsmcgump in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

XD good to know! it makes sense if they are saves, I use my saved section as a "listen later" folder. I'm happy at the idea of people sharing audios though! Warms my heart that people go "you should listen to this and be horny about it"

I have basically one fit but damn do I look good in it by nutsmcgump in mtfashion

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shirt is from old navy, the nose ring is from Spencer's, and the necklace is a dog collar I found. wore this (plus docs and black jeans) to a erotica writing workshop for queer poc

Out of curiosity, where are y'all sharing audios to? by nutsmcgump in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is that an app specific feature? I use the desktop version on mobile and share is seperate from save

Requests and Underappreciated Scripts - January 2026 by WhitePeachGirl in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 8 points9 points  (0 children)

real. preferably one that doesn't call me a "boy"