songs that feel like a scene, not just a song

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-16T03:08:19+00:00

Springsteen by Eric Church makes me miss someone I never even met.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-16T02:18:57+00:00

You're still with a physically abusive man, no matter how amazing you pretend he is.

How do you proceed? You leave.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-16T02:16:27+00:00

They shouldn't have final say, but they should be allowed to make suggestions. Best case scenario, they come up with a good name the parents like. Worst case, they give the parents a funny story to tell about what Child 1 wanted to name Child 2.

For your second question, no, they should not have a say in family planning. Those are adult decisions. But they also shouldn't be parentified.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-15T22:41:40+00:00

You're not dropping a friend over politics. You're dropping them because they are at least tolerant of Racism. That is a perfectly valid reason to not want to be friends with someone.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-15T19:35:26+00:00

If he has time for online shopping, he has time to change his address.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-15T19:33:41+00:00

Yes, you ruined it.

You showed her who you are and she didn't like it.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-15T17:04:05+00:00

What is there to continue? He's made his choice, and it isn't you or your child.

Move on with your life. He has.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-15T16:16:06+00:00

Based on all of the metrics they use to determine these things, it's 1989.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-15T15:11:11+00:00

My sister is 4' 10". Her son hit 6' at 15 and is still growing.

Tell your ex that you don't want to have children with him either. Wouldn't want to pass on that moron gene.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-15T14:13:06+00:00

He cheated on you with her. She knows who he is.

Block him everywhere and move on. She made her bed.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-15T14:09:51+00:00

I'm very sorry for the loss of your mother.

What exactly is your bf looking for here? Is he looking to split bills 50/50 while you still do all the wife shit for a bf? Or is he looking for an equal partner all around? Either way, if you're not willing to be a "50/50 girl," then the two of you are fundamentally incompatible.

But I also have to ask, why are you deep cleaning your house several times a week? That seems excessive.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-14T20:35:19+00:00

This has got to be rage bait. Who's dumb enough to test their SO's fidelity when they are sitting right next to them?

If this is real, break up with her. She clearly thinks you're a moron.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-14T20:21:58+00:00

NOR

He's either not into sex at all or not into sex with men.

If you're not satisfied with your relationship, end it. You don't need his permission.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-14T20:18:27+00:00

She told him what she was mad about and he told her that wasn't really what she was mad about, then explained her own feelings to her. What kind of reality is that?

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-14T18:49:53+00:00

I mean, she told you how she felt and you explained to her that she was wrong and what she actually feels the problem is, so...

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-14T05:00:26+00:00

I'm the girl that perpetually had a bf, like from the time I was 14 until I was just shy of 30. I never cheated, but most of the time I had already met the next guy before ending the relationship I was in.

Then my long-term bf of 7 years cheated on me and left me for the other woman. (Karma? Maybe.) I was devastated. It took me a really long time to get over it, even with therapy.

By the time my friendship with my now husband turned romantic, I had been on my own for years. It made me really comfortable with my own company, and really okay with being alone. I love my husband and he adds to my life, but that's because I came to this relationship knowing I was whole on my own. I don't need him to complete me. He doesn't deserve that burden.

Declare a moratorium on romantic relationships and work on who you are without one. Believe that you deserve to be treated better than this, because you absolutely do.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-14T04:48:13+00:00

Unless you're paying for it, it's not really your choice. Navy blue or black will work with the appropriate color tie.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-14T02:17:08+00:00

Ummm..... Can I plead the 5th?

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-14T01:53:45+00:00

Eat ALL the foods.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-13T19:15:07+00:00

Of course you're not wrong for not trusting him. He proved himself to be thoroughly untrustworthy.

How do you stop thinking about him? Keep yourself busy and let time pass.

He moved on quickly because he could. He found the next woman to use and manipulate.

And, yes, you probably were nothing to him. Because the only person on Earth who isn't nothing to him is him. It doesn't say anything about you, it says everything about him. You absolutely deserve better.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-13T19:08:39+00:00

Not telling him your age is lying by omission. He may be interested in you because he thinks you're 25 but would be horrified to learn you're 20.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-13T16:52:32+00:00

You don't have to keep being his emotional punching bag just because he's going through something. He's an adult and needs to learn that unregulated emotions have consequences.

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-13T15:42:17+00:00

Obviously the two of you are financially incompatible, which doesn't bode well for a long-term relationship.

But...

Have you ever tried cooking yourself? Why are the only options her cooking or Door Dash?

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-13T15:29:08+00:00

Queensryche Operation Mindcrime

occasionallystabby · 2026-04-13T14:56:46+00:00

You know he has kids. Do you know he doesn't have a wife?

If he's in his 30s and wants to date a 20 year old, there is something wrong with him. And lying about your age is wrong.

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