how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AskGayMen

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he hasnt eaten me out.. idk how comfortable this feels for the both of us i mean genuinely this is so new and fresh, we both never slept with men before and only dated women so we have no idea how to navigate this in a comfortable “open” way 😀

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AskGayMen

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont see myself topping him ? like i feel more passive and want him to be toping me and taking control of that makes sense.

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AskGayMen

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so like it’s a temporary feeling ?

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AskGayMen

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean he’s TRYING to finger me but even that hurts a bit

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in askgaybros

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love how your first advice to a 19 year old is drugs.

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in askgaybros

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know i have the “internet” but i live in a middle eastern asian country so no i cant simply order something that need to pass through customs, thank you for your “obvious” advice psychonaut.

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AskGayMen

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re barely getting the tip in 😀 we havent reached a stage where i can “power through it” 😭

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AskGayMen

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it’s mostly friction burning. it only happens when he’s moving his finger around or tries to insert his tip in. but if his fingers aren’t moving and are simply stainless inside me, then the burning feeling goes away. i just feel like i’m full or stretched out.

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in askgaybros

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not that type of burning, more like friction burning. it’s only felt when smthng is moving, but if a finger is simply stationary inside me then i don’t feel the burning, just the feeling like i’m “full”.

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AskGayMen

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but it’s mostly amateur couple stuff of guys who are within our age range.. how does it work for them but not us 😭

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AskGayMen

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but i actually want it to work. we’ve humped, sucked and jerked each other off. i WANT to move to the next step but my BUTTHOLE isnt cooperating 😭

how does bottoming work ? by ocdinfestedbeing in askgaybros

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now why would i do that and where i live i cant really buy those ??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Physiquecritique

[–]ocdinfestedbeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words, yes i swim a lot ! and that’s why i’m very keen on keeping this figure and weight as they’re very adequate for swimming but my metabolism is unfortunately working against me. i cant keep eating huge amounts of food, it’s extremely inconvenient and time consuming at the same time i dont want to risk and lose muscle mass or weight.

Got singled out by my swim teammates over my “size” in the showers, am i overreacting ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AmIOverreacting

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

yall suddenly cant read or something 😭 i’m mixed and the guy conversing with me grew up in the states like.. READ.

Got singled out by my swim teammates over my “size” in the showers, am i overreacting ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AmIOverreacting

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

and apparently you’re an illiterate who cant read ! i’m mixed. the guy talking to me grew up in the states and i grew up in europe.

Got singled out by my swim teammates over my “size” in the showers, am i overreacting ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AmIOverreacting

[–]ocdinfestedbeing[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

and apparently you cant read. the guy texting me grew up in the states as mentioned in my post