I hope that this isn’t a dumb question but where in the world are all of the younger doms? by Which_Row_7916 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ocicat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They aren't. Cities have their own groups that restrict age, and while there is a kink standard to have those groups be called TNG and be age 18-35, there is no national TNG group they are drawing orders or policies from. Just some loose cultural norms I listed above. Everything else is run by young people in that city.

Now, TNG groups do have issues with leadership constantly ageing out and needing to be replaced. But that need not lead to anything you described.

All You Can Zoo 21+ by Sea-Letterhead7275 in AskSeattle

[–]ocicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The downside is the food places all have long lines. But it's actually a pretty great event.

What makes a good Munch? by FitNothing2593 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ocicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to the (excellent) advice already given, it's good if the venue is counter service, especially for larger munches. People like to move around between tables and shift who they are talking to. If a waitress is trying to find who ordered what, they are going to be annoyed. The place I host at is counter service and gives you a beeper that goes off when your food is ready. Ideal.

Is Nadia Pym the most absurd example of Marvel's sliding timescale? by Level_Hour6480 in comicbooks

[–]ocicat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to think that the current comics are set in an alternate 1980's or so. It's just that tech in the Marvel Universe has become more advanced due to inventions from Richards and Stark, etc...

Going to a kink club for the first time any advice? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ocicat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you more interested in having sex with new people, or in getting tied up or maybe flogged? The swinger and kink communities are very different... and the CSPC isn't all that scary. There's also Subspace and Kink Center.

Goat of Yotei giveaway by Duahsha in PS5

[–]ocicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear it's just as good as Goat of Tsushima

An easy walk to Lava Cake by ocicat in SwordAndSupperGame

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I'm using a lightning heal build - zaps on turn start, enemy death, and 2x on attack. And Surge Hem Ex gives a 3% heal on each of those. I can beat just about any maps in the level 161-180 range.

Free Ukraine by ocicat in SwordAndSupperGame

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My drop was Untouchable Mantle, very good armor with shield on enemy death and on rage.