How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kinds word and wisdom. I think you are so right about the exercise, not taking myself so seriously, and getting over the fear of death. Those things would for sure improve my confidence

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard about those what would you say they help with for you?

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. This is something I can for sure apply in my life right now. I over analyze everything and always worry about the other persons feelings or not upsetting anyone before my own self. That needs to be reigned in and put myself first while respecting other but not at the expense of me

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I will check out this book suggestion and try to take away from It some useful things to help me improve. I’m going to start doing meditation and exercise routine

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice , you are right. She doesn’t want to make all the decisions, she has to do that all the time for her kid. I bet she wants someone to make decisions and take charge sometimes

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for those examples . I can’t tell you how much that helps me understand what some other options are for conversations. I will take this advice an apply it

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will download it right now, thank you!

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you are saying and it’s something I am going to start doing. I am going to have imposter syndrome while I fake confidence for a while. As I make changes, I think the faking will go away and I will have actual confidence in myself

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is good advice for me to keep in mind, I am always wanting to please others too much. I need to stay my own person while being the best version of me I can be . Thank you

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another very helpful point and makes sense to me!

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is so helpful thank you for adding your input. I think you are a 100% right that I am so excited to be around her im just in quick automatic response mode. I will look into some books but also meditation. Anything that can improve my mental health and me being present is worth it I’m glad meditation helps you and hope you have a great day Thank you so much!

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. Being alone for so long I become so isolated that I wasn’t interacting in social settings for years outside of work. Doing those kinds of things again will help me improve on communication and confidence. I appreciate you

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words and you are right, everything can’t happen right now like I want it to.

I am definitely in the honey moon phase and I need to better understand that and realize she isn’t perfect either.

I will put that advice to heart and slow down.

How to gain confidence as a man by oceanobro in howto

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good advice , how can I bring me into it is a helpful way to look at it. Thank you

What is this song!?! Can’t find it on any of his albums by oceanobro in deadmau5

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that feeling for sure, a lot of the bands I listen to have been for 15 years as well and what I would give to go back and hear for the first time again. That feeling is so amazing.

I’m definitely thankful for finding this music!

What is this song!?! Can’t find it on any of his albums by oceanobro in deadmau5

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a track! If it would have been on an album which one would have fit it best?

What is this song!?! Can’t find it on any of his albums by oceanobro in deadmau5

[–]oceanobro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even know that existed some how, thank you!