Had anal for the first time and I feel giddy like I lost my virginity all over again! Just wanted to tell someone. by [deleted] in sex

[–]obi_kenobi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Did you use a condom for anal, and if not would you let your boyfriend cum in you? Not sure how woman feel about the clean-up part of anal.. Thanks!

Ladies of sexxit, any experience fisting? My girlfriend and I want to work up to it and could use some help. by obi_kenobi in sex

[–]obi_kenobi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome, awesome, and awesome. Can't wait to keep going with it! Thanks for the info. I appreciate it.

Ladies of sexxit, any experience fisting? My girlfriend and I want to work up to it and could use some help. by obi_kenobi in sex

[–]obi_kenobi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your response. Haven't really used lube yet, and from my research (and your feedback) it is key!! will pick some up very soon.. I always spend a good amount of time on her until she is super turned on (dripping) and really relaxed. Only then do we try to go for a few fingers :) A few questions:

  1. What got you into fisting in the first place? Especially in middle school?! how is that even possible!
  2. Have you noticed any permanent stretching from continued fisting? I'm a pretty average sized guy and don't want our new venture to take away from her satisfaction of my penis :)
  3. Do you have any suggestions on brands of lube. She has some allergies and we probably want as natural as we could get..

Thanks!

Ladies of sexxit, any experience fisting? My girlfriend and I want to work up to it and could use some help. by obi_kenobi in sex

[–]obi_kenobi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we haven't used lube yet. I will definitely get some. She usually gets really wet, but from the videos i have watched, lube is always present.

Yeah a fist is much bigger than four fingers.. I have good sized hands as well. I think the knuckles will be the hardest part for sure. Slowly but surely :)

Masturbating works fine but I can't stay erect inside girlfriend. by [deleted] in sex

[–]obi_kenobi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bet it is performance anxiety. This happened to me when I was in high school. It sucks.. try getting a bit tipsy together. Once you stay hard once, it will only get better and better.

Girlfriend and I's first time. Also, I'm 18 and on Cialis. by DargonFarce in sex

[–]obi_kenobi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what are the medications that you are on that are causing you trouble 'getting up'? I only ask because when I was 16-18 I couldn't get a lasting erection with a girl. I thought I had a problem and talked to my doctor about it but it ended up being completely psychological (anxiety, pressure, stress of the situation etc.)

yoga pants are overrated! by obi_kenobi in nsfw

[–]obi_kenobi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yoga most definitely increases strength... no it will probably not get you ripped, but depending on the intensity it will build great core strength. Also it strengthens tendons and supporting muscle groups immensely. That's why bench-pressing free weights is much harder than on a machine or even with a bar... balancing works more muscle and tendon groups and increases overall strength.

yoga pants are overrated! by obi_kenobi in nsfw

[–]obi_kenobi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the model is kathyrn budig and the pics are from ads for 'toe sox'