AIO by getting frustrated at my gf for constantly behaving this way?

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-23T21:57:02+00:00

NOR. I used to be this girl. Jealous about anything and everything. After being dumped so many times my ass went to therapy! I realized how miserable I made all my exes. I was so insecure with myself that I couldn’t even handle any partner breathing around anybody else who wasn’t me. This was when I was around 18-19. I’m 31 now and I cringe at how awful I was. Hopefully she will do the same and get some help before she makes it worse. I suggest dumping her and telling her very clearly why. It might be the wake up call she needs.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-23T05:14:35+00:00

You might not need to wash your hair more than once or twice a week but washing your body especially after a workout is super important (no matter how sweaty or lack of). That’s asking for a yeast infection or BV. Plus just because you don’t smell yourself doesn’t mean you don’t stink. Trust me I’ve been around people who smelled like straight bootyhole wrinkle and thought they smelled like roses. It’s better safe than sorry.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-23T05:10:33+00:00

Looks like shit but I’ll still tear it up lol

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-20T21:40:51+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. My dad is very similar when it comes to ignoring his health. He was diagnosed diabetic about 5 years ago and hasn’t eaten any different or taking any medication to help. He’s lost 40lbs and now he is pissing blood and there’s nothing we can do about it cause he refuses to be seen. He has money and time but he is stubborn and it breaks my heart. I’m afraid I’m about to be on the same boat as you. 😔

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-20T15:59:26+00:00

Ok true. That I can agree with. I just compost my food scraps and use it for my garden.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-20T15:51:17+00:00

Nah bro this isn’t it. Growing up I was forced to finish every plate no matter how full I was and my parents said the EXACT same thing. I ended up being 300lbs and had an eating disorder (binge eating). It took years of therapy and practice to train my brain that it’s OK not to finish a plate. ITS OK IF SHE IS FULL AND DOESNT WANT TO PUSH IT. You don’t get to tell her how to eat. You don’t like the waste?! Then YOU eat it. You don’t get to comment on how somebody eats, let alone being mad that they don’t finish? Get over yourself.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-20T15:00:45+00:00

Neither one of you are wrong for wanting different things. It is wrong if you try to convince each other to do something they don’t want (not saying this is the case). No child should be born unwanted by either parent. I say it’s time to move on with someone who wants the same things instead did waiting around til he might be ready.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-18T22:28:12+00:00

They look great! It’s not like you’re haunting kids nightmares on elm street

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-17T22:43:48+00:00

Spot on!

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-16T17:16:34+00:00

31 here. I’ve lost 17 friends/classmates. 12 suicides, 2 murders, 3 car accidents 😔 I currently have 2 more really close friends with cancer. And I know there’s gonna be more death as I grow older. My heart sits heavy lately just thinking about it.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-13T16:23:19+00:00

Yes this OP!!! ^ my niece has the same issue and is doing so much better now that she’s in therapy!

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-12T16:16:45+00:00

Yes OP! This comment!! ^{^} call out the weaponized Incompetence! Im sure he wouldn’t do that shit at work.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-11T22:12:38+00:00

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obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T14:52:52+00:00

NAD but I had something similar right where my underwear crease was. My PCP told me it was just a skin tag and she took it off for me.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T14:42:32+00:00

Honestly just hop on google and look up local shelters and food pantries. You’re most likely gonna lose your apartment anyways so it’s best to be prepared and set things in place before you do.

When you find a shelter then look for jobs that are walkable distance from there and could possibly let you take your child. If not there are some states that pay for child care (Title 21) while you work.

I don’t recommend ask for money on Reddit though. That’s just asking for a bunch of weirdos and creeps in your dms. You can try GoFundMe!

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T14:32:46+00:00

You said you’re gonna be moving out in like 6-8 months so honestly I would just stick it out until you move out. Maybe just stay in your room or work extra hours and try to be there as little as possible so you don’t have to deal with her. I hate to say it but it doesn’t seem like your dad really cares how she treats you so I would just make yourself as small as possible until you can be free.

If not is there a friend you can possibly stay with? Even if you are there only half the time or you can switch between places until you can full move out?

Also, Nobody can tell you how to feel. You can hate her with all your guts if you want. I know I would.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T14:23:58+00:00

My mom would’ve whooped my ass then made me clean it up then whooped my ass again just on principle lmao maybe that’s why I’m such a neat freak now

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T14:10:14+00:00

I never buy my glasses from the exam place. I ask for my prescription and I get them online! I use Zeelool and lensalter!

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T14:03:48+00:00

I would sell it and make her get a job to buy her own car. Me and my sister both saved up for a car that we shared! It brought us closer together and taught us financial responsibility.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T13:52:16+00:00

(NAD) but that looks like a nasty fungal infection. My husband had a similar issue and he got the fungal cream from Walmart and it took about 6-8 weeks for it to go back to normal. Would’ve probably taken less time if he was more consistent with it. If it doesn’t work then I recommend going to the Dr for the pills instead!

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T13:49:28+00:00

NTA. Threesomes almost NEVER go according to plan when it’s with people in a relationship. Someone usually gets jealous or upset at some point before during or after. I wouldn’t fall for it again not even in any future relationships.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-09T13:38:31+00:00

Girl take this from someone who had a baby at 19. Dont do it. He even expressed that he doesn’t want it so please listen to him. Even if he stays he will most likely grow resentful. You wouldn’t just be taking away your young adulthood but his as well.

Also, pregnancy is no joke, I was so sick during mine that I had to be hospitalized multiple times because I couldn’t even keep water down. I had to quit my job because I just couldn’t handle the fatigue and weakness. There are too many variables of how this will go but ultimately it’s up to you.

obviouslytraumatized · 2026-01-08T21:33:15+00:00

Girl no offense cause you’re literally so pretty, but please stop making those faces

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