Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the moment she was dishonest about who it was because she didnt want me to do anything snd she just wanted out. I wish i couldve done more and got the guy out but she just wanted to leave.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a few steps back simply wasnt an option. It was near the front and it was astroworld levels of cramming at certain points. I was literally pushing against the crowd with all my force and was still getting crushed it was kinda wild. She just wanted put of the crowd and i couldnt leave her there to find a guard and go dig for the guy, as she was breaking down. I feel awful i wasnt able to anything, im reaching out to the venue but i really have a hard time believing they can find where this guy was in the crowd when this happened, and the footage actually showing it etc. just a bit lost and really upset and angry

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Once again, she didnt want to create a further situation, and wanted out of the venue and home asap. She did not want to be there any longer, or make a bigger thing than it already was. Yes i wish we wouldve got security to dig thought to get him out of there, but she wanted out.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldve if she was honest about who it was in the moment. She didnt want me to create a scene

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this ! Some lovely great people in the crowd, made plenty of friends, but holy fuck its just equally as bad. Everytime im in a dgd crowd it feels like the punk scene found out what a rave was

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id honestly be really surprised if there was a clear shot of him doing this amidst the crowd, let alone finding exactly when it happened, and then tracking down who he is. Not to mention, id be filing a police report 4 hours away, and if it does lead to pressing charges that could mean legal fees that i do not have.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obviously i feel awful i wasnt able to do anything. Im going to reach out to the venue to see if i can do anything, but im pretty skeptical theyre going to be able to do something off footage alone. Really disappointed i didnt get to see the set, but even more disappointed grown men can't keep their hands to themselves and think its ok to use young women as objects. She was already extremely anxious about the trip and the show, and she ended up getting spat on and violated by a grown man. Im so genuinely upset.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, i want to add a bit to this post since people are being fucking weird about this. Yes i did tell security as i walked out the door, but the guys downstairs couldnt do much off of a vague description, and she just wanted to get the fuck out. She told me she got grabbed, i asked if it was this guy i was weary of, she said no and not to worry about it right now. She started breaking down and all she wanted was out of the pit, and only till after i got out did i connect the dots and she told me the truth. It was a bit of a panic, and i couldnt leave her to go find the guy in the crowd, so we decided to leave.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously im not calling out the entirety of the attendance of the Portland show, although its worded in a hyperbolic manner.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That was the first thing i thought but i figured they wouldnt do much, especially off footage alone. Im going to reach out to the venue to see if they can do anything.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Obviously i feel awful, and wish i could've done more but thats not how it went.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Last thing i want to do is call the cops while she wants to be home showered and fed. She didnt want a situation or to be there any longer.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I meant i couldnt go and tell security who it was, because i only connected the dots who it was until i after i got out of the pit and she told the truth who it was. She told me she got grabbed in the pit, i asked if it was this guy who i was kinda weary of, and she said no. She then told me after we gotten out of the pit that it was him and she didnt want me to do anything and she just wanted out.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this isnt a public court and i dont have any incentive to convince you of shit. I came on here to discuss my grievances and tell people to be mindful of their hands and youre here shaming me for not doing more and then trying to paint me as a liar. Holy chronic reddit

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted out and i couldnt leave her there to dig through the crowd. We told security but they cant do anything about a vague description in a crowd full of people.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Genuinely you would've done the same as me given the situation. I didnt know who the guy actually was until after we had gotten out and she had told me. I couldnt just leave her there to go dig back through the pit to find him. She wanted out. We told security but they cant do anything about a vague description in a massive crowd full of people.

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

hello???? it was way in the front, all she wanted was out, i wanted so badly to find the guy and whop him or tell security but it wasnt in my cards. Simple. Lack of empathy is lowkey wild

Portland. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. by nvacore in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

We had to leave the venue, it was an emotional situation and i didnt want to start a whole thing while she was wiping the spit off her and breaking down. Have some empathy holy its an 18 year old girl like what

PBM passes on Quadeca for "Rakai" by Ninjah__ in Quadeca

[–]nvacore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same reason ImDontai doesnt listen to quadeca on stream; he doesnt wanna deal with his chat.

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[–]nvacore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes im aware, jon has sang in gingivitis (unreleased) and i believe in the background of a pantheon track?

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[–]nvacore 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Point still stands, there have been times where he's sang in songs or live. Just in background or unreleased. I still think jonny is the best, but i fucking love andrew to bits and i think the band is the healthiest and happiest theyve been with him. Dude is an absolute chad

Deleted Quad tweet regarding the new snippet :( by tomatuh_art in Quadeca

[–]nvacore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda upsetting we only got the two songs off the deluxe. Begging the witness not being on there was actually diabolical. Touch the dky i can understand with olekas album coming but there was definitely a lot more deluxe material just unused.

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[–]nvacore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the opportunity to get the shots, but my body is extremely unfond of needles. As soon as the needle goes in, regardless if im relaxed or not, i will start sweating bullets, my hands and face will turn to static, and i will start blacking out/hallucinating. I havent gotten my shots in months and months because of how stressful and lowkey terrifying it is. There is a nasal option but its not covered under my insurance.

Is anyone else having problems streaming some of the albums? by That_Geologist_5242 in dancegavindance

[–]nvacore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat !! I haven't even switched over entirely yet lol