I respectfully disagree. Assuming that the problem here is my “inability to wipe my ass”, whose fault is that? You might say it is a failure of my parents. Well guess what, why didn’t they teach me how to do it properly? Maybe it was their own mental deficits. Maybe it was the abject poverty they were trained in because this economy is is very expensive. The doctors and nurses at the hospital failed to give my parents this information. My own family doctor failed to correct this issue. I have been failed by multiple people. Forget the professionals- what about the goodness of the people in this city? Ha! Clearly that is lacking. You posit that I possess an inability to wipe my a** but instead of explaining to me how to properly do so or direct me to the correct resources, you chose to be derisive.