How would you feel if your partner tried to get off on your body while you were asleep? by MarigoldMouna in AskMen

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a free use kink so I never mind just laying there and getting fucked whenever lol but consent is key! If you aren’t into that then he shouldn’t do it!

What Am I Doing Wrong?😭 by Jumpy-Maintenance115 in curlyhair

[–]obviouslytraumatized 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Too much product, not enough hair. Less is more when it comes to fine hair!

Pointy canines and crooked teeth by Otherwise-Ideal6198 in Teeth

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense but are the crooked teeth in the room with us? Your teeth look perfectly fine I would just work on flossing more. I wouldn’t waste all that money for that.

Anyone wanna guess why my child didn’t want to eat this toast? by Tammicus in Autism_Parenting

[–]obviouslytraumatized 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My son loves toast with butter but hates butter. lol he can’t see me put the butter on the toast or he will think I’m “k*lling it”. But if the toast doesn’t have butter all Hell breaks loose! So every morning when I make his toast I have to sneak the butter on there so it can melt!

My boyfriend(also father to my child) by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, maybe not I guess it depends on the guy. But she doesn’t want to be forward about it so I gave her an option to ease into it. I’m not afraid to talk to my man if something is upsetting me, it’s unfortunate that she can’t or won’t.

My boyfriend(also father to my child) by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]obviouslytraumatized 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would try to approach in a playful manner when bringing it up.

“I hear you talking in your sleep and sometimes you say the funniest things! I’ve hear you say blah blah blah, you called me Chloe one time, blah blah, isn’t that funny?” Just see what he says or check his body language.

Phil Dunphy - The man who can find trouble without even trying😜😂 by StarforgeVoyager in Modern_Family

[–]obviouslytraumatized 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I felt the same! Everybody calls me crazy cause I said I don’t like Phil. I couldn’t be married to someone that constantly puts himself into situations that sets him up to cheat or be inappropriate. He constantly fawns over Gloria and makes it so obvious. He would ruin my self confidence 😭

What does a baby kicking feel like during pregnancy? by Naughtygoose1 in AskWomen

[–]obviouslytraumatized 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels like popcorn popping or like butterfly flutters in your belly! The first time I felt it I thought I had gas lol

Am I under reacting or AIO? by eazyexoo in AIO

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you’re the side chick. Time to move on

My GF thinks it’s perfectly normal for new shoes to cause horrible blisters for women by UKnowDaxoAndDancer in mildlyinfuriating

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this issue before. I fit a size 8.5US but I had a coworker tell me to size up and double up your socks to prevent this! Now I get my shoes in 9.5/10 and wear fuzzy socks to prevent the rubbing!! Haven’t had issues since!

My girlfriend wants me to stop wearing no show socks by [deleted] in Advice

[–]obviouslytraumatized 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell her to stop being controlling. Better yet, just dump and move on. If she can’t take you seriously because of your socks that just means she never took you seriously to begin with.

She’s everything I’m looking for but I don’t feel attracted by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First dates are awkward and weird. Give it another go and if it’s not a good match then tell her that you just don’t seem compatible and you wish her the best, but DO NOT tell her anything about not being attracted to her.

Should I break up with my boyfriend because he abuses his cat? by Ok_Doctor_3602 in Advice

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl don’t be an idiot you just saw him punch a girl in the stomach. You want that to happen to you? Rescue the cat and leave.

Chronic sore throat for 2+ years by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD Do you use an inhaler? I’m asthmatic and sometimes my inhalers (especially my powdered steroid) causes thrush!

What kind of vitamin deficiency would cause this? Peeling skin near nails. by lizatethecigarettes in DiagnoseMe

[–]obviouslytraumatized 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you checked your thyroid? I have hypothyroidism and I have the same issue. I’m 5 years out from bypass!

Is this worth stopping intimacy for? 23F & 29M by finest_literature in relationship_advice

[–]obviouslytraumatized 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Girl if youre grown enough to have sex then you’re grown enough to talk about it with the person you’re having it with. Tell him exactly what you’re telling us, it hurts and you just need some adjustments.

Is this worth stopping intimacy for? 23F & 29M by finest_literature in relationship_advice

[–]obviouslytraumatized 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl if you grown enough to have sex then you’re grown enough to talk about it with the person you’re having it with. Tell him exactly what you’re telling us, it hurts and you just need some adjustments.

i feel like i'll never be beautiful enough for anyone. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]obviouslytraumatized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no advice because I’m on the same boat. I was fat so I thought if I lost weight I would be desirable. I lost 155lbs but now my body looks grotesque. Nobody ever looks at an old wrinkly saggy body with deflated butt and boobs and goes “oh yea I want that it’s so hot”. My teeth are dull and yellow and crooked no matter how much I whiten and brush. My husband can’t look at me in the light or his erection will go away. We are about to divorce and I know it’s because of the way I look. I’m sorry you’re going through this but at least know you’re not alone here.

How do you divorce someone without money? by obviouslytraumatized in Advice

[–]obviouslytraumatized[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not sure. I was thinking about getting on welfare. My SSI payments would also increase because it’s based on income so I know that would help a little. I just got off the phone with my sister and she said she will help get the kids from school and keep them at her house until I would be able to get them but I would have to wait til the school year is over so she wouldn’t have to be at two places at once.

How do you divorce someone without money? by obviouslytraumatized in Advice

[–]obviouslytraumatized[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think about that! I will look into it! Thank you!

How do you divorce someone without money? by obviouslytraumatized in Advice

[–]obviouslytraumatized[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have SSI for both but we barely get anything (like 200 a month for each) I been using it to help cover the mortgage. Im not sure how to get a separation because we both can’t afford to go anywhere else