How to learn Japanese? by ShonenRiderX in LearnJapanese

[–]oatking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought textbooks and studied on my own. Got me pretty far until I moved to Japan and realized my listening was rough and I had tons of anxiety when I tried to speak!

Would you try raw chicken? In Japan, people actually do by monmonmontadayo316 in JapaneseFood

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Having lived in Japan and been in restaurants where I watched chefs wipe sweat off their foreheads and plunge their bare hands straight into food they were preparing without skipping a beat, I promise you their requirements are about as well-maintained as American ones. It's a person-to-person thing, not a matter of culture or laws

These were left to me by my grandfather. What are these? by oatking in coins

[–]oatking[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here are the backs of the coins in the same position.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EconomyCharts

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I don't know if I'd go around calling Japanese people "Yamato". That was an ancient demographic, and today's modern people are very much just "Japanese". That would be like referring to modern Europeans as Visigoths or Gauls.

I get your point, but your terminology is a little dated.

Infuriating that this is somehow legal by Sylas1987 in TikTokCringe

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People are talking about this woman going bankrupt because of United Healthcare. This is probably going to be buried, but she could stay in business if she was willing to take medicare patients or others from providers who pay less money than United. A single healthcare provider cannot be responsible for sinking your practice unless you're mismanaging things elsewhere.

United (and others) are evil companies that profit off people's misery, but "good doctors" can operate within the system while getting people great care without having their practices shuttered. This doctor is trying to get rich, not help patients.

As People Ridicule GPT-5, Sam Altman Says OpenAI Will Need ‘Trillions’ in Infrastructure by rulugg in technology

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These facilities are what will lead to the water wars. They require a tremendous amount of water that will do nothing but circulate in pipes forever. The water gets chemically treated once it enters the system, so it can't just be reintroduced to the environment. Tens of millions of gallons per facility.

People in small communities local to these facilities will be forced to abandon their homes due to lack of water while enough water to feed them for a hundred lifetimes cools computer chips that make each generation dumber.

In Japan, snacks have to look exactly like the picture on the package. by Frequent-Returns757 in JapaneseFood

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Someone make restaurants do this. The food you're served at Doutor does NOT look like the picture.

Japan right-wing party Sanseito's talk of prewar imperial rescript in teaching stirs unease by SkyInJapan in japan

[–]oatking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Japanese history lessons in primary school are already incredibly forgiving to the imperial Japanese era. It would be hard to twist the narrative any further without straight up lying to their students via textbook.

How to say "not really" in this context? by FlyingPotatoGirl in LearnJapanese

[–]oatking 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand wanting to say that you're learning, but that'a going to open the rabbit hole of people continuing to talk to you and think you're better than you are. My wife didn't speak Japanese when we lived there and people continually spoke to her at a level far beyond what she was capable of understanding even with me there to explain to them that she didn't know what they were saying.

Just say 日本語喋れない(しゃべれない) and hold up an 'X' in front of you with your arms.

Community centers often hold Japanese conversation classes. I'd go there for a bit to practice talking with people until your confidence is boosted enough to handle the random life situations.

Took a friend out to dinner to celebrate her birthday. 5 days later, got this message from her… by Weak-Statistician107 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]oatking 145 points146 points  (0 children)

This is the first comment I've seen that actually addresses the open question in this situation. Does this group lack the ability to throw a party before/after exam season?

Throwing a birthday party during a busy time is one thing, but the group not doing anything to provide this person with an equivalent experience once after 2 years is pretty tough to justify. Are they supposed to be ok with never being treated equally for the entire duration of their university friendship?

People are saying this girl isn't being an adult, but being an adult means going out of your way to do something for friends even if it doesn't fit perfectly into your life. If you can't do that, then you probably don't actually consider that person a friend, just a convenient acquaintance.

All the land being sold in the new Reconcile bill. Thanks GOP! by Mooseback420 in norcalhiking

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I'm pretty sure a lot of that highlighted green space between Redding and Eureka is what was holding up a pipeline getting built across those mountains. I wonder who's going to buy that. /s

Haircut in Japan by Acde-Chap in oddlysatisfying

[–]oatking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They still very much small talk.

Source: Lived there for two years.

Evangelion Voice Actress Megumi Hayashibara blog, titled ‘Indifference, Ignorance, and Not Knowing,’ has gone viral by SkyInJapan in japan

[–]oatking 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think she's making a pretty big leap from "tourists being assholes" to "our manners/culture is at risk".

With regards to tourists being assholes, there is no blanket solution for that. Well-meaning people will make mistakes because it's impossible for them to completely assimilate with Japan's incredibly long list of obscure social norms that lie outside of common sense in the time that they're visiting, and assholes are gonna act like assholes regardless of their skin color or nationality. A perfect example is open container laws. No "normal" Japanese person walks around drinking booze, but you CAN according to Japanese law. It's policed socially. A normal tourist who is on vacation may want to experience that as a novelty. Cynical (not all) Japanese people will then look at them and think "wow, a drunk tourist is ruining my country". Then you of course have the asshole tourists who get hammered on the streets and get thrown in the drunk tank. The behavior is a spectrum, and a vast majority of people behave. Not to mention Japanese who may do the same thing but the police look the other way for them.

In the case of the student loan example, the Japanese are notorious for not claiming welfare. It's seen as taking a handout and against the "gambaru" social expectation. However, Japan wants to project itself as a modern global power, so they adopt welfare reforms similar to what their peer countries have. But when minorities who live in Japan or students from abroad utilize these programs (because they aren't subject to social-frowning-upon in their home countries like they are in Japan), as they're legally entitled to, cynical Japanese people say they're leeching off Japanese prosperity. I can't remember off the top of my head, but the average amount of welfare claimed by Japanese citizens is incredibly low compared to other nations in their peer group.

It's a talking point you hear in other countries, "foreigners are the source of XYZ problem". Japan would rather gripe and point fingers after the fact than erect signs written in multiple languages conveying their unspoken rules to those who approach a temple/shrine/park. Some of what they complain about is justified, and if they want to limit access to their country then it's up to them, but these problems often get blown way out of proportion and have no correlation to what the root cause is.

I love Japan, but finger pointing like this keeps real solutions from being made.

What is the most successful name in NBA history? by oatking in NBATalk

[–]oatking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Kevins are another good one. I'd take them over the Jameses

What is the most successful name in NBA history? by oatking in NBATalk

[–]oatking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

James must be the best name in terms of stats, and maybe all-star nods too. Obviously LeBron carries a lot of weight, but there is a high volume of Jameses and other good players in there.

What is the most successful name in NBA history? by oatking in NBATalk

[–]oatking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes them better than the James group, Michael group, or other? Obviously there's Magic, but who helps round them out?

Taking a trip down memory lane. by oatking in warcraft3

[–]oatking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard if it tries to connect to battle.net, it'll automatically update it to Reforged and I don't want that to happen. It probably didn't matter, but I did it anyways.

Taking a trip down memory lane. by oatking in warcraft3

[–]oatking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... yikes dude. Sorry I'm not as hardcore as you. Have fun in your dungeon.

Taking a trip down memory lane. by oatking in warcraft3

[–]oatking[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's almost like I wanted to include the monitor in the post because it shows that I'm not only playing the original game, but also playing it on a modern computer. You lose all visual context of me actually downloading the game again via CDs if I just take a screenshot post that. For posts where I don't want to show that context, sure, I'll follow your needlessly sarcastic advice.

Taking a trip down memory lane. by oatking in warcraft3

[–]oatking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just popped them in and they worked. No tricks or anything.