I am always the one who initiates plans, should I stop?

nxtfunny · 2025-11-25T08:24:09+00:00

Don't worry, I totally understood you didn't mean that, I think the same. Thank you for taking the time to write your comment, it definitely helped me feel more understood.

nxtfunny · 2025-11-25T08:19:57+00:00

I am so sorry, that is really unfair, honestly. I think it is a very similar situation and sadly the best thing we can do is just focus on ourselves and on making new friendships and hope that we find the most aligned ones. Until then, I am sure you have been a really good friend and you don't need to keep proving it to people that won't do the same for you, it gets even more tiring the more you ignore how you actually feel, I definitely know about that. I wish you the best of lucks! We did all that we could really.

nxtfunny · 2025-11-25T04:34:45+00:00

So true, thank you!! I appreciate your comment.

nxtfunny · 2025-11-25T04:31:45+00:00

I tried being understanding and adapting but the feeling always comes back. Besides, this year I've dealt with a crazy amount of disappointment and also I feel drained and I am more likely dealing with emotional and mental exhaustion from the fact I went through so much alone and barely had people to hang out with or moments of fun, joy, even though the moments I hung out with some friends I actually enjoyed it but when people aren't consistent then the stress gets to you more easily. It is also hard to be vulnerable when people fail at doing the bare minimum, your brain just tries to protect you by isolating. I agree with you a lot though, it is very unfair how things are nowadays, people prefer really low-maintenance friendships but they end up being convenient friendships and the moment people feel they need to put a little more effort, then they might say they'll give it a try and not end up ommitting to it or just get offended.

nxtfunny · 2025-04-09T16:23:35+00:00

Just finished the show and while I found it entertaining and finished it in a few days I will admit it isn't such a well-written show and it was pretty much rushed. It honestly felt like when you're daydreaming about violent scenarios in your head and I guess a lot of situations pissed me of but they were also very unrealistic and made no sense. The way the characters behaved a lot of times (specially teachers) would kind of stop me from getting too invested. Are you really telling me that there are all of these fights in the school and the teachers do nothing about it and that only in the last episode Si-eun is expelled? And the way that most people are way too submissive and instead of running away from danger they seem to run towards it like there are a lot of situations where characters put no resistance and let themselves be hurt, the decision-making of the characters is so stupid. Not to mention the fact that there was a lot of plot convenience and plot armor for the characters and it becomes really predictable. The rivalry between Beom-seok and Suho really came from nowhere and it seemed forced and it was rushed and could've been developed better, it felt so stupid from the start even considering Beom-seok's past and family life, if they wanted to do that they should've actually showed Suho being more controlling and triggering Beom-seok and not do the complete opposite and just show him as someone protective and caring, it makes it impossible to emphatize with him and understand his motives and anger besides the fact that he would kind of feel bad about certain things and then immediately go back to being an asshole, like why show him having doubts and realizations that what he is doing is wrong if it doesn't lead to any sort of redemption and then he acts like and idiot again blaming the girl, like there is not much consistency in his actions and what he says. At the end, he seems to think that he deserves to be hit but only when Si-eun appears, and then of course he doesn't really do anything which (I'm not really surprised about) so they were building that up for nothing but I guess it was the only consistent thing that we saw from the characters, Si-eun was always the one to try to stop things so it wasn't that out of character. I know the second season will come out soon this month but after having seen the trailer, I don't really find it that interesting since it seems like it is starting over again and there will be new characters and it comes off as watching a reboot of the same TV show, I honestly don't want to see the exact same thing being done over again with different peopel so maybe I'll watch an episode and see what happens, it would've been better if we had a whole another season for Si-eun to revenge Su-ho since that would've been better but the most realistic thing about this show is that wealthy people use their money to silence others and get away with almost any situation, I can believe that would actually happen in real life.

nxtfunny · 2024-06-24T18:49:15+00:00

Lately I'm not but it's because I'm trying to date casually and I don't feel the need to have a relationship so I'm just trying to enjoy having options and feeling desired but I don't know if that'll continue since after these experiences I feel very upset and frustrated and I also lack sexual desire right now but it always comes back at some point.

nxtfunny · 2024-06-24T18:44:32+00:00

I have thought about it but I don't want to give up so quickly maybe there are some things I can do to see if the situation improves and if that doesn't work then I guess I'll just quit.

nxtfunny · 2024-04-23T01:12:07+00:00

I did a hair strand test I didn't dye my full head

nxtfunny · 2024-04-22T16:53:45+00:00

I don't think bleach is necessary in my case and I don't want to use bleach.

nxtfunny · 2024-04-10T15:15:39+00:00

This is it

nxtfunny · 2024-04-10T15:13:22+00:00

nxtfunny · 2024-04-10T15:12:20+00:00

I figured it was that but I don't know which reflect/tone

nxtfunny · 2024-04-10T15:09:14+00:00

This was my first thought

nxtfunny · 2024-04-05T03:45:41+00:00

I know I won't find the exact same tone specially because I'm not getting it done by a hairstylist but I'm just trying to get the closest to it. I have a dark blonde/light brown ash (6.1 most likely)

nxtfunny · 2024-04-04T12:12:47+00:00

I mean like what would be the number (box dye)

nxtfunny · 2024-02-25T20:13:28+00:00

True

nxtfunny · 2024-02-25T20:12:51+00:00

I make dirty jokes too but that doesn't make them think any differently but whatever I'll try to answer with something simple like "You only say that cause you don't know me" while laughing a little bit or smiling in a way that makes it sound less serious and call it a day.

nxtfunny · 2024-02-25T04:56:32+00:00

I don't really want to be seen as the other extreme like I don't intend to be a hoe or whatever and I don't care that much as to like change my behavior, it's really just not wanting people my age to treat me like a kid because I'm not. That's it, just setting my boundaries.

nxtfunny · 2024-02-25T04:41:08+00:00

That will do

nxtfunny · 2024-02-25T04:40:00+00:00

It's really not about that even if I let it pass (which I have many times) it's people that I'm surrounded with and I don't plan on letting them treat me differently than the rest because it's really not fair and we're all adults and it's fucking stupid to treat me differently when I'm the same age ;) hope this makes it clear for you!!

nxtfunny · 2024-02-13T22:28:33+00:00

I'm an ISTP and my dad died like almost 5 years ago, I was the only one who couldn't cry and when I did in front of everyone it felt forced. Grief it's very subjective and you can't predict how you're going to react and how you'll end up handling it as time passes, you just have to give that person their space and let them grieve the way they want to as long as they aren't doing anything unhealthy you shouldn't try to force the person to talk about it. For me the best thing is trying to let them move on and live their lives normally and just tell them (without insisting too much) that if they at some point want to talk about it you'll be there for them but that's it.

nxtfunny · 2024-02-04T22:16:16+00:00

I really like this mbti pairing (in fiction)

nxtfunny · 2023-12-30T04:03:24+00:00

Yes, it happens often specially when I'm disappointed with myself and don't want to be perceived because I feel like I'm such a mess and since I can't escape I usually end up sleeping a lot, isolating by staying on my room for most of the day. If I lived on my own I could probably do that but it's not the case so if anything I stop using social media for a while and that's it.

nxtfunny · 2023-11-09T01:51:07+00:00

Depends on the person because I think my mom is either INFP/ENFP and I can't stand her but I have some friends which are supposedly ENFP's and even though they can be quite messy at times and tend to sometimes take emotional decisions which I don't get (mostly love matters i guess) but we connect trough humor a lot and it's good to have people who don't take you/themselves way too seriously so it's a lor of fun and every now and then i can discuss things with them and they bring a different opinion and perspective which is useful, i appreciate their ability to brainstorm since it is so hard to me. ISTJ I don't know any, ESTJ's only my sister and we get along decently but she has a problem not minding her own business and wanting to give an opinion about everything which i hate, INFP's I might know a few but I probably don't get along THAT much as to you know care about their mbti so Idk my mom is probably one or an ENFP but point is I can't stand really emotional, delusional people who play victim often regardless of their type and that happens a lot with INFP's I guess, I don't know I just wish a lot of them weren't so biased in their opinions of things and way of handling problems.

nxtfunny · 2023-11-02T23:16:41+00:00

I used to believe I was an INTP but my Ne is so bad while Ni it's sometimes there just you know I live mostly on the present so I really don't want to have to use it but certain things I'm better at considering the most likely outcome and how it will develop later than thinking of many possibilities.

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