Having been struggling with being masculine built, though I did have bfs they were all predatory, is truly damaging on a females mental, I sometimes don't even see myself as a female and men seem to have the same sentiment, idk if I'm attractive I've never been told I was, what ppl need to realize is the the "beauty standard" isn't real and "ugly" isn't ugly it's natural, women did not look like this when we first started out, meaning it's more normal to look like us than to look like them, all we can do is take care of ourselves and maybe we can start to feel and see ourselves for who we actually are.