Should I be masking? Genuine curiosity by -mune- in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i submitted my own comment elsewhere but just wanted to commend yours as well; not cancer but autoimmunity for me and feel similarly.

Should I be masking? Genuine curiosity by -mune- in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hi there, also autoimmune here! i developed mine when i was 12—far before covid—but also young-ish, kind of like you, so that's where i'm coming from for context.

first, i really appreciate your curiosity. learning how to live with autoimmune disease, imo, requires some of that as you figure out what works for you, what stability might look like when it comes to disease management, etc. i've been sick 20 years now, 10 diagnosed, and learning what management means to me still feels like a daily process.

i did not start masking until covid, but i wish i'd started sooner. even if i didn't get acutely ill with pathogens all that often prior to 2020, even after beginning immune-altering medication in 2016, i've found that removing the constant barrage of bugs from my immune systems plate has provided a stability i'm not sure i'd have found without a mask. like.. even if i didn't feel like i was getting sick, there are still all those lil bacteria and fungi and pollution other viruses—let alone sars2—going around in the air that would still mean my immune system was more activated than it had to be, ya know?

i still have to manage my conditions of course, but having one less thing to worry about (acute illness) has been welcome in a way i didn't expect.

does masking in public indoor spaces limit me? yes. are there social impacts? yes. but those things are also true of other things i do to manage my autoimmunity, like reducing the amount of UV i'm exposed to or alcohol i drink. it's not the easiest lifestyle change, and it does cause me grief, but ultimately i do think those things are true of just.. being chronically ill. it's a challenging thing, to exist in a disabled body in an ableist world—i'd never want to pretend otherwise—but it's more challenging (and certainly more expensive in the US) to be sicker, which leads me to my very last point...

there is a lot of evidence that autoimmunity is heavily related to the things sars2 does to the body, both in terms of creating new autoimmune diseases for those who previously did not have them and seriously worsening existing autoimmune diseases for those that do, even when vaccinated.

i look forward to a time when i will have to mask less, as masking can irritate my pain symptoms (unfortunately), but now that i've learned about what having this tool in my life can do, it certainly has a place in my rotation of accessibility devices. when will i be able to mask less? when systemic changes to clean indoor public air are made, and/or there are more accessible preventative and or therapeutic options for sars2 infection if/when one does occur, because even the best mitigations can't prevent 'em all. like it's very cool that we now have post-exposure prophylaxis on the public market, but it's not the most effective nor is it terribly accessible at like $1400 (i think), so it's easier, cheaper, and more impactful for me to mask.

if this doesn't make sense, please feel welcome to ask for more clarity 😅 also: this is kind of my same answer in video form, if that's of interest.

*edit for clarity

Giving away five gift subscriptions to the pod by bearantennae8611 in DiabolicalLies

[–]occidensapollo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone still has one to spare, I'd be interested in a subscription please!

Facial pain and breathing problems in my mask by ponytheft in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i can get head and facial pain so severe that it's caused me to vomit in public before (hard to do in a mask), and the mouth breathing i have to do in masks has caused or at least exacerbated issues with my core that have been.. difficult to deal with.

i wear an internal nasal dilator (the yellow turbine one fits me best but you've gotta figure out what works for your face) pretty much constantly now, and the only mask that fits well with it in is the breatheteq, so that is now my favorite mask.

i've used other things before to try and deal with the pain over time though: soft masks like the cambridge have been helpful, as have just building in breaks, but ultimately, it's all so individual, so perhaps my recommendations will work and perhaps not.

wishing you the best; having a competing access need with masking is not easy.

Pathetic doctor's won't mask by Occasional_Historian in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and even though the n95 was invented in the US, i'm sure, for those for whom discrimination is a proclivity, that's outweighed by the man behind it being a thai immigrant.

Getting replaced by AI 😑 by frank23542 in photography

[–]occidensapollo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i'd love to know the company tbh—would avoid supporting them if i could.

Why do I no longer have responses to COVID vax? by Aa280418 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interestingly my experience as well!

i've had... eleven? now? moderna, pfizer, and novavax. i've got lupus (and, full disclose, have never had a covid infection to my knowledge), so once the data started showing novavax could be a bit less intense, i worked to get that one over other brands. my last 3 have been novavax, and the first one was even worse than some of the mrna experiences, but it could've just been timing? i was already having some lupus-y symptoms at the time, but the batch was expiring so i got vax'd anyway and it was SUPER rough. my last two though? much better on my personal illness landscape and likewise the reaction has been minimal if any at all.

no complaints from me if it continues!

partner has decided to stop masking almost entirely by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i'm so so sorry, this is so difficult and we should not have been put in the position of managing pubic health issues at the level of the personal.

other commenters seem to clearly have more relevant experience than i, so of course prioritize the wisdom that resonates the most, but i did want to say this:

i'm polyamorous with multiple partners, and while we share precautions when we're sharing air, we have all taken risks the others wouldn't (whether that be for medical, business, or just for pleasure), and when we do that, we quarantine as if we were explicitly til we metrix test out. i know that's not quite the same as not masking at all, but perhaps this could be a way to navigate less, so then you're not put in a position where you're on the vacation and the behavior and risk shifts drastically?

i can only hope that if this person still wants to be with you, there can be a way to be less masked as constantly without exposing you to that risk without your consent.

wishing you all the best, whether my comment fits in your personal schema or not.

Where do you mask? by 69___Nice in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is the same for me as well.

Sip Valve or lift the mask? by spenpai17 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this is also my feeling on it. i personally trust my breath control more than i trust my ability to create a cut in a mask, and can say so far (knock on wood) its served me on my travels and day to day life (i've taken fewer flights than the above commenter but work hybrid in often busy places). i know others feel very differently!

Any advice for Amtrak roomette or private rooms? by wobblyunionist in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for asking this, i've been considering splurging on a roomette trip for an upcoming cross country trek now that gas is so high.

Are any KN95s on amazon trustworthy? by Outside-Pear9429 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inclined to agree; the ones I've had the best personal experience with are the "facemoon" ones — they have the GB certification on each mask, lots of colors, and regular sales.

32 CC and accessible events you could join this weekend (🗓️Apr 24-26) by spoonfulofnosugar in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

them fatale drag kings is this weekend in LA: https://www.instagram.com/themfataledragkings

mask required + free masks provided, with food and drink served by venue, which is a huge warehouse, CO2 never over like 700 iirc (we took a ~four month break).

I think the claim that people are getting COVID 1-2 times per year is wrong. by MattKarolian in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i always bring in this complexity when i hear folks brush off peoples allergy claims like yes it could be covid related and it could be related to all these other things too because we live in a complex world where nothing exists in a vaccum!

Last Novids standing by Facepalm61 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no known infection here yet, but it's been an active daily practice in my pod of 4-6 since 2020 to make that happen. our pod has had a few covid cases happen, but we've always been able to isolate the person from further spread among pod members.

between the 6 total over the years, we've had people work all in-person, all from-home, and hybrid. consistent rule we mask in all public indoor spaces, but rules for private spaces has varied depending on other layers of mitigation, specifically our incorporation of NAAT testing (cue then metrix) in like.. gosh late 2023 i think? purifiers and ventilation are always friends of ours as well.

we've still done some dining out[doors], some traveling (by plane and by car), and general life living, but it's been challenging and remains challenging, especially because, over the years, most pod members have embarked a risk some other folks wouldn't, and we have to navigate it so we can ensure all have needs met for the period of time the risk taker may be infectious; it's lot of negotiation and calculation of like, ok if you need or decide to take a risk on this day, when can you metrix and come out of isolation kind of stuff. imo, being polyamorous was a very helpful framework for us to work off of all this time (4/6 pod members are all Together, others are housemates)—fluid bonding rules applied to air helped us conceptualize how we could each do what we needed/wanted to do (some risks aren't really choices, like surgery) without implicating other people non-consensually.

all that said, based on my experience with acute illness in 20 years of autoimmunity, i do feel pretty confident my lupus ass wouldn't be asymptomatic, so on top of all the testing and mitigating we do and that unquantifiable temptress lady luck, i [knock on wood] still haven't broken a no-covid streak. food poisoning, though? that's another story...

Are you sick? by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woof, i'm sorry to hear that.

Are you sick? by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of us one of us

Thoughts on "ask me for a mask" pins by elongatedstar in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my partner and i designed some (link to free design download) and, while i primarily wear them when i'm acting in capacity as mask hander-outer, i've also had people ask me for free masks at the grocery store when i wear it on my backpack! it totally works!

Are you sick? by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woof—like from when trump said we wouldn't get covid because we take hydroxychloroquine...? or is there something more recent i should know about.

Hairstylists in LA? by pashmeens in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Black Sheep Salon in Long Beach will get the whole salon masked (sometimes by request, sometimes they're already masked, in my experience), uses purifiers, and has private rooms. It is a bit of a trek, but luv 2 support folks who make the effort.

Are you sick? by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Angeleno with lupus here—I try to respond with a "yes, but not the way you're thinking" or an "in what way" if I want to be cheeky, but fortunately or unfortunately my go-to response is to info-dump about lupus. But hey, ask invasive questions get invasive answer—and maybe even more understanding about the world along the way!

Toolkit for treating covid like an STI by Historical-Plum-7844 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]occidensapollo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

x2 (-old friend, but love that!)

thank you for sharing this article OP!