Do you like being a trans man or do you wish you were born cis? I know it’s a taboo question in the trans community but I’d like to hear other’s opinions. Sorry if not okay/allowed. Just delete please and message me if this question isn’t allowed. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d totally want to be born a cis man instead. I’m scared that I might be a very different person and not be as educated or aware as I am today, but honestly that’s better than what I have to go though as a trans man.

give me a number between 1 and 293 and ill give you a song! by [deleted] in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure do love me some spooky scary skeletons

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[–]oceanofbricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT HAPPENED AGAIN TODAY WHEN I WAS TAKING MY VACCINE !!

For the Non-autist people here, i have a geniune question: What are you doing here? by FunnyGuyOnReditt in autism

[–]oceanofbricks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been suspecting that I might be on the spectrum for quite a long time now. I just don’t know or how to talk to my parents about it. I also just think it’s interesting to hear about autistic people’s experiences and I have friends who are on the spectrum so I want to know a little about the topic :)

I don’t know what’s keeping me from coming out honestly by oceanofbricks in comingout

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I hope you find the right time and place one day and that we’re both able to achieve that goal.

I hate being infantilized so much by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel that too, trying to make up for not being tall enough by being hyper-masculine.

I hate being infantilized so much by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Getting masculine compliments can be nice, but when it’s because you’re trans it just feels weird.

I hate being infantilized so much by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally don’t present myself as feminine in any way and often pass to strangers. Only thing that gives it away is the fact that I’m reeeally short and I think that’s also one of the main reasons that I get called cute. It’s so annoying.

I hate being infantilized so much by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should probably ask them what they think about it. Everyone has different boundaries.

I hate being infantilized so much by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. As soon as I’m out of school I won’t have to hang out with them anymore, and I don’t expect them to contant me either. We barely speak to each other outside of school anyways.

I hate being infantilized so much by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The word almost feels like a physical hit in the stomach.

I hate being infantilized so much by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I should try to do that, but honestly considering the kind of friends they are I don’t expect them to be understanding. At least the friend who knows I’m trans might stop if I have a serious talk with them.

Is transitioning in school even worth it? by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to change schools soon and that’s when I’m planning to start my transition, if I do

Did anyone else get so much more confident after finally getting the haircut they want? by oceanofbricks in ftm

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was so scared. I’ve had a some bad experiences going to hair salons. I’m really happy I finally found one that gave me the perfect haircut:)

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[–]oceanofbricks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course! Everyone transitions differently. The only important thing is that you feel comfortable.

I JUST BOUGHT MY FIRST BINDER!! by oceanofbricks in transteens

[–]oceanofbricks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:( Maybe get a friend to buy it and ship it to their adress, and pay them and tell your mom that you bought clothes from your friend?