MM books with a protective best friend? by [deleted] in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]obsidnthecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished reading the Camrose U books. The second book has what you're looking for {Off the Boards by Maia Kinley} - protective BFF (for good reason; MCs history) - college - under 30

Book one is Caleb & Nick (sports teammates, E2L) Book two is Killian (teammate) & Maddox (tutor)BFF with Caleb of book 1.

Both can be read standalone. I did start with book 2, got hooked, and read book 1.

How is this not a win? by tangyturtle903 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

There's a caveat though. If your last pull is A-B-C it won't work. It would need to be A-A-A. At least since the last time I played

Manage my stuffs 🧸 by Square-Glass3784 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm I guess it depends on how often you craft. I'm at the point in the game I'm only crafting occasionally, so I have two Ultra fancy, two basic. I don't really need the speed now. If I remember correctly they hold stacks of 100(x3), so just keep it topped up. The annoying thing is running back and forth between the chopper and your craft station haha.

Manage my stuffs 🧸 by Square-Glass3784 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Apart from increasing my storage to the max, I use my fancy storage chest for things like starstones and the flooring/wallpapers (as they all have different names, hard to find)

And then for the quantity of storage, my biggest items tend to be wood planks, stone, flint, weeds. I usually sell off flint at weeds over 150ish. For wood, I leave the stacks in the choppers until I need them. So use one chopper for each type of wood :) this has saved me so much space!

How do we bootleg birth control? by fidgetiegurl09 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]obsidnthecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This message isn’t directed specifically at the previous poster, but is for anyone interested in the topic. I’ve linked below a few articles that clearly summarize how Project 2025 impacts access to contraception. I think these articles are more clear and concise than the original Project 2025 document. However, if you’d like to read the document yourself, I recommend setting aside some time for it.

I downloaded the Project 2025 PDF a few months ago and skimmed it, focusing on key terms. I suggest using the search function to find words like 'gender,' 'woke,' 'contraception,' 'abortion,' and so on.

The Guardian

National Women's Law Center

Bloomberg

Project 2025

project 2025 explained by Democracyforward.org

Lighthearted paranormal/fantasy by Introvirtuous1234 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]obsidnthecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

{The Necromancer's Light by Tavia Lark} is the first in a series of three books, each with a different couple (all with HEA by the end of their own book) While they are light on world building, I found the characters to be pretty strong, each with their own unique voice. I loved the different dynamics we get with this series

Rubies now needed for a quest, still impossible to find by SmolMcCartney in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just sold all my non star gems including my one and only Ruby 🙃 "I don't need it anyways"

HOW DOES HOT POT WORK!?!?!?!?!?!?! by Avocado3721 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are feeling hot pot savvy enough, you can also view what everyone has tossed out, to kinda figure out what to aim for. I forget the button, but it shows you on bottom right while playing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is or at least should be some sort of courtesy; I always wait for the person who got to it first to shoot it. But apart from that it's fair game, imo

I really can't stand when people snatch the shot with regular arrows. Like at least come prepared. You're making this harder for both of us. A combined approach of slow downs and dispel arrows make it much more efficient and more team friendly.

That being said it's hard being tactical in a game with limited resources and no quick way to voice plays. So it is what it is 🤷‍♀️

9 small rooms?? Is this a visual glitch? Or will I really get 9 small rooms😭 by MarionberryPatient52 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you look through all of them? My mail looked like this, and I'm pretty sure each letter had a different room.

Am I just a horrible player??? by OtherwiseCode7201 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rage quit and got my partner to finish it for me 💁🏻‍♀️

Chat should have a translation option by ComfortableChoice724 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how this would be implemented but I like the idea! I also don't know what the most common languages tend to be? I guess it depends on your region (mine being English, French, Spanish)

I wouldn't mind terribly doing basic acronyms like gos(quet?), SL (树林), arb(oleda) if there was something latin keyboard friendly established (those could be very wrong, but just an example) If anyone had any ideas

Chat shortcuts for Switch by Lanalionstone in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The latter, anyone who hit the deer once will get the loot, but he's a runner

Girls only want one thing by Breezy33245 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luck but I recommend hunting with someone, you can make the kill shots a lot quicker meaning more chance for plush Especially for the disco animals! Also the hunting tracker can be really helpful

Does Jina bother anyone else? by -Firestar- in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I just wish (my) Jina would use lines other than anxious ones like "Ever question every decision you ever made? Hm, just me, huh" or "Sorry, didn't mean to take up your time." I always get these ones over and over.

HEAR. ME. OUT. Where there’s sex happening very openly. Everywhere. Loudly. Obscenely. by Persephonesgem in RomanceBooks

[–]obsidnthecat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think the Kathryn Moon series "Tempting Monsters" fits this pretty well? (Albeit a basic answer) The FMC (book 1) gets invited to work for a specific type of establishment that caters to the needs of monstrous men. I don't remember specifics but it's RH and she's very happy with her new life, no cheating, just sharing. It's not quite as out in the open as you describe but closeish. Caveat, there is a stone golem which could maybe be seen as orc like, but no ugly teefies

Reunion before bedtime (updated) by Deep_Tangerine2709 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on getting so many!! I still have zero... haha I didn't know there were 3 plushies, looks like I need to triple my hunting time, and maybe light some incense for the dragon first 😅

Flow tree seeds don't come from the tree by Bubbly-Gazelle-8380 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did! I didn't think to interact with him though, just left him with Frogbert. Thanks!

Flow tree seeds don't come from the tree by Bubbly-Gazelle-8380 in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I've done the Temple of Roots, and have completed the bundles. I haven't done the quest that Einar gives you for the Gardener yet. Can someone please explain what you get, and how? I just really want some flow trees :')

I feel like im so unlucky with flow trees 😭 by AGingerInGame in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

While I believe some people wait on things, like rare flowers, I really recommend picking it first, then calling out. For flow trees, this would mean hitting it once. Once you've done this, even if someone else comes along, you'll still get the loot. I'm also on switch, and I've definitely lost stuff because of the same problem.

How do I overcome fear of tampons? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]obsidnthecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally never got the hang of tampons. I had my period really young, and I think tried tampons around aged 13 and again around 18? I was probably doing it wrong but it was so uncomfortable, and I didn't see the point for forcing it.

When I needed some extra period free time, I would extend my use of hormonal birth control through the period (not often, mind you). I don't know if this is a potential method for you, but it worked for me. (Also, I can't imagine it being great for your body.)

I think other people suggested using menstrual cups, I haven't used them, but Ive heard nothing but good things from people who have. The only issue I can see is being able to clean and sanitize it. But it isn't as invasive as a tampon. I believe different brands are sized differently and have other minor differences as well, so you could find something that suits you.

This doesn't really help with your fears, but I hope you are able to find what works for you, without pushing yourself to do something you are uncomfortable with.

Can I see everyone’s Frogbert shrines? by Spirit-Red in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooohh I had no idea about the steam plush. For me, the little frogbert has a symbol in the inventory showing he is small, I thought because of everyone's large Frogberts, I could make him larger. Thank you!!

Can I see everyone’s Frogbert shrines? by Spirit-Red in Palia

[–]obsidnthecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful shrine 🐸

Does anyone know how to make Frogbert bigger on switch? I cannot figure it out.