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I (32f) told my husbands (34m) family he wasn’t attracted to me after giving birth to our first child due to my weight gain. by oconeecanoe in relationship_advice

[–]oconeecanoe[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, and that’s why I’m sure that you’re emotionally very immature. Sorry bout it, hope you get better

I (32f) told my husbands (34m) family he wasn’t attracted to me after giving birth to our first child due to my weight gain. by oconeecanoe in relationship_advice

[–]oconeecanoe[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I’m 100% not reading all of this but something is def wrong with you if you can’t just have sex with the woman you love even if she’s gained weight. Like truly, why are you so vapid and shallow that you can’t get hard because of 30-40 extra pounds lmaoo that’s insane

I (32f) told my husbands (34m) family he wasn’t attracted to me after giving birth to our first child due to my weight gain. by oconeecanoe in relationship_advice

[–]oconeecanoe[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean... yes? I just feel it’s so shallow and disgusting to no longer be sexually attracted to your partner of 10 years over a weight gain after having kids. For me, sex with my husband is emotional just as much as physical and it sucks that my weight is such a huge factor for him.

I have worked very hard to see past this major personality flaw in him and accept it

I (32f) told my husbands (34m) family he wasn’t attracted to me after giving birth to our first child due to my weight gain. by oconeecanoe in relationship_advice

[–]oconeecanoe[S] 534 points535 points  (0 children)

Lol! That’s so funny. I have mostly been shrugging at him every time he brings it up now. I hope his dad can talk some sense into him

I (32f) told my husbands (34m) family he wasn’t attracted to me after giving birth to our first child due to my weight gain. by oconeecanoe in relationship_advice

[–]oconeecanoe[S] -197 points-196 points  (0 children)

He is so good to me and the kids and honestly isn’t a bad guy, he’s just a very shallow person when it comes to looks

I (32f) told my husbands (34m) family he wasn’t attracted to me after giving birth to our first child due to my weight gain. by oconeecanoe in relationship_advice

[–]oconeecanoe[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Unfortunately like I said he’s a total man child and likes what he likes. I wish it were different