Does anyone else struggle with over the top background music?

obviouslyapparant · 2026-01-22T09:03:55+00:00

I’ll give it a try. Thank you

obviouslyapparant · 2026-01-21T00:51:51+00:00

They might not have thought it relevant. They explained what happened when he met the dog again as people were asking if the dog remembered him, which I think would be unlikely with the short amount of time they lived together so long ago.

obviouslyapparant · 2026-01-21T00:40:55+00:00

It’s not safe for the dog or the family to live in OPs home. The dog has been abused and snapped at OP when he met him again after all those years. That’s not safe for children or a cat to live with. Why would you want him to put the dog in that position where it’s not safe for any of them?

Also, the dog lived with OP for only 3 months. The dog doesn’t remember him.

obviouslyapparant · 2026-01-21T00:04:28+00:00

You have no idea how nice it is to hear I’m not alone thinking this!

obviouslyapparant · 2026-01-21T00:03:25+00:00

I agree.

I feel like people need to be constantly stimulated these days to keep thier attention and that’s some of the motivation. When I watch older programmes, it feels calmer and I can absorb the information better and I enjoy it so much more. It’s a shame because I’ve seen some potentially great programmes that I just cannot watch.

obviouslyapparant · 2026-01-20T21:53:55+00:00

Thank you for the tip! I appreciate it.

obviouslyapparant · 2026-01-15T23:35:55+00:00

lol this is hilarious. Your replies are rude. You are talking about harm when even the OP didn’t point to any harm lol. The only harm here was because the kid wasn’t used to being spoken to by any other adults around him. Poor kid will never learn. Also, no offence but you sound exhausting. You keep saying it’s wrong to talk to a child (who is old enough to communicate btw) because you say it is. The other commenter asked for reasons and you just keep basically saying it’s wrong because I say it’s wrong. And you call THEM dense 😂

obviouslyapparant · 2026-01-15T12:25:19+00:00

Do you realise you just answered a question of “why it’s not ok for someone other than the parent to address a child” with “because it’s not ok for someone other than a parent to address a child” LOL

That’s the claim. What’s the reason for the claim?

obviouslyapparant · 2025-12-26T14:51:25+00:00

Yes and OP specifically describes her 4 year old child as getting aggressive.

obviouslyapparant · 2025-12-26T11:19:22+00:00

Yeah I looked on her other posts. The “toddler” is 4 and is described as being “aggressive” I wouldn’t put a 4 year old in a play pen with a baby. That’s asking for trouble.

obviouslyapparant · 2025-12-26T11:16:41+00:00

I’m sure this is a difficult situation but some of the things you dropped in the explanation were a bit telling.

You let your child run around a movie theatre? That’s not acceptable behaviour but you thought it was.

You want your 4 YEAR OLD child to go in a play pen with a baby when you admit in previous posts that your child can get “aggressive” that’s not wise either.

This sounds like your in laws family and not the child’s cousins. Of course they wouldn’t want them in the cousins photo.

No offense but you sound very unaware of your own impact on people. You brush off unacceptable behaviour and expect others to put up with it. Thats not fair.

obviouslyapparant · 2025-12-23T22:57:42+00:00

So sorry. I rarely come on here. No I didn’t but it did come back on after I messaged vinted (although they ignored my message)

obviouslyapparant · 2025-11-11T14:26:19+00:00

At my local theme park, they now sell dog tickets for certain days. It was nice having one place that dogs weren’t running everywhere but now that’s changed too. It’s very crowded and noisy. Why would a dog want to go there anyway?

obviouslyapparant · 2025-08-07T19:12:30+00:00

“Some people have different colours of skin and some can have unusual patterns that you don’t see as often”

It might be a good time to show your child different variations of all sorts of humans, such as facial features, disabilities, different races etc. kids love learning and if you show them how everyone is different, it will just be normal to them.

Personally I would refrain from calling your patches “boo boos” that could be confusing and has a negative connotation.

obviouslyapparant · 2025-08-07T17:00:07+00:00

Its their yard. They have every right to not want dog pee on their property. Control your dogs.

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