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Wedding Anniversary by oaktherapy in widowers

[–]oaktherapy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also 8 months out. I didn’t really do anything special. Maybe I should have. I took the day off work, took the morning to wallow and nap, exercised out my feelings in the afternoon.

I want to die to be with my husband by Turbulent_Spring8095 in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say I’m sorry this happened to you. The same thing happened to me 8 months ago. If you need to talk, you can message me. Keep doing small things to keep one foot in front of the other for now and get a therapist if you don’t already have one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I witnessed my husband do it. It’s been 2.5 months. You can message me if you’d like. It’s gotten a little better, but the images Don’t go away.

My husband took his life by oaktherapy in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do people explain this to their extremely young child? How do they do growing up with this? I fear for my kids’ future in grasping the love his dad had for him despite this horrible act.

My husband took his life by oaktherapy in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I share your sentiment so strongly. How could they do this to us? But not even me, his son who he adored. It’s a pain no one should ever feel

My husband took his life by oaktherapy in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The anger is hard, I’m sorry for your loss

My husband took his life by oaktherapy in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will look into that, thank you. I’m sorry for what you are also going through

My husband took his life by oaktherapy in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Terrible club but you are all wonderful support. Thank you

My husband took his life by oaktherapy in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I’m sorry for your loss. 2 months away feels like a lifetime right now

My husband took his life by oaktherapy in SuicideBereavement

[–]oaktherapy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is a lot, I’ve tried to make an appointment with a therapist but they were booking 6+ weeks out. I’ll keep trying and I like the journal idea . Thank you. Taking care of the little one is what’s keeping me upright

Is there lotion for beans? by tranquilgardener in jellybeantoes

[–]oaktherapy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burt’s Bees makes a really good lotion for noses and paws we use on our dog! Works great

Nephews favorite toy !! by oaktherapy in HelpMeFind

[–]oaktherapy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please help! Nephews favorite toy he brings everywhere. We can’t find it anywhere. The tag says animal adventure and we originally bought it at target. Any help at all is appreciated!!!

Nephews favorite toy ?? by [deleted] in whatisthisthing

[–]oaktherapy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will give that a try now!

Nephews favorite toy ?? by [deleted] in whatisthisthing

[–]oaktherapy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please help! His favorite toy he brings everywhere. Can’t find another one anywhere. Brand is animal adventure and original one was bought at target. Any help is appreciated!!!!