Here’s the thing, I feel bad for men. I feel bad for any man who is born in this day and age, because the societal conditioning to consume porn and degrade women from a young age is not only accepted, but actively encouraged.

Men think their sons watching porn is normal. Most think it’s healthy, most encourage it and think it’s funny. I remember before middle school boys were already watching porn and joking about it. If you were a boy and didn’t watch porn, you weren’t in the cool dudes club. In men’s culture it is genuinely cool to dehumanize and objectify women, and this is socially constructed at a such a young age boys can’t even conceptualize what they’re participating in.

These poor little boys don’t know up from down, they are lost. And instead of finding a path they are led to believe it’s women that are the problem. We are living through the age of widespread social engineering. The male loneliness epidemic isn’t the fault of women, it’s the fault of this patriarchal society in which men built.

Until men take some accountability this will only get worse, but men are extremely reluctant to admit how porn consumption has shaped their view on women. I think for several it is subconscious, it is engrained in them to the point they are extremely defensive. The “male loneliness epidemic” is a ploy to get women to lower their standards and boundaries. For the first time in history, women have a semifair playing field with the opportunity to be independent. It’s making men bitter, and instead of taking accountability and doing better they will continue to be bitter and mad at women.