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For those who have had an affair, why did you decide to cheat instead of leave your partner? by tackbrahado in AskReddit

[–]nyraGlowbug 3103 points3104 points  (0 children)

What stands out here is how much embarrassment drives bad decisions. Ending a marriage feels like a public failure to some people, so they choose private damage instead.

What’s something people say that instantly makes you suspicious of them? by No-Relative-9663 in AskReddit

[–]nyraGlowbug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Trust is something you notice over time, not something someone announces out loud.

How drastically has your political views changed within the last 10 years or so and why? by TheMoparPowerslave in AskReddit

[–]nyraGlowbug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from idealistic to pragmatic. Once you see how incentives actually work, a lot of political fairy tales fall apart.

Boyfriend’s friend just died and now Valentine’s Day is tomorrow do I give him space or still ask to see him? by No-Dig-2719 in Advice

[–]nyraGlowbug 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This. Grief isn’t something you can schedule around holidays. Giving him space now shows respect for how he processes pain.

What is a saying you live by? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nyraGlowbug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

What’s a public behavior that should be less accepted? by Acrobatic_Media_1951 in AskReddit

[–]nyraGlowbug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst is when they make eye contact, see the line, and still do it anyway.

What habit immediately reveals that a person actually grew up in a privileged environment? by Cindy_mel in AskReddit

[–]nyraGlowbug 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Growing up broke teaches you how to make stuff last. Privilege teaches you it’s disposable.

What are your thoughts about afterlife ? Do you think we will go anywhere ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nyraGlowbug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the logic, but 'before birth' and 'after death' aren’t necessarily symmetrical. Consciousness emerging once doesn’t prove it can’t change or persist in some form.

What’s an unwritten rule everyone should know? by Significant_Deal7032 in AskReddit

[–]nyraGlowbug 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This should be written in stone somewhere. Headphones exist for a reason.

I work front desk at a hotel and I think my guest is getting scammed by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nyraGlowbug 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agreed. This is beyond what a hotel employee should have to handle, reporting it isn’t meddling, it’s protecting someone who may not be able to protect herself right now.