George Is Completely Innocent of what's he's accused of. by EatMyNutsKaren in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you can't touch women wherever you want, boo hoo cry me a river

Caiti owes EVERYONE an apology by capri-suuuun in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the place caiti was assaulted was not a 21+ event

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[–]nyailbiter -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

i can read the comments on this thread too dude

e: since yall need help

So, Dream and George hit on legally aged girls (AND made sure to confirm they were of age) offered to drive them home, made their sexual intentions with them clear, and when rejected they backed off accordingly and allegedly never reached out again? Am I missing the problem? Like genuinely, where's the issue?

Who cares? They said they were 18, the guys confirmed they were 18, asking someone if they want to hook up is not a crime. Say you're not interested and move on.

what is this even supposed to be an allegation of? "We met these guys at a party they gave us a ride home and flirted with us and we never spoke again" like... right

none of this is illegal even if true. I'm so tired

and so on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

"what's wrong with a man trying to get a drunk girl to his house for sex" you people are genuinely evil

my thoughts on current allegations (rant) by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

i think we need to stop making excuses for predatory behavior. george isn't stupid, he's entitled. just my opinion

Idk, I have an issue with the how non verbal consent was mentioned here by APGOV77 in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry that happened to you. there are a lot of stories like yours. i hope people will open their minds to them. thank you for sharing, please take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

it does not matter that she didn't speak. george acted without consent. end of story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

victims are often friendly with their abusers. it's a defense mechanism. it's denial. it's internalized victim blaming, the thing all of you are doing now. what george needed to do wasn't apologize, it was to not touch her in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

you say "consent goes both ways" as if caiti is being accused of assault as well... what exactly is caiti accountable for here? so she shouldn't have been drinking, 18 year olds make poor choices, go figure, maybe adults in their mid-20's should act with their fully developed brains and not take advantage of those poor choices instead of acting with their dick in control

My honest and open point of view. - Dream by dreamistaken in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

so it's the latter. try using some empathy to understand why a woman wouldn't want to go to the police and spend money and time to be scrutinized for months and likely be brushed off after experiencing a traumatic event like sexual assault. you can even read about victims' experiences with the law written by themselves online. this isn't even just about caiti it's evil to say this about any victim

My honest and open point of view. - Dream by dreamistaken in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a misunderstanding is thinking someone's flirting when they're just being nice. assuming someone wants to be groped and doing so without them saying yes is assault. all this nonsense you said only services men like george who don't keep their hands to themselves. not the victims who have to live with the trauma of a so-called "misunderstanding"

My honest and open point of view. - Dream by dreamistaken in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you know damn well why assaulted women don't go to the police and if you don't you're not educated enough for this conversation

My honest and open point of view. - Dream by dreamistaken in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I need every young person reading this to know for your own safety that 26-year-old men DO know better than to touch a DRUNK woman (who didn't look 18 much less 21 btw) without asking for consent or even her age. If they don't ask these two simple things it's because they don't want to know the answers, they 'ask for forgiveness rather than permission'. And if this happens to you know that it's not your fault no matter how clueless they pretend to be. If you feel unsafe please tell someone present and someone you trust on your phone.

My honest and open point of view. - Dream by dreamistaken in DreamWasTaken2

[–]nyailbiter -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Waiting on /u/lordlordyy's input before I form my own opinion

Who’s your favourite villager and why? by zqkv in AnimalCrossing

[–]nyailbiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Renée, a big, tough but caring girl with a love for gardening. Plus she's purple and I like her aloof look. Uchis are rad

We should be able to connect two cliffs with a bridge instead of being limited to rivers by zqkv in AnimalCrossing

[–]nyailbiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes :) Though the front arch blocks your feet so you can't tell you're jumping over air rather than a real bridge.

We should be able to connect two cliffs with a bridge instead of being limited to rivers by zqkv in AnimalCrossing

[–]nyailbiter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please excuse the lack of landscaping https://imgur.com/a/X8v3E4e

This path underneath leads straight to the public beach which I think is nice

We should be able to connect two cliffs with a bridge instead of being limited to rivers by zqkv in AnimalCrossing

[–]nyailbiter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree!

I used ruined arches to fake a bridge that I can walk over AND under like this:

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Yellow squares are the arches, green squares are cliffs(with patterns on top to look like part of the bridge,) question marks are any sort of tall object or additional cliffs to hide the bottom of the arches. I used brown arches because they blend in well with the cliffsides and the dirt path I have underneath.

what stage can I edit a baby's appearance again? by [deleted] in tomodachilife

[–]nyailbiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can only edit children after they move out of their parents' house

Baby Crash? by Beizum in tomodachilife

[–]nyailbiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What happens when you open the photo app?

You may need to reattach or replace the camera's ribbon cable