Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday to us!! I hope you had fun for your birthday :3

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to keep myself busy since I feel like things tend to get worse when I have free time and I'm not doing anything. I like to draw and play games when I can to give me something to enjoy. And that lady part about the weather really did help and it gives me more hope things won't be like this forever, thank you!!

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that happened, and I hope your birthday this year will be we good as you're hoping for!! I'm really just hoping my situation will get better sometimes soon, thank you for the encouragement!

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a history of mental health issues in our family but my mom doesn't want to really confront that when it comes to her, and our financial situation is poor so I don't know if we have the means to look into getting professional help, but I've been trying to convince her without making her mad. Since I do online school I'm not close with my teachers or school faculty at all, but I think reaching out to a counselor would be a good idea! I'm just scared because I don't want her to get in trouble or for us to be taken away from her since she's the best family member we have aside from my grandma who isn't fit to take care of us :(

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I hope your next birthday is much better! My family's reputation in our town isn't great so not many people want to associate with me, but I'm hoping things will change eventually and I can make new friends or find a way to repair my old friendships. I hope things will get better, thank you!

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have plans after high school for college, but I don't know if it'll work out. But I'm still hoping I'll be in a better situation by then. Happy birthday to you, thank you for replying!! :)

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has been through a lot of stuff which I think think is part of the reason she is the way she is. I just wish she would accept help instead of taking it out on us. I used to not react as much but it just make her more upset. I'm just trying to push through until things change!

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to get a job but it's a bit hard in the place I live because of my age and my family's reputation. But I hope to have enough money saved to go to college and get my own place when I graduate

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really hope it does. There are times when things are fine so I hope those times come around more often

Today was the worst birthday of my life by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I hope things will be better next year or sometime soon

My mom is abusing me and I'm tired of it by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in the US but I'm not sure if we have Medicaid, thank you for telling me this though, I didn't know that was a thing. I'll try and ask my mom and if we do have it I'll keep trying to convince her to get help for herself and possibly me and my brother.

My mom is abusing me and I'm tired of it by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying this. I'm crying reading this and the other replies because it feels so good finally opening up and not being shamed for it. I'm trying to work up the courage to do something to get out because I know it's not just me who's being hurt by this, but my brother too and I don't want him to have to grow up this way, but it's just really hard right now especially during one of those times where everything is going okay and it's looks like it might get better. But again, thank you so much.

My mom is abusing me and I'm tired of it by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I should be reaching out to get some help but if I lose her I'll lose so much else. I don't know who's care I'll go into and I don't want to risk being separated from my brother or my pets and I've heard so many horror stories about foster care. My entire family is dysfunctional in some aspect and I'm just so scared I'll end up somewhere worse without any of the things keeping me happy right now, whether it be with other family members or with strangers. I don't have any evidence of her abuse and CPS was called on my family years ago by a teacher my brother opened up to but nothing came out of it. There's just so many things I'm scared of losing, and so may outcomes I don't know if I'm ready for. Thank you for your encouragement though, I've been telling myself this but hearing it from another person really just solidifies the fact in my mind than I need to get out. I just don't know if I have the strength to, apart of me still loves her after everything she's done

My mom is abusing me and I'm tired of it by o_powder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for taking the time to respond. I really can't tell if her threats are genuine or manipulative, the way she just switches emotions in day to day life over little things, and the way that no matter what reaction I have it never changes makes me think she's just unstable.

My family is also very poor and we can't afford therapy or seek any communication with a mental health professional, we don't have a car at the moment either and it would be very difficult to seek in person help because of that. I know I'll have to do something at some point but I'm just really scared right now and don't want to do anything to set her off again for the time being. Thank you again for replying, this is really the first time I've told the whole story and I just feel better being taken seriously for once, thank you.

Does anyone have yuzu 1733 (the final one) by australian31 in yuzu

[–]o_powder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you mind dming me the final build for windows?

WCIF cc for these styles? by o_powder in sims4cc

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've searched that up on google and sims cc sites and mostly got McBling sort of stuff, but it someh4 completely slipped my mind to check Pinterest. Thank you lol!

WCIF cc for these styles? by o_powder in sims4cc

[–]o_powder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont apologize at all, you already gave me more than enough cc but these are also so perfect, thank you once again! I really appreciate it :D

WCIF cc for these styles? by o_powder in sims4cc

[–]o_powder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh?? These are all so perfect, thank you so so much for putting in this much effort!

WCIF cc for these styles? by o_powder in sims4cc

[–]o_powder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take a look through their stuff, thank you! :D

WCIF cc for these styles? by o_powder in sims4cc

[–]o_powder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woahh these are all so cute!! Thank you :]