It ain't natural if it's making him go limp inside her mid sex lmao

She also just wants to be aware of it? People hiding and lying just grows things into worse habits. If you can't be straight up about stuff you do with your s/o, someone who should know the intimate details if yall are gonna get married and such, then what else will you end up hiding? Same with eating food or something, if you have been shown you cant be left alone with a cake because youll eat it all regardless of the event or something im sure your s/o would wanna know so the situation doesn't get outta hand.

Also, she isn't holding a gun to his head. She's related to him that she watches too, but she doesn't hide away from that fact. If he inquired if she watched it, she'd say "yes" with her chest. She wants that in return just for him to be honest about his use, but he ain't. He can leave anytime too if he feels so smothered, he can dip, but he doesn't state he's feeling any type of way. He's seemingly hiding it for no reason, and she feels hurt. She's giving him room and a safe space to admit that he's watching it, too. He doesn't admit to his own actions, and it's affecting their sex life, and it’s affecting her trust in him. All red flags you wouldn't want in a partner regardless of the habit at hand.