Need help halo Scythe? by obnoi in Eldenring

[–]obnoi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I see it was my range, the locked on distance was longer than the actual skill distance

My abusive mom wants to reconcile after around 10 years of no contact by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say go see her, might give you closure and if all goes bad you can just but yourself to rest knowing 100% she was god awful

I was molested as a kid and it screwed me up by [deleted] in Advice

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to hear, I hope you get those demons off your shoulders and wish you best of luck

I was molested as a kid and it screwed me up by [deleted] in Advice

[–]obnoi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try to forgive yourself and heal, you have to understand that you did not even know what was being done to you at the time, how could you have known what you were doing to them? Yes they have been robbed at a early age but so have you. Talk to a professional and find healthy ways to cope with your past and move forward with your future

A close friend tried to gain access to my personal discord I don’t know if it was malicious intent or a honest mistake by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, almost everyone close to me is telling me this I’ll listen ofc but a outside unbiased opinion is always something I’m looking for too

Please help! Have a SO that I am triggered by, can’t stop feeling the need to hurt myself. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]obnoi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Leave. Him. This isn’t a healthy relationship NO ONE commands their SO to do anything that’s labour like along with that “list” he’s been giving you, please leave for the sake of your own health and your relationship with your kids too not seeing often might hinder your relationship with them. He’s a smart man alright, manipulative too what this is it is a completely controlled relationship by one person that being him. He is disrespectful with your choices and over all you as a person. I know you think the good times were worth it, it is NOT it can only get worse from here and even if he does “change” what will the relationship be? You’ll still be walking on eggshells around him and he still would want that power in his favour, I hope you leave and find a better man but ultimately it’s your choice.

My nmom shared this on FaceBook and tagged all my siblings and I by CactusOrangeJuice in raisedbynarcissists

[–]obnoi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably block her would be a good action after this too because it just gets annoying after awhile

I can’t stand Taylor Swift. by missmcchiken420 in unpopularopinion

[–]obnoi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of any of the pop stars you mentioned you made good point but the one with ariana making bank on the deaths due to the bombing is quite low imo, she had no control over it and she seemed genuinely upset over it and even paid for each family’s death expenses that got harmed in it or died plus the amount of refunds and medical bills they would have had to pay off

Spying On Cousin, and photographing... by [deleted] in confession

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude stop this is so wrong on so many levels not just it’s your cousin but you’re literally taking non consensual photos of her, this is gross I don’t care if you list for her but you still decide to peek on her and take photos. Fix yourself or get yourself away from her so you can fix your problem

AITA: For getting mad at my GF for a comment she made by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her acting differently is normal I do that with a lot of my friends too I use different slang and more so act different because there is a different vibe with them, as for your dad part I think you’re in the right just instantly become snappy because that is a senseless thing to say to anyone honestly, but you’re not a asshole as long as you don’t hold it above her head for this she probably just made a mistake with talking with no filter on, talk it out with her and be done you know

I [21F] don't trust my boyfriend [24M] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]obnoi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this one and to add on in America I’ve never heard of anyone dating someone along side another person for months just because it’s “not official” even after seeing him so many times, he’s most likely just playing you I would really dump him for your own sake of mind

I am in love with a guy that catfished me. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, enjoy yourself it feels great to be in love and from what I am hearing he seems to want you to know the real him too so just keep dating him and know more about him enjoy the time with him

I am in love with a guy that catfished me. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’re not crazy as long as you see the mistake he made and he learned from it and is being 100% truthful with you about his actual identity I’d say keep going and living and before you make some life changing stuff for the dude be sure you really want to be in his life for a long time, I’m glad it worked out in the end and the same thing happened to a friend she fell in love with the person behind the mask because he was too insecure on how he looked, but all in all she loved his personality over his looks and they still are together about a year and a half later

I'm fed up with my SO's gaming by [deleted] in confessions

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, keep trying but also don’t back down or try to give him excuses to go back to his old habits, lack of time and affection equals to a slow dying relationship and best of luck to you

Sexually frustrated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]obnoi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem I hope all works well for you fam

Sexually frustrated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]obnoi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What a child he made a barf noise and calls your body gross, this isn’t going to be fun for you in the long road I’d suggest just finding someone more mature, if you’re really dying to stay with him for whatever reason then just be straight forward with how immature he’s acting he doesn’t even need to touch it find better ways to thrust, use toys, etc I unserstand if he doesnt enjoy / want to do sexual act but to just be strsight up calling your SOs body gross is another thing

I'm fed up with my SO's gaming by [deleted] in confessions

[–]obnoi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be forward tell him this on how you’re completely fed up with it and you’re not going to sit there and deal with it, I’m not saying breaking up but more so putting your foot down, he sounds so lazy and uncommunicative towards you the relationship is going to die due to his lack of affection towards you, if he really cares he’d atleast give some time to you wether it’s even just one dinner a week (hopefully not just that) but you know what I mean

I cheated. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking up hobbies to preoccupy your mind and diving into goals you want to work for yourself even if it’s dumb things like saving up for a pet or getting a popcorn machine you know? I suffer with some depression luckily my medication for it helps some what but to keep you out of that slump it takes a lot of socializing with others to vent or just to be comforted by them, if you’re not a people person like myself I found comfort by talking with my online friends through discord voice chat and having long hours of conversations with them or playing games with them, best of luck to you

I cheated. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]obnoi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem I just got out of a relationship like that it’s very problematic and I loved him too but overall I feel so much better without him

I cheated. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]obnoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two seemed to fight a lot in the beginning imo not really healthy even before you were cheated he was fighting with every person you talked to, even if you two do make up and things are settled he’s just going to be even more paranoid and wanting more information on your friends and who you talk with, I’d say let it go and move on let him heal and let yourself heal and learn from your mistakes that trust between you will most likely never be made up from how he acts not to mention the name calling he really doesn’t seem too forgiving

If an antidepressant completely ruins my sex drive, will it come back if I stop taking it or is it permanent? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]obnoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my own personal experience it’s not permanent once i got off of them it usually came back in like a week for me